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Tax TAx TAX!!!!!! Fuming at our government!

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Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 13:29

please try and convince me otherwise…..

What a joke this government are!!! ( UK)

Let’s just tax everyone who earns a bit of cash!!! Oh and while we’re at it… go on have loads more children it’s ok others will pay for them!!! Cutting the 2child benefit cap! If you decide to have multiple children you should be able to afford to provide for them. NOT expect others too!!!!! If you fall on hard times and you’ve worked and contributed to paying tax than you are within your rights to claim tax this is what benefits were made for, it’s not a means to not work, have more kids….etc!

Oh and if you work really hard and want to put some money by for you later days in life…. You’ll be taxed!

My situation:
Part time work, full time mum to 1 child. I work for myself and earn around 10k this money usually pays for things our daughter needs… clothes, clubs, any treats.
Husband works long hours, his under a lot of stress with his job, he has worked his way to and earns a very good salary 100k he gets taxed 60% you do the maths on that! We live in a 3 bed around £280k so nothing crazy but live within our means. We have one car! One holiday a year! Put money into savings! Pension! our daughter goes to one after school club. My husband got kicked out of home at 16…. He has worked with no help from family or friends and I believe he has worked very hard to get to where he is now. we are generous with charity’s and try our best to help out when we can if we can!

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Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:48

Pollqueen · 26/11/2025 13:31

I agree OP but suspect you're about to get flamed!

I know!!!! We have a labour government now that says it all! I’m looking forward to reading some of these replies!!!!

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Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 19:48

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 26/11/2025 19:43

Because not everyone is selfishly only out for themselves?!

Yes me too

I don’t want to see Victorian levels of poverty

BananaPeels · 26/11/2025 19:49

countingdowntotheholidays · 26/11/2025 19:46

*impoverished

@SnowQueens Those children exist though and if they grow up in abject poverty they are more likely to have children that go on to do the same.

I suppose it’s like some people support giving money to international development/ countries in crisis and other people say ‘meh charity begins at home, nothing to do with us.’ It’s about whether we are collectively responsible as a society or completely individualistic (and your lot there depends in part on hard work but a large part is down to luck - where you are born & if you are in good health!)

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Shouldn’t their parents be incentivised to break the cycle though? Force them into work if they aren’t. If you put money into excellent nursery/ wrap around car, the children will be well fed and it will help them get prepared for school and keep them warm. Isn’t that where the money should go?

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Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:50

Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 13:32

That's a bit rich considering you work part time. How lucky you are that you married someone who can subsidise that choice you've made.

Errrmmm don’t most people who have young children work part time???? Otherwise it’s full time care which costs a bomb!

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Crikeyalmighty · 26/11/2025 19:52

countingdowntotheholidays · 26/11/2025 19:29

Goodness, reading this I’m not sure I live on the same planet, let alone country as some posters!

I can’t find anything worth frothing about in this budget. My family and I will contribute more but as we use public services I accept we need to contribute to the kitty that funds our society. I certainly am not going to lose any sleep over the mansion tax.

Me neither , but the right wing with their domination and Nigel is god agenda are determined to plant in your head itsall terrible - they need these buggers out before it becomes very obvious to all that they can’t even run anything at council level or all the Russian funding comes out ( not that some people care, they just like the fact he’s a xenophobe, likes a pint ( actually he drinks wine) and speaks fluent populist bullshit -we are looking again at leaving and not due to labour or tax but due to the fact the population clearly believe Farages back of a fag packet crap - realised we don’t fit - I don’t like the other extreme either by the way and whilst I agree with Polanski on EU - I don’t on lots of other things and think they are a bit unreal

Evergreen21 · 26/11/2025 19:53

I'm not sure what your issue is. You have to pay tax. Maybe work on your understanding of tax because your dh doesn't pay anywhere near what you think he does.

We have 3 kids,dh earns less than yours . I'm self employed and earn twice what you do and pay more tax being based in Scotland. Neither of us came from anything either,we don't have wealthy family and every penny is hard earned just the same as it is for many families. Labour always raise taxes. I'm not sure why people are surprised.

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:53

Chewbecca · 26/11/2025 13:37

He doesn't get taxed at 60% by the way.
First 12k free of tax, then basic rate up to 50k, then 40% beyond that. Between 100-125 is also at 40% but because you gradually lose your PA in that space, the effective rate is higher.
But please don't think he pays £60,000 tax on his £100,000 salary, he doesn't.

I think you’re in no fit state to tell me what my husband pays and what he doesn’t. Because believe it or not we actually know how much tax he pays. This is the problem with you lot…. Think you know it all! Yet you don’t. FACT!

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Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:55

ledmeup · 26/11/2025 13:35

Should your DH pay less tax because he came from nothing?

I think scrapping the 2 child policy is the right thing to do, it won’t lead to lots of new babies.

Yes, the frozen tax bands are frustrating and I had hoped they would be lifted. I think child benefit should be universal.

Ok so you come from nothing, do nothing, contribute nothing but get everything! Really!?!?!

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NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 26/11/2025 19:57

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:48

I know!!!! We have a labour government now that says it all! I’m looking forward to reading some of these replies!!!!

