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What random nugget of information were you completely unaware of before you discovered mumsnet?

396 replies

777holyandsinless · 27/11/2025 20:12

I’ll start

it being a commonly held idea that itv is uncouth and bbc is the classy alternative

OP posts:
PigletJohn · 28/11/2025 16:41

ColaWars · 28/11/2025 15:39

Loo brushes give me the actual boak.

I prefer paper.

Gottabeehonest · 28/11/2025 16:44

Well it's all about choices. Any fine particles of poo trapped in the bristles of a bog brush that have been scrubbed against the toilet bowl with thick bleach worry me a whole lot less that anything which has just left someone's arse, ditto dirty arses and underwear. If I sat and thought about it, I'd never take a seat on a chair that anyone else had previously sat on. There's no knowing what might have seeped through.

ScarlettOYara · 28/11/2025 16:55

PigletJohn · 28/11/2025 16:41

I prefer paper.

😂😂

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 28/11/2025 17:18

shuggles · 28/11/2025 15:24

@RescueMeFromThisSilliness How do you clean your toilet then?

Using rolled up toilet paper for anything above the water line. Bleach to clean below the water line.

And why is a toilet brush unhygienic? You don't use it for cleaning anything else.

It has lots of fine bristles, so particles of shit get trapped within it. All toilet brushes have visible pieces of shit. Those fine bristles can easily flick and spray tiny droplets of water/shit when they make incidental contact with the toilet rim.

Not using the brush for anything else is irrelevant. You are using a brush to clean shit from your toilet, and then you are leaving that brush in your bathroom which means it is possible for accidental contact or contamination to occur.

I am less bothered by shit inside a toilet than by shit being outside of a toilet.

My toilet brush does not have visible pieces of shit on it, thanks very much. That's because it gets cleaned properly. Nobody comes into accidental contact with the bristles of a brush inside a container. And so what if there are tiny droplets of water/shit on the toilet rim? I don't eat my dinner off it, and you get droplets every time you flush it anyway. Even with the lid down, which I assume most people do when flushing anyway.

So you use rolled up toilet paper and bleach - what with, your bare hands?😂

sickleaveornot · 28/11/2025 17:27

The people don't open their doors unless someone has appointment 😂

MsVisual · 28/11/2025 17:27

For those that don't wash pet bowls in the dishwasher, what is the reason? Dishwashers wash dishes and do it very well. Clue is in the name

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 28/11/2025 17:28

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 28/11/2025 17:18

My toilet brush does not have visible pieces of shit on it, thanks very much. That's because it gets cleaned properly. Nobody comes into accidental contact with the bristles of a brush inside a container. And so what if there are tiny droplets of water/shit on the toilet rim? I don't eat my dinner off it, and you get droplets every time you flush it anyway. Even with the lid down, which I assume most people do when flushing anyway.

So you use rolled up toilet paper and bleach - what with, your bare hands?😂

Surely it is better if all the faecal matter stays inside the toilet. If we're advised to close the lid before flushing, then how does it make sense to use a brush, thus potentially transferring matter out of the toilet bowl? Nope. Not for me thanks.

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 28/11/2025 17:34

MsVisual · 28/11/2025 17:27

For those that don't wash pet bowls in the dishwasher, what is the reason? Dishwashers wash dishes and do it very well. Clue is in the name

We don't have a dishwasher. If we had a dishwasher I wouldn't use it for pet bowls because it's easier to just wash them by hand as soon as they've been used. We have a plastic washing up bowl for our own items but do pet ones in the metal sink. They have separate sponge and tea towels. Multi pet household with both cats and dogs.

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 28/11/2025 17:40

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 28/11/2025 17:28

Surely it is better if all the faecal matter stays inside the toilet. If we're advised to close the lid before flushing, then how does it make sense to use a brush, thus potentially transferring matter out of the toilet bowl? Nope. Not for me thanks.

I've been wielding a toilet brush for over half a century and haven't come to any harm yet.

Life is genuinely too short to be obsessively paranoid about this non-issue.

Conniebygaslight · 28/11/2025 17:47

That so many people had no idea about king/super king duvets going across the cover and had been sleeping with Ill fitting bedding for years.

moto748e · 28/11/2025 17:58

Despite the mega-hygiene displayed elsewhere, my ghast is flabbered by the number of people who think it's OK to share your bed with a dog.

shuggles · 28/11/2025 18:00

@RescueMeFromThisSilliness My toilet brush does not have visible pieces of shit on it, thanks very much. That's because it gets cleaned properly.

I have never seen a toilet brush that doesn't have shit on it.

Nobody comes into accidental contact with the bristles of a brush inside a container.

But the brush is in your bathroom. So in principle, it presents a contamination risk so long as it's there.

And so what if there are tiny droplets of water/shit on the toilet rim?

You misunderstand. If a bristle touches the rim, or any other surface, it gets flicked. So the water and shit gets flicked to another part of your bathroom, where it can end up on your hand if you touch that surface.

you get droplets every time you flush it anyway.

I prefer to minimise the spread of shit though.

So you use rolled up toilet paper and bleach - what with, your bare hands?

The toilet paper is rolled up between my hand and the shit, and I let go before anything soaks through, so the shit doesn't get on my hand.

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 28/11/2025 18:35

Gottabeehonest · 28/11/2025 16:44

Well it's all about choices. Any fine particles of poo trapped in the bristles of a bog brush that have been scrubbed against the toilet bowl with thick bleach worry me a whole lot less that anything which has just left someone's arse, ditto dirty arses and underwear. If I sat and thought about it, I'd never take a seat on a chair that anyone else had previously sat on. There's no knowing what might have seeped through.

