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Thread 19 - TalkLair: "The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long"

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Kucinghitam · 02/12/2025 21:36

(Previous thread 18)

Christmas is coming, the goose is getting fat...

In the TalkLair, the fairy lights are festooned on the mantlepiece, the tree is twinkling with baubles, the mince pies are in the oven, the MN legendary chicken is ready to feed the hordes. The denizens of the lair are a welcoming bunch, always eager for general chit-chat on all manner of topics. We just won’t mention the gnawed bones of our prey over there in the corner of the cave…

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ProfessorBinturong · 27/05/2026 21:06

Kucinghitam · 27/05/2026 06:28

Goodness, I thought maybe it was just me! I need people on screen to look as different from each other as possible or I will get them confused. Even better if they're also consistently dressed in particular styles/colours. Perhaps this is why I don't generally enjoy most serious-ish drama, especially the sort with moody lighting and desaturated colours.

I realise this makes me sound like I just watch children's TV Grin but I blame my face-blindness.

I never get the neighbourhood cats mixed up, though.

Cat and dogs, no problem at all. Interestingly, I can even identify chimps relatively easily despite them having less variation than humans.

artant · 28/05/2026 15:50

Possibly more people in public life should learn from Ant and Dec and always appear together in alphabetical order. Otherwise, big name badges all round.

Kucinghitam · 29/05/2026 14:50

Just drove past a Tesla with a bumper sticker “I BOUGHT THIS BEFORE ELON WENT CRAZY” Grin

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moto748e · 29/05/2026 14:53

No joke if you bought one, and some prick daubs "Swasticar" all over it. Can understand owners feeling a bit defensive.

Kucinghitam · 01/06/2026 09:38

Looks like the heatwave is over, at least here in ThatYorkshire. It's forecast to rain for the rest of the week and is getting rather cool as well. Always seems to be the way, May (and often April) are freakishly hot and dry, then June-July-August are cool and wet.

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moto748e · 01/06/2026 11:12

We didn't get the few hot days you usually get in April this year. But one benefit of living in the North is that it never gets 'too' hot in summer. London can be pretty oppressive in midsummer. Drizzle here now too.

Kucinghitam · 01/06/2026 11:27
Sweating James Mcavoy GIF

But one benefit of living in the North is that it never gets 'too' hot in summer. London can be pretty oppressive in midsummer.

Very true, although in even the mildest northern heatwave, the busses hereabouts would give the Tube a run for its money!

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Gonners · 01/06/2026 12:46

For no particular reason this has reminded me of a very cold winter in about 1987, and a Sunday stroll around leafy Barnes. I stopped at the pond and saw a small boy - aged about 2 - pestering the geese and swans. And then, when was right at the edge, one of them marched up behind him and very deliberately pushed him in.

His parents took it brilliantly, and treated it as a teaching opportunity: Do Not Bother Animals and Birds!

BetjemansBear · 01/06/2026 16:40

That made me laugh, Gonners. Bet he didn't do that again.

Gonners · 01/06/2026 18:40

It was an excellent example of middle-to-upper-middle-class parenting, from both the bird and the humans.

SinnerBoy · Yesterday 00:41

It's been drizzzly here today, but it's gone Biblical tonight. It's hammering down at the moment. I wanted to fill a crack between the front door frame and wall today and decided against it, because of weather.

Im hoping it'll die off tomorrow.

Gonners · Yesterday 08:05

It has just, in the past 10 minutes, started to chuck it down here. It's forecast to last all day ... though I console myself with the thought that the weather forecast is rarely correct here.

SqueakyDinosaur · Yesterday 08:46

Here in west London, it's rained off and on through the night, and then it started up again about half an hour ago. I can practically hear the garden being happy.

BetjemansBear · Yesterday 09:00

We had 17mm overnight which is a massive relief. We may get more this afternoon.

SqueakyDinosaur · Yesterday 09:51

And of course it means I get to use one of my favourite words - PETRICHOR.

moto748e · Yesterday 10:24

It's a king amongst words, there's no doubt of that.

Britinme · Yesterday 13:31

Meanwhile we’re still cooler than usual over here, though sunny this morning. I’ve lost track of what temperatures in C mean, but it’s generally been in the high 40s to mid 60s F for the last month, except for one glorious day when it hit 80. July is normally hot though, so we’re contemplating putting the air-conditioners in the window.

SqueakyDinosaur · Yesterday 14:25

I only got to grips with celsius after a friend taught me this rhyme:

Five, ten, twenty-one:
Winter, spring and summer sun.

artant · Yesterday 14:30

My brother seemed baffled by the word petrichor when I used it in response to him coming in saying there was that smell of summer rain on hard ground yesterday evening. It rained noisily in the night and again this morning. I guess the garden is happy.

I think I do all weather in Celsius now but for a long time I thought in Celsius in winter and Fahrenheit in summer (and was probably just a bit baffled in spring and autumn).

artant · Yesterday 14:46

And now there is thunder and lightning and the rain is beating against the front of the house. I guess it’s officially summer.

SqueakyDinosaur · Yesterday 14:53

Yep, absolutely hosing it down here!

BetjemansBear · Yesterday 15:04

We've also got thunder and it's moving closer. Wind's picking up too.

I got to where I was working this morning and found the village under a thick dark blanket of cloud and the moment I stepped into the garden, the heavens opened and the road at the front turned into a river. Then I realised I'd forgotten to put my waterproofs back in the car and they're in the hallway at home instead. At that point I gave up and will go again on Thursday.

BetjemansBear · Yesterday 15:19

Here it comes, big ol' fat rain!

SqueakyDinosaur · Yesterday 16:24

Sun out here, and the air smells amazing - clean and fresh and grassy. Even in London!

Britinme · Yesterday 19:36

Five C on a winter day here would be considered balmy and unusually warm. -5C would be a fairly normal Maine winter.

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