You could start with the multiple ones pointing out how you’re wrong about the 60%.

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 19:57

Has your husband asked you to defend his taxation on the internet?

How bothered is he by it, since they’re his actual deductions.

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 19:58

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:53

I think you’re in no fit state to tell me what my husband pays and what he doesn’t. Because believe it or not we actually know how much tax he pays. This is the problem with you lot…. Think you know it all! Yet you don’t. FACT!

The tax system is in the public domain

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:59

FurbieFan · 26/11/2025 13:40

I broadly agree except when it comes to the super rich and tax on unearned income.

See attached picture: In a rich village in London where I live, this is a not-unusual rise in price in just under 30 years. A property now worth nearly 6m; most of this rise has not been earned. Is it fair that this is untaxed?

I certainly don’t want to fund lazy people to have lots of kids they can’t afford. I also don’t want to fund rich people to live off the fat of their investments untaxed.

Yeah I agree!!!! The super rich are finding way around paying tax but we fall into the worst tax bracket and for two hard working people who have only decided to have 1 child and don’t expect anything from anyone. It’s just frustrating! We’re getting taxed from every angle at the moment.

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NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 26/11/2025 20:00

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:53

I think you’re in no fit state to tell me what my husband pays and what he doesn’t. Because believe it or not we actually know how much tax he pays. This is the problem with you lot…. Think you know it all! Yet you don’t. FACT!

I’m afraid what you think you know is wrong if you’re trying to assert that he pays 60% tax on the entire £100k.

BakedAlaskaInMyTummy · 26/11/2025 20:00

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:53

I think you’re in no fit state to tell me what my husband pays and what he doesn’t. Because believe it or not we actually know how much tax he pays. This is the problem with you lot…. Think you know it all! Yet you don’t. FACT!

But that is literally the UK income tax thresholds that people are quoting!

Bruminbrum · 26/11/2025 20:00

SnowQueens · 26/11/2025 19:36

Why don't you ask their parents why they can't support their own children?
That's the starting point.

Handing out money doesn't mean tackling poverty. It just enables those families to carry on with their lifestyles where they have children they can't afford.

Benefits should come with timescales - like a year to find work, get into training, improve their own job prospects. Not just hand over money for 18 years with no incentive for them to do anything to help themselves.

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You know that most people on UC are in work right? It’s that wages are so poor that they need supplementing.

AlltheHedgehogsontheWall · 26/11/2025 20:00

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:53

I think you’re in no fit state to tell me what my husband pays and what he doesn’t. Because believe it or not we actually know how much tax he pays. This is the problem with you lot…. Think you know it all! Yet you don’t. FACT!

So you're saying that your husband is on a special secret tax rate that the rest of us don't know about?

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 20:00

Tax thresholds. For the curious/confused…

Tax TAx TAX!!!!!! Fuming at our government!
Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 20:00

MidnightPatrol · 26/11/2025 13:42

The effective tax rate between £100-125k is 62.5% inc NI.

No matter how you paint it, every extra penny you earn over £100k up to £125k is taxed at this rate.

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This is it…. With any bonus he gets it taxed!!!

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Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 20:01

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 19:50

Errrmmm don’t most people who have young children work part time???? Otherwise it’s full time care which costs a bomb!

You will literally moan about the cost of anything won't you? 😂

Taxes, childcare, only one holiday! How you [your husband] only survives on £100k is a miracle, you really the superheroes of society.

Chewbecca · 26/11/2025 20:01

Actually the part of this budget that piss me off the most are the disincentives to save.

Specifically the new limit on NI relief for pension contributions. There are also increases in savings and dividend taxes. None affect me personally (retired) but I really hate people being penalised for saving, we should be heavily encouraging pension savings.

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 20:02

Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 20:01

You will literally moan about the cost of anything won't you? 😂

Taxes, childcare, only one holiday! How you [your husband] only survives on £100k is a miracle, you really the superheroes of society.

Hey. £110k, you forgot to add her £10k to his £100k.

Gall10 · 26/11/2025 20:03

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 19:58

The tax system is in the public domain

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The poster obviously think ‘us lot’ know nowt!

Doggielovecharlotte · 26/11/2025 20:03

Baldylovingbeard · 26/11/2025 20:00

This is it…. With any bonus he gets it taxed!!!

So you don’t want extra income by way of bonus taxed either ??

Begs belief

phantomofthepopera · 26/11/2025 20:03

Chewbecca · 26/11/2025 13:37

He doesn't get taxed at 60% by the way.
First 12k free of tax, then basic rate up to 50k, then 40% beyond that. Between 100-125 is also at 40% but because you gradually lose your PA in that space, the effective rate is higher.
But please don't think he pays £60,000 tax on his £100,000 salary, he doesn't.

This. So many people blatantly don’t understand taxation. If OP’s husband is earning £100K, he’ll be paying £27,432 in tax, not £60,000. Huge difference!

Nickyknackered · 26/11/2025 20:06

SleeplessInWherever · 26/11/2025 20:02

Hey. £110k, you forgot to add her £10k to his £100k.

My mistake!

Fgs, I pay more tax than you OP (not more than your husband though, so pass on my thanks to him) and cant believe the cheek you have. Ridiculous!

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