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Cultural references the ‘young uns’ don’t get

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Peculiar23 · 22/08/2025 12:05

Called someone at work ‘Victor Meldruw’ and got looked at blankly. God, I’m old
Anyone else ??!!!

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Ratafia · 23/08/2025 00:25

BlueEyedBogWitch · 22/08/2025 23:22

I am noticing for the first time that kids just don’t have any shared cultural references with adults any more, though.

I grew up watching telly with my dad, so I was aware of Hancock’s Half Hour, Steptoe and Son, Laurel and Hardy, The Addams Family, etc etc. Even though I was born in the 1970s, my cultural reference points go right back to the 1930s.

It’s obvious now that everyone is on their own screens. Kids watch TikTok and YouTube, and not much else. It seems a shame, really. I have happy memories of laughing with my dad at all his favourites.

I still enjoy recordings of shows like Round the Horne and Flanders and Swann, so my reference include things like "I'm a Gnu", the Hippopotamus song, and "Oh halLO Mr 'orne, I'm Julian and this is my friend Sandy".

pinkstripeycat · 23/08/2025 00:27

I think if you use them a lot your kids will copy. Our Ds are 18 & 19 and DH has watched loads of the oldies with them and they use the same phrases.

If you grew up in the 80s why aren’t your kids listening to 80s music? Our kids do and they have them on their playlists! Absolute 80s on in mine and DH cars so the kids have no choice.

LoveSoftAsAnEasyChair · 23/08/2025 00:27

Gotback · 22/08/2025 12:53

It's Friday, it's 5 to 5...

Hey! Did you ever get a Crackerjack pencil?

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 23/08/2025 00:27

TricksyLiesmith · 22/08/2025 12:40

Good moaning

I walk into the office quoting this quite often 😳

ChessorBuckaroo · 23/08/2025 00:29

DoveOfPiss · 22/08/2025 23:57

I showed my 16yo DD the Cadburys Flake advert from the 80s the other week. She was shocked at how sexual it was...the one in the bath.

"Only the crumbliest, flakiest chocolate, tastes like chocolate never tasted before"

Very memorable.

Here are three quick references to ads from the same period (from 7:30 on, performed by Matt Lucas (as Shirley Bassey))

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrLO0F-nKYs

Comefromaway · 23/08/2025 00:29

i called dd Imelda Marcos because of the amount of shoes in her wardrobe. She looked at me blankly.

TerminalMoraine · 23/08/2025 00:30

The Cadbury’s Smash Martians…..they boil them for 20 of their minutes and then they smash them all to bits!
Followed by raucous laughter.

LoveSoftAsAnEasyChair · 23/08/2025 00:31

CustardySergeant · 23/08/2025 00:22

Can anyone remember a TV programme in which an old man often said "I heard that - pardon"? I would guess it was probably on in the 70s or 80s.

I remember that quote… was it the same program where a lady had a watch on , an if she referred to the time, she’d squint at her watch, and complain that she needs to put a little hand on the watch!
it wasn’t “The Rag Trade” was it?

cariadlet · 23/08/2025 00:40

UnderCoverB0ss · 22/08/2025 17:36

Maureen Lipman, BT “you’ve got an ology”
Yellow Pages “ I were right about that saddle”

As a kid at the time, I never realised that the character was called Beattie because she was advertising BT.

GingersOwner26 · 23/08/2025 00:43

Matsukaze · 23/08/2025 00:00

Sherrrridaaaan!

"It's my sister, Violet. She's the one with the Mercedes, the sauna and room for a pony."

GingersOwner26 · 23/08/2025 00:44

BlueEyedBogWitch · 22/08/2025 23:43

‘Let’s have a look at what you could have won…’

So many blank looks.

"Keep out of the black and into the red, nothing in this game for two in a bed."

(My family still watch the repeats of that on the Challenge channel.)

CustardySergeant · 23/08/2025 00:47

LoveSoftAsAnEasyChair · 23/08/2025 00:31

I remember that quote… was it the same program where a lady had a watch on , an if she referred to the time, she’d squint at her watch, and complain that she needs to put a little hand on the watch!
it wasn’t “The Rag Trade” was it?

