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Tax TAx TAX!!!!!! Fuming at our government!

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Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 13:29

please try and convince me otherwise…..

What a joke this government are!!! ( UK)

Let’s just tax everyone who earns a bit of cash!!! Oh and while we’re at it… go on have loads more children it’s ok others will pay for them!!! Cutting the 2child benefit cap! If you decide to have multiple children you should be able to afford to provide for them. NOT expect others too!!!!! If you fall on hard times and you’ve worked and contributed to paying tax than you are within your rights to claim tax this is what benefits were made for, it’s not a means to not work, have more kids….etc!

Oh and if you work really hard and want to put some money by for you later days in life…. You’ll be taxed!

My situation:
Part time work, full time mum to 1 child. I work for myself and earn around 10k this money usually pays for things our daughter needs… clothes, clubs, any treats.
Husband works long hours, his under a lot of stress with his job, he has worked his way to and earns a very good salary 100k he gets taxed 60% you do the maths on that! We live in a 3 bed around £280k so nothing crazy but live within our means. We have one car! One holiday a year! Put money into savings! Pension! our daughter goes to one after school club. My husband got kicked out of home at 16…. He has worked with no help from family or friends and I believe he has worked very hard to get to where he is now. we are generous with charity’s and try our best to help out when we can if we can!

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Allmywishcometrue · 26/11/2025 20:54

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 20:26

think I would 😂😂 I am actually very jealous of many people on benefits… I want to chill at home and get my nails done every couple of weeks. Instead I’m up every day surviving on coffee and avoiding turning the heating on 😂 I’m a mug!

Sell your house, spend all your money, quit your job and start living that benefit life you dream about?

Life is too short to whine about something so easily accessible to you!

Lisanne55 · 26/11/2025 20:55

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 20:32

Exactly this! The comment you’re replying to clearly has a narrow view on things.
mum happy supporting the NHS/council tax…. What I’m not happy with is paying out our hard earned money… yes we both work damn hard for the wages! To be paid to people deciding if it’s wise to have a 5th child! The ones who don’t work because you get more on benefits!!!! This country is a joke! There is a huge divide!

Surely if you earn £10k, you are not paying any income tax at all.

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 20:56

Allmywishcometrue · 26/11/2025 20:54

Sell your house, spend all your money, quit your job and start living that benefit life you dream about?

Life is too short to whine about something so easily accessible to you!

I think I will 😂

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Goldwren1923 · 26/11/2025 20:57

I’m confused which tax enraged you so much. As a higher rate taxpayer.

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 20:57

Lisanne55 · 26/11/2025 20:55

Surely if you earn £10k, you are not paying any income tax at all.

I think she means she works hard for her husband’s wages. Fail to see how earning 10k can be hard work, or for very many hours.

Goldwren1923 · 26/11/2025 20:57

Also you personally don’t work hard for your salary and are not paying any tax on it

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 26/11/2025 21:00

Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 13:32

That's a bit rich considering you work part time. How lucky you are that you married someone who can subsidise that choice you've made.

Nice!

eta - that’s sarcasm

Dontbeatwat · 26/11/2025 21:00

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 20:48

I don’t know the finer details of how my husband’s accounts work but I know for a fact he pays 60% tax! He doesn’t get the 12k allowance, we don’t get any child benefits.

Well if he's telling you that, he's hiding money away somewhere. And the 12k allowance starts tapering at 100k , you don't lose it completely until you earn 125k. Either he's not being honest with you or you're just not bothering to understand. And this (shit) system has been in place for years, it hasn't suddenly changed under this budget.

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:01

Lisanne55 · 26/11/2025 20:55

Surely if you earn £10k, you are not paying any income tax at all.

She uses it to pay for things for her daughter!

so that’s 10k those don’t have on uc

and this poster is bemoaning them having an extra few hundred a month to spend on such things as food and clothes for their children

much less than 10k a year on one child for treats etc

Mrswhiskers87 · 26/11/2025 21:01

People moan about the state of services etc and then don’t want to pay tax. The most efficient countries with good quality of life are high tax countries.

nearlylovemyusername · 26/11/2025 21:01

Clonakilla · 26/11/2025 20:52

I’m sure you don’t mean this to sound as cold, calculating and frankly lazy as it does……..

I made a choice to become sufficiently educated and skilled that I can support myself and my children. I was then free to marry whomever I liked and never had to treat another human being as a meal ticket.

There would be a massive change in society if all women dropped the idea that someone else will pick up the bill for them one day. Or if we got rid of the notion that working parents aren’t raising their children; if we all accepted that an essential responsibility of parenting is paying for the child, there’d be quite a big chance in society too.

I'm on the same page with you - I got education and built a successful career to become a high rate taxpayer, self sufficient and able to privately educate my DC out of my salary alone.

OP made different choice in life, we know nothing about her profession (if any), if she's going to go back to work, but she had a child with a man who can support their family. Unlike many who keep on having a baby with every new man etc.

The point I'm trying to make is that OP, and you, made responsible choices, and call it lucky is just stupid

MintDog · 26/11/2025 21:01

Almost identical situation. Utterly crazy that we should be worse off than both of us working £50k jobs and getting free childcare. I also earn around the £12k mark. Zero UC top ups, no child benefit (not saying we need it but why should a couple who both earn £50k get it? Should go on household income) where's the incentive for my husband to work even harder? He works away so I'm basically a single parent household working evenings so I can get the kids to where they need to be (one is disabled)

I might add, we didn't have a third child because we can't afford it. Sick of people choosing to have 4 kids and then expecting everyone else to pay for their choice,

MacBLT · 26/11/2025 21:04

Goldwren1923 · 26/11/2025 20:57

I’m confused which tax enraged you so much. As a higher rate taxpayer.

