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High Earners you or partner, what job do you/they do?!

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Horseskeepmesane · 05/09/2025 12:21

On the back of the high income thread please share….. what jobs do you all do for high incomes eg….. one salary over 60k yearly?

nb. We are middle income bracket, both working plus two kids

OP posts:
Mintearo7 · 05/09/2025 13:48

I work in comms, around 100k, DH works in IT, earns around the same amount. We both have degrees loosely related to our careers, then just worked our way up from our 20s (in London), hard graft met with a bit of natural talent and belief in ourselves. From a woman’s perspective, earning a similar amount to DH has made things simpler - less power struggles, especially after having two kids. Slowing down a bit now career-wise due to a desire to spend more time with family and also we will attract higher tax rates if we progress.

FluffMagnet · 05/09/2025 13:49

Both of us are in law. Not top corporate/US money, but one City commercial and the other senior in house at very large org, enough to still take up long hours/holidays etc.

U53rName · 05/09/2025 13:49

I’m only on £50k. DH earns over £200k in a senior role in finance. He works insane hours and is under constant stress.

Dueindecemberr · 05/09/2025 13:51

Me - business development in a professional services firm. DH - supply chain for a global construction company. Both just over 100k.

ComebackStory · 05/09/2025 13:53

Mintearo7 · 05/09/2025 13:48

I work in comms, around 100k, DH works in IT, earns around the same amount. We both have degrees loosely related to our careers, then just worked our way up from our 20s (in London), hard graft met with a bit of natural talent and belief in ourselves. From a woman’s perspective, earning a similar amount to DH has made things simpler - less power struggles, especially after having two kids. Slowing down a bit now career-wise due to a desire to spend more time with family and also we will attract higher tax rates if we progress.

Jeez, also in comms on a mere 35k. I live in hope 😭

InfoSecInTheCity · 05/09/2025 13:55

Information Security, Governance, Risk & Compliance - Leadership role.

Path:

  • call centre doing telemarketing and customer service
  • Team supervisor
  • Team manager
  • specialist team manager
  • call centre manager
  • IT service desk manager
  • Information security, GRC manager

Then just kept moving up in structure to Executive role.

No university degree but I have a few professional qualifications I’ve picked up along the way, mainly self taught.

BuffaloCauliflower · 05/09/2025 13:55

My DH is on just over £80k at the moment, he’s in compliance for a global IT company, title is Director but it’s a big company so he’s still a few rungs from the top. He’s only mid-30s so a lot of potential to climb higher. He left school at 16 and highest qualifications are GCSEs, just worked his way up and learned on the job. He rarely works more than a 9-5, mostly from home, and is able to flex to do pick ups/drop offs and takes DS to a club. We’re really lucky.

Eggbaps · 05/09/2025 13:56

Him- equity partner in a city law firm. Makes about £1.2m gross a year (profit share so this varies).
Me- lawyer in the civil service, £85k.

TorroFerney · 05/09/2025 14:00

Head of change in IT. A levels but no degree if that helps add colour.

kirinm · 05/09/2025 14:02

Me - Law.
DP - a trade

Ponderingwindow · 05/09/2025 14:03

Software architect
data scientist.

Lobster12345 · 05/09/2025 14:04

me, 170K in marketing. DH on £160K in management consultancy plus bonus

HelpMeUnpickThis · 05/09/2025 14:04

Edited to add ex DH:

Me: Chartered Account and Chartered Tax Adviser - work in insurance with some mixed tax work.

Side hussle of doing friends and family tax returns.

Now Ex DH, Tax Lawyer, also CTA qualifies. He works inhouse so also gets a bonus annually. I don’t.

MiddleAgedDread · 05/09/2025 14:05

Overwhelmedandunderfed · 05/09/2025 13:16

I know I couldn’t do any of these jobs because I don’t know what any of them actually mean 😂 is anyone willing to say how they started off in any of these roles? Obviously the law ones would be a law degree (I think) but what about the pharma and the project management things? Would love a career change! Feel like I have lots of skills (teacher) but a bit out of touch tbh! Not looking to insult anyone as I don’t doubt that you’ve all worked really hard.

I have a degree in what was my favourite subject at school, chosen without any particular career path in mind, a masters in a more focussed aspect of that, got a graduate position in a large international company where i've moved around different departments and offices, and have a professional chartership.

t'other half meanwhile has bugger all school qualifications, didn't go to uni and earns nearly 3 times what I do.....

Hotdoughnut · 05/09/2025 14:09

My husband and I are both scientists on 6 figures. Highly rewarding and feel like we're making a real difference (I work in Alzheimer's, husband works in cancer research). We feel very fortunate, followed our passion/favourite subjects through school/uni, and put in a lot of hard work to get where we are. We didn't set out to earn big, it's a bonus of doing something we love.

littlemousebigcheese · 05/09/2025 14:11

Husband 180 + bonus, fintech

OrangeCrushes · 05/09/2025 14:13

Lawyer
Data scientist

Both in our mid 40s. Combined income about £180k gross.

Labamba78 · 05/09/2025 14:18

HR Director.

Dogosaurus · 05/09/2025 14:22

Data scientist and Enterprise Architect

KindnessIsKey123 · 05/09/2025 14:24

Both lawyers

Redruby2020 · 05/09/2025 14:25

FruitNotCake · 05/09/2025 13:11

Law for me. DH was in finance, he is now retired. Combined income year before his retirement was well over £750k of which we lost 47% in income tax and NI. We worked like dogs 20 hour days at times, both from immigrant parents, both went to state schools but we never tell anyone in real life because people become jealous. I’ve lost count of the number of friends who work part time who describe us as “lucky” we have earned every penny and strived to give our kids what we didn’t have growing up. We sacrificed family time and well being to do well in our careers and build a solid future. We are very fortunate we have not been beset by illness or other disaster that would have prevented us both working. I will name change now as will get abuse as that’s the mumsnet way.

Just because others with kids don’t work like dogs as you put it, and do 20 hour days ? Which is impossible. Doesn’t make them any less of a person.

InSpainTheRain · 05/09/2025 14:25

We are both high earners, OH is a software engineer, I am in fintech working as a consultant.

user1471548941 · 05/09/2025 14:27

Both back office in investment banking- 1 x Project Manager, 1 x Operations Manager, taking home just under £200k between us

AsACloud · 05/09/2025 14:28

Both Directors in logistics companies (different companies) one low 6 figures and one mid six figures.

MooseBeTimeForSnow · 05/09/2025 14:32

DH - from A Levels to oil tankers, then to oil cargo inspection, on to oil refining and then production. Senior leadership team earning close to seven figures (mid six when converted to £).

Me - oil industry then retrained to law. Worked for 10 years. Now effectively a SAHM but work intermittently at a high level on Elections. I average about £40K, higher in election years.

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