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LaMarschallin · 23/09/2025 11:10

Just that.

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nomas · 24/09/2025 17:43

NettleTea · 24/09/2025 17:35

and given that they were saying that there is absolutely nothing for them to do all day - some in the article had been in the hotel for NINE YEARS - perhaps they could get the residents able to get involved in running a kitchen for each other. It seemed they were making chickpea stews when she had dinner with them, and probably fresh breads. Far more healthy and quite likely far cheaper too.

I imagine that yes, some people are making an absolute killing on this, the same as the people who are basically charging whatever they want to provide children's homes, because councils are obliged to pay. leaving bugger all money in the council for other services.

Whenever there is an obligation you can be sure there is an 'entrepreneur' waiting to milk the system dry.

perhaps they could get the residents able to get involved in running a kitchen for each other. It seemed they were making chickpea stews when she had dinner with them, and probably fresh breads. Far more healthy and quite likely far cheaper too.

That's such a good idea.

Mildorado · 24/09/2025 17:49

Also in the article - "One of the residents, Mohammed, had work lined up even before he hit British soil".
There's a serious problem there. These people face exploitation, long shifts and being paid low wages.
Such a mess.
.

Mildorado · 24/09/2025 17:57

Meanwhile, the traffickers are getting rich on this terrible trade.

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:06

nomas · 24/09/2025 17:19

You think the rats who follow Tommy would fight? The only fighting they do is beat up their wives and target 14 year old boys seeking asylum. And the poor Asian girl raped two weeks ago by far right goons.

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What a stupid comment. That's like me saying all Pakistani males are part of grooming gangs

Utter nonsense.

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:09

Also Mohammed in the BBC articles has left his wife at home and wants to send money back to her.

Must be a terrible place if he's happy to leave her there to face the consequences.

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:10

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:06

What a stupid comment. That's like me saying all Pakistani males are part of grooming gangs

Utter nonsense.

40% of the arrested rioters had domestic abuse convictions.

I'm sure an army of these men would be magnificent - not Hmm

Hardhaton1 · 24/09/2025 18:12

nomas · 24/09/2025 17:41

It's in the article people are discussing:

The hotels were never intended to be used like this. The rooms look smart on review sites on the internet - with sofas, televisions, double beds, ensuite bathrooms. Everything is there, and you would be pleased if one was yours for a couple of nights.

What the pictures don't show is the wear-and-tear and the build-up of possessions that come from continuous occupancy over months and years.

At the hotels housing families, I am struck by the number of prams in the reception areas, and by how many babies and toddlers there are. With little or no communal space, younger children are left to play in empty corridors.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwy8ee2w73jo

I think you have to question the morality of bringing a baby into the world and into such circumstances

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:15

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:09

Also Mohammed in the BBC articles has left his wife at home and wants to send money back to her.

Must be a terrible place if he's happy to leave her there to face the consequences.

The opportunities for work in Afghanistan are limited since the US and UK bombed it to hell.

The little bit of money she gets from her husband probably feeds their children.

Let's hope you're never in that situation, eh?

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:16

Hardhaton1 · 24/09/2025 18:12

I think you have to question the morality of bringing a baby into the world and into such circumstances

They probably didn't realise it would take years for their case to be decided.

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:16

So mohammed iis moving to find work - he's an economic migrant NOT as asylum seeker

RightOrLeft · 24/09/2025 18:20

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:16

They probably didn't realise it would take years for their case to be decided.

Nothing to do with the fact that they ( mistakenly) believed having a baby on British soil would assist in their case for claiming asylum?

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:20

Kadir's (the 9 year resident) baby is 1 year old. I think they had a pretty good idea of their circumstances when they decided to have another child.

RightOrLeft · 24/09/2025 18:21

Mildorado · 24/09/2025 17:49

Also in the article - "One of the residents, Mohammed, had work lined up even before he hit British soil".
There's a serious problem there. These people face exploitation, long shifts and being paid low wages.
Such a mess.
.

Would that not make him an economic migrant?

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:22

RightOrLeft · 24/09/2025 18:20

Nothing to do with the fact that they ( mistakenly) believed having a baby on British soil would assist in their case for claiming asylum?

Well, no, this couple hasn't said that.

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:23

RightOrLeft · 24/09/2025 18:21

Would that not make him an economic migrant?

He owes money to the people who helped him in.

It's possible he's afraid if he doesn't pay them, either his or his family's life will be in danger.

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:24

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:20

Kadir's (the 9 year resident) baby is 1 year old. I think they had a pretty good idea of their circumstances when they decided to have another child.

Well they did well not having kids in the UK for 8 years, no?

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 24/09/2025 18:25

The problem is you just heard/ listened to the headline rather than listening to the actual news report.

I saw it on the news last night. They are provided with food but don't like it, I'm guessing because it's not the type of food they are used to eating. From the news report the hotel looked like a Premier Inn.

I have every sympathy with asylum seekers but I have to say of I was escaping war or otherwise fearing for my life I would just be grateful that I was being provided for.

I also think this type of thing is providing fodder for the disenfranchised men who seem to be the ones actively protesting. People who feel they have no agency on the world are not going to look very kindly on those who they perceive as getting something for nothing.

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:26

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:23

He owes money to the people who helped him in.

It's possible he's afraid if he doesn't pay them, either his or his family's life will be in danger.

But if he claiming asylum from a dangerous country why has he left his wife behind

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:27

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:26

But if he claiming asylum from a dangerous country why has he left his wife behind

Because Afghans often live in multi-generational homes. His wife won't be living alone.

Blankscreen · 24/09/2025 18:28

But he's claiming ASYLUM
How can it be safe for his multi generational family and not him.

He's an economic migrant

Hotflushesandchilblains · 24/09/2025 18:29

TallulahLikesHoola · 23/09/2025 11:52

Doesn't quite get the furore rising does it the truth?

To be fair, if I was offered chicken nuggets and chips every day I would probably try to cook for myself too. And splitting up families to go to different hotels is inhumane.

Mildorado · 24/09/2025 18:29

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:27

Because Afghans often live in multi-generational homes. His wife won't be living alone.

She can't in Afghanistan, because she has no rights at all, she can't even speak in public. She'll just be a shrouded spectre, not able to access medical care and likely to die in childbirth because women aren't allowed to train as medics and midwives.
Absolutely horrific.

SummerFrog25 · 24/09/2025 18:30

LaMarschallin · 23/09/2025 11:30

Not true. I just heard the headlines which said exactly that.
Wrong of me - I should have searched the article and read it.

Ok, maybe you weren't, but it's the reason for most of these types of threads & it's really annoying when people do it.

...& linked to a relevant article. We aren't all listening to the news 24/7.

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:33

Mildorado · 24/09/2025 18:29

She can't in Afghanistan, because she has no rights at all, she can't even speak in public. She'll just be a shrouded spectre, not able to access medical care and likely to die in childbirth because women aren't allowed to train as medics and midwives.
Absolutely horrific.

She can't what, live?

Yes, I agree, it's no life.

EasternStandard · 24/09/2025 18:35

nomas · 24/09/2025 18:27

Because Afghans often live in multi-generational homes. His wife won't be living alone.

It won’t be good even if this is the case.

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