I feel like that about sitting on a sofa that a dog has sat on. Bare dog arse 💩

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 28/11/2025 19:36

Twirlyhockey · 28/11/2025 10:07

Racist undertone might have disappeared for you, but you don't get to speak for everyone. If any Irish people find it racist that's a good enough reason to just not say it.

An Irish tour company is allowed to reclaim a term, the same way as I as a white southern English middle aged woman would never say "Hey, my n-word" to a friend but black people in Atlanta are completely within their rights to choose to do so.

Sorry - I should have been clearer. I am an Irish person and don't find English people using the phrase offensive because I'm quite sure none of them understand the derivation.

What I did find offensive was being an Irish national going to school in London in the 1970s and the many, many 'jokes' about my family being terrorists.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 28/11/2025 19:46

That new parents need a whole month for their little family to ‘bond’, so no visitors, not even grandparents - how dare they think they’re entitled? Especially any ( obviously) evil MiL.

SouthernNights59 · 28/11/2025 20:25

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 28/11/2025 17:40

I've been wielding a toilet brush for over half a century and haven't come to any harm yet.

Life is genuinely too short to be obsessively paranoid about this non-issue.

Not only have I been wielding a toilet brush for over half a century, I also don't put the lid down before flushing and I am rarely ill (and never with anything related to my loo).

Honestly, I don't know how people can give head space to such trivial matters.

canklesmctacotits · 28/11/2025 20:26

God, so so much. I’m a British citizen but live overseas. I still have the right to vote. I base my vote on the news, my family and friends and - probably more than family and friends because they’re all pretty much from the same socio-economic class - MN. All the benefits system stuff; state school education; NHS; all the flag bullshit - there’s a diversity of opinion on here which is really useful to me. Before anyone comes at me I know MN is social media, it’s not the gospel truth. But I’m old and wise enough to be able to sort the bots from the people and discern agendas, and it’s also only one resource.

katepilar · 28/11/2025 21:09

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 27/11/2025 23:59

Because your laundry will dry faster.

How would that be possible? I could understand if you just spin it again, but if you make it all wet again, how does it help?

godmum56 · 28/11/2025 21:23

RelativePitch · 28/11/2025 13:40

FWIW I don't put my pet bowls in the dishwasher, but it is entirely psychological.
I always use the 70° intense cycle which is unsurvivable for most pathogens I imagine.
But aside from that, I have shared a lifetime with cats and dogs and they have never made me ill nor given me parasites.
The DCs on the other hand....

yup, no kids here but my late dogs had fleas twice ever. Once when I brought them into the house from a home visit, I used to work in the NHS. The second time my husband picked them up from a taxi. He used to travel a lot for busness and the company always used the same firm. The driver, who we knew well phoned to apologise as a previous customer had infested the cab and he had to have it treated. Yes my pet dishes have always gone in the dishwasher.

godmum56 · 28/11/2025 21:31

reelcat · 28/11/2025 10:15

That pumpkin oil capsules would change my life and massively improve my overactive bladder

the cooking type is delicous swirled on soup too.

Christmasfairyishairy · 28/11/2025 21:33

thecatneuterer · 28/11/2025 15:39

You can microwave a whole swede. It's been life changing 😂

You can what now?

Tourmalines · 28/11/2025 21:45

BeaRightThere · 28/11/2025 16:39

I've found this site genuinely very useful in terms of parenting advice especially in the baby years and I've also been thoroughly entertained by some of the posters here, many of whom are clever and funny and wise.

That said, one thing that I've learned is that many women are much more misandrist than I ever realised. This gets justified on here by talk about how men are hopeless or violent or whatever and of course some men are. But I find the way men are talked about on here to be often genuinely hateful and unpleasant and it makes me think less of women for it. I feel the same way when I read the awful stuff said in the manosphere about women. It's depressing that there seems to be an inability to recognise that men are just people. There's a tendency here to treat them as one uniform blob. You see it all the time: a poster complains about a husband who commits some minor offence and there will inevitably be the "I had one of these" response. One of these, like you're talking about an appliance not a person. And on and on it goes.

I also find it bizarre that on a site which seemingly does recognise the fact that biological sex exists and has an effect on behaviour, there's so little recognition of the fact that men, by and large, will not behave the way women do in every situation. Men's continued desire for sex is frequently treated as abhorrent, as disgusting or perverted. It surprises me that so many women get married, have children and then seem to think that's it as far as sex goes.

I'm also saddened by the number of women who don't seem to care at all about their husband's family and in fact often go out of their way to make that relationship difficult.

I suppose the TLDR is that reading Mumsnet over many years has made me realise that women are just as petty, selfish and cruel as men which is no surprise really but nevertheless makes for depressing reading sometimes.

Agree. It’s a pit for man hate most of the time .

wiffin · 28/11/2025 21:48

anotherside · 28/11/2025 10:28

Ok devils advocate, but why wouldn’t it be morally ok to rescue a family pet of 15 or 20 years (ie an intelligent living creature that you have a deep emotional connection with and responsibility toward) rather than a random stranger. Or a family pet rather than some rapist/murderer.

Edited

Because the example was a hypothetical situation with a burning building, a dog and a human baby? And if you seriously think a pet, however loved, should be saved and a baby left to burn. Well, there are no words frankly.

wiffin · 28/11/2025 21:50

(BTW this is MUMSNET. A site primarily (but not exclusively) for MUMS. Of actual babies. Ffs)

NewDogOwner · 28/11/2025 21:55

No is a complete sentence.

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