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Thread 19 - TalkLair: "The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long"

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Kucinghitam · 02/12/2025 21:36

(Previous thread 18)

Christmas is coming, the goose is getting fat...

In the TalkLair, the fairy lights are festooned on the mantlepiece, the tree is twinkling with baubles, the mince pies are in the oven, the MN legendary chicken is ready to feed the hordes. The denizens of the lair are a welcoming bunch, always eager for general chit-chat on all manner of topics. We just won’t mention the gnawed bones of our prey over there in the corner of the cave…

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DeanElderberry · 03/12/2025 15:52

Nice and shiny here.

BetjemansBear · 03/12/2025 16:17

It's Veg, I decided to have a new name.

Lovely tribute to your GM, Rasa. She saw so much in her time here and it must have been strange for her look back on how different life was when she was young.

Your feelings about your GM are very similar to mine about my dad. His dementia started some years before he died and I kind of did my grieving for him then. After that it was one crisis after another, him going into hospital for one thing after another and always miraculously getting better but going home more frail each time. I will miss him to the end of my days, but in the end, it was a profound relief when he was no longer struggling and everyone could rest.

moto748e · 03/12/2025 16:26

Knocked out another batch of Fisherman's Stout this afternoon. All done and dusted and washed up now, really settled into this beer on the hob process now. Currently cooling out in the yard in a trub of cold water.

BezMills · 03/12/2025 16:44

We're going through that with my DFiL.

He's gone into hospital yesterday with flu. He's a tough old dog but there's a part of me hoping that he doesn't come home. DMiL is running on fumes as his carer and ideally he should be in facility set up to meet his needs. As well as the fear of herself keeling over, we're also really worried about her safety.

It's shit, my poor wife is going through it

BetjemansBear · 03/12/2025 16:51

Eesh, it really is 'that time' for so many of us at the moment.

My brother summed it up well: "We all knew it was coming and needed to come soon but... it is still shit." And it is.

BetjemansBear · 03/12/2025 16:53

moto748e · 03/12/2025 16:26

Knocked out another batch of Fisherman's Stout this afternoon. All done and dusted and washed up now, really settled into this beer on the hob process now. Currently cooling out in the yard in a trub of cold water.

Funny, I was thinking about you and your stout-making earlier today while I working and here you are just having made some.

Gonners · 03/12/2025 17:01

In MeMeMe news, I may have solved the mystery caller question from the other day. It was probably the GP, calling about a letter from Cardiology at the local hospital. We got a copy in today's post. They have just realised that MrG has fallen off their list (or, as the consultant puts it, "been lost to follow up", which is rather charming). It asks whether it "might be unreasonable to subject him to further surveillance as the result would clearly not impact on his ongoing management". Surveillance sounds quite menacing!

Basically I assume that means is that the aortic valve replacement the Italians put in almost 15 years ago is due to pack up at any time now (it's animal tissue - cow, as I recall - rather than synthetic) and as he's 83 years old with Alzheimer's, replacing it probably ain't gonna happen, but what does the GP think.

I know what I think, which is that whenever he goes into hospital he comes out mentally worse and the last two men to die in our road (both, coincidentally, in their early 80s) died in surgery. I can't get through to the GP, but will perhaps drop a note in tomorrow.

Kucinghitam · 04/12/2025 09:19

Ah, that makes sense @Gonners

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ProfessorBinturong · 04/12/2025 09:51

It does seem a substantial risk for questionable benefit, Gonners.

Next stage of the glassware audit: 25 red wine glasses and 11 white wine ones. None of the ones in reasonable sized sets fit in the dishwasher, a lot of the ones that do fit are in 3s - which is an unhelpful number except once a year when MaBint visits. Tempted to charity shop the lot and buy new.

MyrtleLion · 04/12/2025 10:31

Love what you've done to the place!

Kucinghitam · 04/12/2025 10:43

ChatGPT made this based on the opening post Grin

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BetjemansBear · 04/12/2025 11:49

That looks delightful, though a few more bones on the pile would be good.

Gonners · 04/12/2025 16:36

BetjemansBear · 04/12/2025 11:49

That looks delightful, though a few more bones on the pile would be good.

I don't think squirrels and rabbits eat a lot of meat (though they are eyeing that chicken with glee).

Back to square one on the mystery phone calls, as I called the GP's surgery and although they received the letter electronically, the receptionist could see that the Doc hadn't read it yet. (In his defence, they are minus a GP at the moment.) I told her we both agreed with the consultant and am now going to forget about it. It may well have been something to do with one of the three other appointments he is in the queue for, including one that was flagged as "urgent" back in May but turned out to have a 52-week waiting list. Probably best to just forget about all of it. MrG already has! 🙄

BetjemansBear · 04/12/2025 17:12

It's so crap we get all this confusing nonsense just when we need sense. I hope you get it sorted, Gonners.

BetjemansBear · 04/12/2025 17:13

I don't think squirrels and rabbits eat a lot of meat

A friend once told me she saw a squirrel up a tree eating a pork pie so they're probably omnivores.

