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Tell me your stories of entitlement

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Spidey66 · 15/08/2025 15:29

We’re in the US ATM . We flew London to Seattle so a long flight. We paid extra for premium economy seats, and got good seats.

just before take off, our (front) row were approached by a mother with a new baby (looked like only 3-4 months or so) asking for someone to swap because she had a baby. To cut a long story short, she didn’t get it and stormed off in a huff. Turned out she was actually in economy and wanted a premium seat without premium cost and was wanting one of us to pay premium price and sit in economy! Isn’t that the height of entitlement!!! She thought we should bow down to the fact she had a baby!

I love hearing stories of entitlement. Tell me yours.

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Foundress · 17/08/2025 19:49

EmShire · 17/08/2025 19:41

@Foundress Insignificant though it might be, it would annoy me that they decided to play there of all places.

Yes I had to stop myself thinking about the CF bloke and his feral kids after seeing them. It would have spoiled my lovely walk. Also depressing that the kids will probably grow up to be entitled shits like the father.

SheReallyLikes · 17/08/2025 19:49

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 17/08/2025 17:28

Did you read the bit where literally the whole cinema was empty. Theoretically the woman had every right to sit there, but really, who actually does that?

She probably sat in her correct seat, even though the whole cinema was empty.
🤨

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 17/08/2025 19:49

krustykittens · 17/08/2025 18:36

I used to volunteer at the Bath Kid's Lit Festival and one year we moved a child who was deaf down to a front row so he could more easily lip read. We did this sort of thing all the time for children who might have difficulty, for whatever reason, following what was happening on stage. Cue a very entitled mummy who saw us moving him and his mother, who charged down the aisle asking why, in a very loud voice, they were getting preferential treatment? I explained but it didn't stop her. "If HE gets moved to the front, then so should we!" Her voice was getting louder and she was doing a lot of arm waving and pointing in their direction, so you know, very obvious, even if you are deaf, that she had a problem with you. Having done back to back shows in the heat and been up all night with my own sick child, I really had enough of her.
"Does you child have a disability we should be aware of?"
"No."
"Then go back to your seat and be grateful."
Amazingly, she did, didn't even threaten to report me to someone, but I was furious to turn around and see the boy in tears with his mother and another volunteer trying to comfort him. Apparently, this stuff happened to them all the time because the child wasn't obviously disabled and it was really beginning to get to him when they were out in public. He was eight.

I HATED volunteering at the Lit Fest and gave it up soon after.

What must've happened to people like this woman to turn them into such terrible, immoral people in later life. And how on earth will their children turn out like.

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AnneElliott · 17/08/2025 19:49

Theres nothing like a voluntary organisation to bring out the CFs. I used to be a beaver leader and my son was cub age. He had to come with me to beavers as I couldn’t leave him at home alone at the age of 8 - the other leader had the same issue and her older son came too. They joined in but always went last and were reminded it was a beaver night.
one CF parent while dropping off their beaver child asked if they could also drop off their cub aged child as well. He was massively put out when we said no and complained to our senior. He just couldn’t understand that the reason Anne and Jane’s boys were allowed to stay was because we were the bloody leaders - if I couldn’t have brought DS then I wouldn’t have been able to volunteer! He was told if he wanted to volunteer then of course the older boy would be accommodated as well like ours but strangely enough he didn’t take us up on it!

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 19:49

@SlightlySeethrough that’s appalling - really, really appalling.

Foundress · 17/08/2025 19:52

@SlightlySeethrough bloody hell that wins first prize on this thread for me. Unbelievable!

EmShire · 17/08/2025 19:52

Foundress · 17/08/2025 19:49

Yes I had to stop myself thinking about the CF bloke and his feral kids after seeing them. It would have spoiled my lovely walk. Also depressing that the kids will probably grow up to be entitled shits like the father.

He probably just doesn't think of others sadly.

FruitPoppet · 17/08/2025 19:57

I live on a farm where the landlord rents out glamping pods to the public. I have nothing to do with it.

It's all self check in, info emailed when you book. My landlord was away and a guest who just arrived approached me in complete fury as the pod they had booked had guests already in. I asked them to check their email again to make sure they had the right number, gave them my private WiFi to check etc. I called my landlord lots of times but there was no answer. Guests at this point are FUMING, they had driven from London (to Cornwall) with three young kids and they looked done in. The dad gets up his email and shakes it in my face "LOOK SEE! POD 5!". He's angry and the mum is going off saying how this is unacceptable and what was I going to do. I read their email and it turns out they were going to the right pod, they had just shown up a week early.

I had to explain to them their mistake. They start screaming at each other and then turn to me and demand somewhere to stay. After eventually speaking to my landlord we have no spare pods so can't help them.

They refused to leave the carpark for ages, saying that we had to help them because the booking dates weren't clear enough. Said we should provide a tent or other accommodation because they had driven so far 😂

I gave them loads of local recommendations of places to stay and went into my home and ignored them.

