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period came unexpectedly and new man coming round today - help me word message

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OrangeSmoke · 15/08/2025 08:07

I'm seeing a guy today, third date. It's very early days but I like him although possibly more as a friends with benefits type thing - I'm a lone parent and work full time so not looking for anything serious. I'm not sure yet.

We had sex on the last date and have both alluded to it this time around, I'm in peri and my cycle is usually still regular but my period has arrived a full two weeks early this morning. (I'm so pissed off but that's by the by).

He's not pushy at all but having mutually set up the expectation of sex I feel I need to tell him in advance. I'm still up for it but don't want him to feel pressured himself as I know not all guys are going to want that. Help me word this!

OP posts:
GoodLaudanum · 15/08/2025 14:42

''It's my period, so don't expect a shag''.

IntoTheFringe · 15/08/2025 14:47

Sux2buthen · 15/08/2025 13:58

”good news! Blow job week”

😂😂😂

IntoTheFringe · 15/08/2025 14:51

Moveoverdarlin · 15/08/2025 14:00

Don’t say this. As a 47 year old British woman I have never heard this phrase in my life. I would assume you were going to the races.

Yes I said this too but @FluffyWabbit defended her choice of phrase because the word period is "crass" apparently... 🤷🏼‍♀️

Halfquarterbag · 15/08/2025 17:04

It’s Bumsex Friday!

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