Yeah just read all OPs posts and none the wiser.

Sort’ve reads as though the totality of the thought was “TAX BAD!” with no other rational thought behind it.

Lots of earners who make slightly more than 100k are able to salary sacrifice successfully, perhaps OPs husband needs to ensure he has explored all of his options.

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:04

nearlylovemyusername · 26/11/2025 21:01

I'm on the same page with you - I got education and built a successful career to become a high rate taxpayer, self sufficient and able to privately educate my DC out of my salary alone.

OP made different choice in life, we know nothing about her profession (if any), if she's going to go back to work, but she had a child with a man who can support their family. Unlike many who keep on having a baby with every new man etc.

The point I'm trying to make is that OP, and you, made responsible choices, and call it lucky is just stupid

Wonder what help they had 😉

I can’t believe people get to such priveleged position and then moan about those having a life like shameless and are jealous of them!

begs belief

just enjoy your good fortune and celebrate you were probably never a young carer for your family or a carer at all

BakedAlaskaInMyTummy · 26/11/2025 21:06

MacBLT · 26/11/2025 21:04

Yeah just read all OPs posts and none the wiser.

Sort’ve reads as though the totality of the thought was “TAX BAD!” with no other rational thought behind it.

Lots of earners who make slightly more than 100k are able to salary sacrifice successfully, perhaps OPs husband needs to ensure he has explored all of his options.

Until 2028, when you get rinsed on that too…

Covidwoes · 26/11/2025 21:08

I honestly don’t understand how a family on £100k plus feels hard done by. DH and I both work, and our joint income is £70k. We live in the South East, so not a cheap area. We don’t have great savings and can’t afford to save a penny for our 2 young children at the moment, but we consider ourselves to be very lucky to have what we do.

I find it very hard to sympathise when I am teaching children whose families can’t afford shoes (and that isn’t through lack of aspiration. Rather very sad, unfortunate circumstances).

Coffeeandbooks88 · 26/11/2025 21:09

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 20:56

I think I will 😂

That would be classed as deprivation of capital.

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 21:10

Coffeeandbooks88 · 26/11/2025 21:09

That would be classed as deprivation of capital.

I’m obviously not, but I’m certainly going to make some changes. Many others exploit the system (not saying I necessarily will), but I do feel demotivated, and that it’s not worth working hard and aspiring to having a family.

AutumnLover1989 · 26/11/2025 21:12

Fuming re the news on electric cars 😡

nearlylovemyusername · 26/11/2025 21:13

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:04

Wonder what help they had 😉

I can’t believe people get to such priveleged position and then moan about those having a life like shameless and are jealous of them!

begs belief

just enjoy your good fortune and celebrate you were probably never a young carer for your family or a carer at all

Edited

you see, this is exactly your mindset - that what some of us achieved are just luck and/or privilege.

FYI - I've been a carer for over 20 years, one of my DC has disability. I grew up in severe poverty with my parents going hungry to be able to feed me. I just worked both very hard and smart all my life to escape such poverty.

But you're welcome to believe it's luck or privilege. The issue is that as long as you believe it you'll never progress.

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:16

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 21:10

I’m obviously not, but I’m certainly going to make some changes. Many others exploit the system (not saying I necessarily will), but I do feel demotivated, and that it’s not worth working hard and aspiring to having a family.

It’s very sad you can’t see your privilege

Lilacbluewaters · 26/11/2025 21:16

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 21:10

I’m obviously not, but I’m certainly going to make some changes. Many others exploit the system (not saying I necessarily will), but I do feel demotivated, and that it’s not worth working hard and aspiring to having a family.

The only families on benefits I know that are lapping up pretty good lives are those being fraudulent earning cash on the side or claiming disability money which is still pretty piss poor and doesn’t exactly allow them foreign holidays. They want to crack down on fraud but honestly I know of many fraudulent families and they all seem to get away with it- really annoys me but what can you do. Majority of families in receipt of benefits that are genuine and not fraudulent are struggling, so lifting this benefit cap for children will help tremendously. I also doubt it will make people have more kids, you’ve got to be a certain type of person to have more children for the sake of an extra couple hundred a month.

Correctomundo · 26/11/2025 21:17

HermioneWeasley · 26/11/2025 13:34

Why is that “a bit rich”? They’ve made a decision as a family and aren’t asking anyone me to fund it

Same decision DH and I have made. Not a single penny taken from the taxpayer.

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 21:17

nearlylovemyusername · 26/11/2025 21:13

you see, this is exactly your mindset - that what some of us achieved are just luck and/or privilege.

FYI - I've been a carer for over 20 years, one of my DC has disability. I grew up in severe poverty with my parents going hungry to be able to feed me. I just worked both very hard and smart all my life to escape such poverty.

But you're welcome to believe it's luck or privilege. The issue is that as long as you believe it you'll never progress.

Edited

I too come from a working class background and grew up in poverty, and also have a disabled child.

Our household income is £100k+, and my salary (the higher of the two) is in the higher tax threshold.

I have worked very hard for what I have, myself and my partner both do, in very challenging circumstances. But that still puts me in a privileged position, because I have means that others don’t - even if they do have more sleep!

Having more doesn’t automatically mean that you have to be comfortable with so many living in the poverty I did.

I think the right thing to do is pay the tax that is due and be pleased it’s going to people more vulnerable. It’s a shame for some people having more equates to being more selfish.

PeonyPatch · 26/11/2025 21:17

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 21:16

It’s very sad you can’t see your privilege

It’s not privilege though, I work very hard for very little pay off. I feel trapped and depressed.

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