Hoardasauruskaren · 17/08/2025 19:58

ARichtGoodDram · 17/08/2025 18:05

Oh this is SO familiar! Most volunteers I know - myself included - also work, with the exception of retirees, students or SAHM who want to get out of the house for a bit. I think some people just think “Cheap childcare!” And their brain never progresses beyond that point, neither to look into the mechanics of how a place operates or to even consider maybe giving up some of their own time.

Oh yes!!

Could write a book about CF'ers after 15 years running that 😂

A lovely scout leader told us that she had had parents complain about the way activities were run or whatever & say ‘I’m paying you to look after my child!’ The group charged £1.50 for a 2 hour session at that time!

Bus2 · 17/08/2025 20:00

I was going on a girls' holiday and had a bit of space for extra luggage. I sent a text in the group chat to ask if anyone wanted me to bring them anything (we live in different countries and were meeting in Dubai). Someone in the group chat who is friends with my friend but not really my friend privately messaged to ask if she could order "a few" items to my address that i could bring a long. When her order arrived, it was an entire suitcase of holiday outfits from a popular UK brand. I had intended to travel light. To cut the long story short, i shipped her "few items" via DHL and had her pay for it. Needless to say, she was frosty with me the entire holiday. I did not even know her that well!

Rosscameasdoody · 17/08/2025 20:01

Spidey66 · 15/08/2025 15:41

Why did he think that was a good idea???

Because he’s a CF and he thought it would get him around the laws on deprivation of assets if he needs care in the future.

CornishTiger · 17/08/2025 20:03

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 16:13

My ex-husband - who cheated, causing me to divorce him - emailing me out of the blue, to my WORK email (in a job that I wasn't doing when I knew him, so he looked me up online), asking me to confirm the date of our wedding and the date of our decree absolute so that he could fill in a form for security clearance. We divorced in 2007, this email arrived in my inbox earlier this year. The thread is on here somewhere. Stupid entitled toilet goblin.

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I remember that thread. Can’t remember if you replied to not. What an entitled little prick!

Arlanymor · 17/08/2025 20:03

@FruitPoppet You have the patience of a saint!

LillyPJ · 17/08/2025 20:03

placemats · 17/08/2025 19:42

People like you wipe using their hands only?

Germs pass through toilet paper. Don't you wash your hands after?

Robin67 · 17/08/2025 20:04

You are better than me. Honestly I would not have let those children in my house. I would have called the police and reported abandoned children.

Yabusux · 17/08/2025 20:05

AnneElliott · 17/08/2025 19:49

Theres nothing like a voluntary organisation to bring out the CFs. I used to be a beaver leader and my son was cub age. He had to come with me to beavers as I couldn’t leave him at home alone at the age of 8 - the other leader had the same issue and her older son came too. They joined in but always went last and were reminded it was a beaver night.
one CF parent while dropping off their beaver child asked if they could also drop off their cub aged child as well. He was massively put out when we said no and complained to our senior. He just couldn’t understand that the reason Anne and Jane’s boys were allowed to stay was because we were the bloody leaders - if I couldn’t have brought DS then I wouldn’t have been able to volunteer! He was told if he wanted to volunteer then of course the older boy would be accommodated as well like ours but strangely enough he didn’t take us up on it!

Absolutely agree. I was Treasurer for DCs football club for a few years.Every so often I would receive an email complaining about the subs parents were asked to pay. It was never from any of the volunteer coaches or helpers. I would go back explaining that the Club was run by volunteers but had to pay for pitch hire, referees, insurance (especially) and so on. And I learned that the guaranteed way to ensure there was no comeback was to always finish with a breezy "the Club is always keen to find ways to make things cheaper for everyone - the next Committee meeting is 8pm on Thursday evening, do please come along and share your ideas... "

3luckystars · 17/08/2025 20:05

we have a website called DoneDeal in Ireland, it’s brilliant for buying and selling items to other people, but it seems to attract people like this.

I was selling 2 concert tickets, and a woman called me and said ‘I need 3 tickets’ and I said ‘yes but I only have 2’ and she was like ‘yes but I need 3!’ this sent on for a few minutes.
So I texted her, once I had another offer just making sure she didn’t want them, no she needed 3. I said I was going to sell them to someone else so.
Then she called me just before the concert saying she would take them, I said ‘I sold them’ and she was like ‘oh I should have taken the 2 tickets, are they really gone?’

SlightlySeethrough · 17/08/2025 20:09

Someone once advised me never EVER give anything away for free on FB marketplace or NextDoor. Always charge something - even £2 - to ward off the CFuckers. More than once in the past I have advertised things for free and found myself apologising that I wouldn't be able to take said thing down the stairs, load it in my car and drive it 3 hours across London.

Since following the 'nothing is free' rule, I have much less CFuckery interaction on FB

KilkennyCats · 17/08/2025 20:11

cadburyegg · 17/08/2025 18:00

I grew up in a student city, lots of student houses in our street. One year some of them knocked on our door asking for our WiFi password “to save us getting our own”.

During Covid, one of my best friends asked me to take her mum’s dog to a specialist vet 40 miles away because none of them wanted to drive that far and put themselves at risk.