The lady with the watch who said that was Hylda Baker. She wasn't in The Rag Trade, though. I think you're remembering 3 different programmes.

quantumbutterfly · 23/08/2025 00:58

DelilahMy · 22/08/2025 23:09

When our dc were babies and quite fussy eaters we would often say ‘I’ll have the blandest thing on the menu.’

And some bread rolls.

ChaToilLeam · 23/08/2025 01:03

Anyone here old enough to remember "hello playmates!" I'm not but my dad always says it. And my granny used to say "I'm not Carnegie!"

From my youth:
Boom boom!
Ooh Matron!
Charley says...
Just say no!

SevenSecondsAgo · 23/08/2025 01:09

upinaballoon · 22/08/2025 21:04

Airplane?

Yes! I quote this at my teens every time they say 'surely', it always gets me a massive eye roll!

SevenSecondsAgo · 23/08/2025 01:14

Slebs · 22/08/2025 21:45

This reminds me of the time,in my 80s childhood, when my parents got a huge phone bill they couldn't fathom with loads of international charges (we knew nobody who lived abroad at this point.)

My sister sheepishly admitted she'd been ringing random numbers in the Congo, asking if they drank Um-bongo.

I'm impressed that a pre-internet kid was able to find out how to call the Congo. I'd imagine your parents were less impressed!

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 23/08/2025 01:14

ChaToilLeam · 23/08/2025 01:03

Anyone here old enough to remember "hello playmates!" I'm not but my dad always says it. And my granny used to say "I'm not Carnegie!"

From my youth:
Boom boom!
Ooh Matron!
Charley says...
Just say no!

I loved 70s Basil Brush.

CustardySergeant · 23/08/2025 01:17

CustardySergeant · 23/08/2025 00:47

The lady with the watch who said that was Hylda Baker. She wasn't in The Rag Trade, though. I think you're remembering 3 different programmes.

Quoting myself just to say that the Hylda Baker sitcom was called Nearest and Dearest with Jimmy Jewel. 🙂
I'm currently looking at this list https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:1970s_British_sitcoms to see if anything rings a bell.

Gotback · 23/08/2025 01:37

I Didn't Know You Cared?

CustardySergeant · 23/08/2025 02:16

Gotback · 23/08/2025 01:37

I Didn't Know You Cared?

Yes, that was the one. 🙂Thank you.

cariadlet · 23/08/2025 02:38

Slebs · 22/08/2025 21:45

This reminds me of the time,in my 80s childhood, when my parents got a huge phone bill they couldn't fathom with loads of international charges (we knew nobody who lived abroad at this point.)

My sister sheepishly admitted she'd been ringing random numbers in the Congo, asking if they drank Um-bongo.

This definitely wins the thread!

spoonbillstretford · 23/08/2025 02:38

BlueEyedBogWitch · 22/08/2025 23:22

I am noticing for the first time that kids just don’t have any shared cultural references with adults any more, though.

I grew up watching telly with my dad, so I was aware of Hancock’s Half Hour, Steptoe and Son, Laurel and Hardy, The Addams Family, etc etc. Even though I was born in the 1970s, my cultural reference points go right back to the 1930s.

It’s obvious now that everyone is on their own screens. Kids watch TikTok and YouTube, and not much else. It seems a shame, really. I have happy memories of laughing with my dad at all his favourites.

DDs watch TV programmes from the 1990s like Friends, which is like me watching stuff from the 1960s. To be honest, I find most older programmes haven't worn well. Best to just remember them fondly. I remember when I was younger, older people harping on about things I had never watched as it was before my time and being incredulous that I didn't know about them. It's not a new thing.

shiningcuckoo · 23/08/2025 04:19

Wearing a Benny hat.
Muttering Jimmy Hill whilst rubbing your chin.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 23/08/2025 05:32

elliejjtiny · 23/08/2025 00:12

What's that quote from? It sounds familiar but i can't place it and now it's driving me mad.

Adrian Mole 😀

MinnieBaldock · 23/08/2025 05:40

DareDevil223 · 22/08/2025 18:50

Bona Law - We've got a criminal practice that takes up most of our time.

I loved Round the Horn. Betty Masden and Hugh Paddock and of course Kenneth Williams.

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