@Lougle
Thats exactly the problem that I have with my DD’s wheelchair situation. She’s 8 and can self-propel short distances hence does not qualify for an NHS motorised chair (some people will).
People really don’t understand the difference having “this” kind of child makes, cost or care wise, compared to, for instance, a child who cannot leave the house from extreme mental health problems.. and I for one don’t want to go around trying to cost the difference.
with my DD she is intellectually incapable of knowing that she would have to do x to get onto a pavement (she has no diagnoses so I won’t describe her as having x condition because I can’t) but her level of understanding is very baby like.
Even if she could comprehend it doesn’t change things like getting across stones (for instance) - this involves tilting the chair back and putting away the safety anti tip bars behind and underneath her, which no one actually in the chair could do.
The NHS can’t afford to give her a powered wheelchair and won’t because she can self-propel a tiny bit. Imagine the outcry if the NHS did fund it!
She’s also doubly incontinent.
Taking her anywhere without hoisting facilities is a big challenge but I can’t and won’t stop her trying to enjoy life.
I am going to have to get or try to get a specially adapted van (I don’t think I can on Motability so I will try elsewhere) to hoist her to change her.
I hurt my back lifting her off the ground yesterday (the literal ground) when I had to change her when we were out. No one can cost that risk to me and her. If I injured my back that’s a whole other set of problems..
The notion that DLA should cover her costs completely overlooks aspects like the above the “cost” of changing her is not only the risk (derived from her care needs which is what DLA uses to assess eligibility) and for things like mats to put below her (yet to obtain one I can carry with me along with her suction machine, pads, feeding pump etc) it’s the lifelong cost she’s facing - I will have to privately fund care for her and for me if I injure myself.
Those pp saying UC exists for loss of salary - not always.
In my case we don’t qualify for UC. My husband earns just enough to not qualify.
Even if we did - the cost of her wheelchair is obviously prohibitive for many families, not just us. But I somehow have to find the funds. but how? That’s my problem, not the government’s.
The loss of a salary is not covered by UC if the family/parent doesn’t qualify or does qualify so flipping it back to say it exists is not the point (even if a salary was just minimum wage it won’t match it).
My family (the 3 of us) has a child who - as far as predicting the future goes - will never work.
I have no chance at a full time job.
But..I will face very large expenses (like her wheelchair) on the reduced income that I cannot replace. She can’t contribute to her costs.
I do not expect the government to fill that gap but the point is that it does NOT.
The extra costs of disability might be covered in some cases. In many cases it is not (and I know the point is it isn’t meant to cover them completely), but there is no realistic way to penny count costs - often a person will overlook something that is a cost because they are so used to doing it, I know that from experience- I worked briefly for We Are McMillan assisting people with benefit applications.
People didn’t think of shoes with Velcro they had to buy or taxis to appointments or parking (for example) as additional costs and often only saw adaptations to a bathroom (handrails) as a cost.
It’s a depressing concept to wish that acquiring a disability or being born less able to be independent and self-supporting entitles the governing political party to the tiny details of one’s life. I mean the DWP gets all that on an application form for DLA and PIP at source and could reconfigure the award to tailor to specific needs if it chose - but it operates as it does because it’s the most cost effective and presumed efficient way to run disability benefits.
In 2023-2024 DLA cost the UK just shy of £7 billion.
Pensions were over £110 billion.
PIP was in the middle around £51 billion- as pp above have pointed out, PIP is being given to older people who have acquired disabilities more than younger people- just compare DLA figures to PIP and you can see the difference isn’t just a rise in mental health conditions- it’s aging people still working up to pension age contributing to that cost.