Kucinghitam · 04/12/2025 17:25

I've had a while to stew on this whilst steaming on the bus. And despite now being home, warm and dry, am still slightly annoyed. Enough to draw a diagram and post a lengthy rant on here! Bearing in mind I'm probably a bit extra-irritable with loss of GM.

Going home from work, it's dark and pouring with rain. Get to the bus stop, the convention of course is to join the queue at the back of the stop. People are crammed into the bus stop trying to get out of the rain which makes it particularly difficult to move forward or backward. The bus stop design has an opening at the front on the road-side where you get on the bus, an opening at the back on the pavement-side where you join the queue, and another opening halfway along, pavement-side. The road is a bit curved so we don't get a lot of notice that a bus is coming, but it's enough.

A bus arrives, people start boarding, we all shuffle forward, until bus is full and drives away. This happens to leave 7-8 young-looking people at the front of the queue. People are still joining at the back and starting to gather around the outside of the stop.

A bus approaches round the bend, general buzz of anticipation from some of us. Not a single one of the young people at the front makes any kind of movement - some are staring at their phones. By the time I realise that nobody is stopping the bus and start to move, it's too late - the bus zooms past. I said something rude out loud to the world in general (not that anybody would have heard me with their earbuds on).

Eventually it looks like another bus is approaching, this time a middle-aged woman near the back shouts desperately "Can somebody flag down the bus PLEASE!!" and again it's obvious that none of the young people at the front are going to move (or even if they heard her). I'm near the halfway opening, so I snap something like "For God's sake!!" push past a couple of people, run around several more on the pavement towards the road and frantically wave my arm. The driver sees me and stops the bus neatly in front of the bus stop opening.

Those same people who had been uselessly standing at the front, now obliviously board the magic bus which had magically stopped in front of their good faces, whilst I'm left standing outside the bus stop (having lost my place in the queue) in torrential rain Angry

Until it's the turn of the woman who had shouted and saw what I did, who waves me in front of her and thanks me for stopping the bus Flowers I was still high on furious menopausal adrenaline, so I mumbled something like "I just got The Rage!' so she now probably thinks I'm a loon.

As for all the people who caused me The Rage, presumably they're mystified by how buses work and if they noticed anything at all, are probably Snapchatting their friends about the mad middle-aged woman who caused a scene shouting "STOP THE BUS!" and the other mad middle-aged Asian woman who caused more of a scene shouting "FOR GOD SAKE!" and running out into the rain waving her arms for no reason whatsoever.

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BetjemansBear · 04/12/2025 17:32

Righteous Fury from two absolutely correct women, imho.

Those kids will grow up at some point, maybe when they've spent enough time getting soaked on a wet December day instead of flagging the bus down.

Gonners · 04/12/2025 20:33

I think people under the age of 40, especially women with small children (no misogyny here, but it's generally the mothers) who think ALL their children are entitled to a seat of their own, regardless of the number of seriously old/disabled people staggering in the aisle, should be banned from buses. As to the rest, if they're too bloody stupid to flag a bus down, the death penalty (by pushing them under said bus if necessary - scraping them off the bumper might delay the journey further, but it would be worth it) would seem appropriate.

It's probably a good thing I've never succeeded in becoming Dictator - couldn't be arsed filling in the forms.

SinnerBoy · 04/12/2025 21:59

Squirrels are definitely carnivorous, they eat baby birds from thd nest and I've heard mice and voles, if they can.

And I have learned today, barbarous Philistine that I am, that red and white wine have different glasses.

Sorry to hear of the bus woes!

moto748e · 04/12/2025 22:50

That seems fair and proportionate, Gonners.

ProfessorBinturong · 04/12/2025 22:57

Technically, there are different glasses for different types within the red and white categories as well. I've not gone that far.

Red squirrels have a fairly limited diet but greys will go for almost anything they can get their paws on. One of the reasons they've pushed the reds out is that they're not affected by food shortages in the same way.

Gonners · 05/12/2025 10:44

Disaster of the morning was the wifi wasn't connecting on my PC ... which is about 2 paces from the router. I couldn't even look up how to fix it without running to and from MrG's machine in another room and writing down the bloody instructions (which didn't work). The onboard wifi chip (or whatever) has perhaps gone phut. Much rage ensued. An hour later it occurred to me to just plug in a LAN cable. I really shouldn't be allowed out on my own.

Some idiot (not me) has also unplugged the wifi extension wotsit in the other room, which has helpfully unpaired it from the router. MrG's connection seems to be okay without it, though, so I shall let sleeping doohickeys lie.

artant · 05/12/2025 20:49

I think if I’d had to run round the bus queue in the rain to flag the bus down I’d have expected to be first on, frankly!

Gonners · 05/12/2025 21:22

In apparently GOOD NEWS, I left the wifi extension whatnot plugged in and (crucially) switched on at the wall - still a couple of rooms away from the router - and told it to sort itself out. When we came home from shopping it had stopped sulking and re-paired itself.

This is obviously ominous and by tomorrow nothing will be working.

Kucinghitam · 06/12/2025 09:24

Fingers crossed for your WiFi @Gonners!

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