One of my friends lived with me rent free for 18 months. She didn’t even pay towards food. Lots of examples from this time but the main one was her complaining that my ds8 opened “her” cereal - which I had bought and was identical to “our” cereal, so he had assumed it was ours. But I was given a telling off for letting him in the kitchen unsupervised etc etc.

I’m not sure who’s worse in this scenario, tbh.
Who lets someone live in their house rent free and actually funds their food as well for eighteen months?

tipsyraven · 17/08/2025 20:12

LillyPJ · 17/08/2025 20:03

Germs pass through toilet paper. Don't you wash your hands after?

Never mind all the germs on the flush and door handles from previous users.

jumpingthehighjump · 17/08/2025 20:15

I volunteered and had a work position for a very large charity. Once a year the volunteers would have an afternoon tea type get together.
Volunteers would make and bring in the most delicious cakes... think black forest gateau, carrot cakes, lemon drizzle.. it was something we all looked forward to. Cups of tea, endless cake, a real get together when we don't see each other that often.

One of the volunteers was a right pain and always on the make. Towards the end of our get together he took out something folded up... it was a huge piece of tinfoil. He proceeded to flatten it out on the table and had put one half of a carrot cake in it when I spotted him and said..
'What the hell are you doing?'
'It's a shame to see this go to waste, I'm filling my tinfoil sheet' says he.
'No, you are NOT. It's not going to waste, I'm dropping some off to volunteers on the way home, and the rest will be for the volunteers tomorrow, now just push off, you've eaten enough!!'

Saturdayishere · 17/08/2025 20:15

When we were first time buyers (and naive) we were due to complete at noon on the Friday. The sellers asked if we could give them until Saturday morning to move out as they had a one year old.

We were really excited to move into our first new home but agreed. I was working Saturday so that morning my husband turned up, with his friend, to move in.

They hadn’t even moved out. The husband was on his own with a van he’d hired. My husband and his friend had to help load the van - or we never would have moved in.

On top of that the house was filthy. The house wasn’t much more than ten years old and was pristine when we viewed. It’s as if they stopped cleaning and intentionally damaged everything since we’d last viewed it.

I felt sad but I felt really sorry that their little baby had been crawling around in that filth.

PrettyPickle · 17/08/2025 20:15

Some land became available that ran across the back of mine, and my neighbours house, we approached the owners and asked if we could buy the part that ran at the rear of our gardens. It was al signed, sealed and delivered and registered at the land registry - so a done deal. I wanted to refence my entire garden to encompass the new acquired land. I ran it past my neighbour, as I would be putting a fence up between our too properties and I explained I was happy to pay and she was fine. The fencing was due to go up in a months time.

A couple of weeks later I heard thudding from by back garden, I looked out of the window and could she two workmen in my newly acquired garden, sledgehammering bedding border along side a path to put stakes in. I ran out and asked what they were doing and to cut a long story short she was putting a chicken wire fence up on my land because she had decided she wanted the path for her grandkids to ride their trike along.

They would not stop even when I proved to them that it was my land.

I sent a very polite letter (in the circumstances) telling her to remove it. My solicitor said I can't touch her property (the fence). She basically laughed.

Well two can play at that game.

My fencers came to fence all three sides of the back garden. They did two sides and when it came to the side shared with this neighbour, she refused to remove the chicken wire fence. So I had the fencers, step over her shitty fence and put my f6ft fence up 2mtrs further on, just inside my boundary so it was on my property line. There was nothing she could do.

She was really annoyed and called me all the names under the sun and when I came back in the house, she asked the construction workers if they could take her fence up for her. They came and asked me (they didn't want to do it) and I said no, because I paying for them and not her. She had to ask nicely for her fence and I said I would pull the cheap stakes out if she agreed I was not responsible if they got damaged when I was pulling them out. I did this in front of witnesses.

When I was back in the house and the fencers just had the last panel to put up between our too houses, she asked the fencers if they could make it a gate so she could get into my garden for fruit! Cheeky cow. Again they came and mentioned it and the last panel was put in and no gate - she even expected me to pay for it apparently!

Two weeks later I had them back to nail all the panels in as her son had pulled a panel out when we were away so his kids could pick the blackberries and raspberries in my fruit cage and taken some rhubarb! Apparently I should be thankful that they hadn't let them go to waste! But I was growing them to bake with! Thank god for CCTV!

FancyNewt · 17/08/2025 20:19

Out local pub has deck chairs in the garden. A couple of women got up from the deckchairs and disappeared. We assumed they had gone so DH and I went over and took the seats. I sat down and DH went inside to get drinks. 15 mins later one of the women comes back and says the seats were theirs and can we move. I said no because you both left. If you wanted to keep the chairs then one of you should have stayed , but empty seats are open to anyone. She then started arguing and saying ' but we just went inside to get drinks' and I just said ' but you left the seats empty. How is anyone to know what you were doing ?' . She stood there for a few minutes trying to pressure me to move and I just said no and ignored her.

cadburyegg · 17/08/2025 20:20

KilkennyCats · 17/08/2025 20:11

I’m not sure who’s worse in this scenario, tbh.
Who lets someone live in their house rent free and actually funds their food as well for eighteen months?

What a nasty post. You have no idea of the circumstances.

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