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Kissing a man with a beard

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klfahah · 13/08/2025 11:17

I actually feel quite silly typing this but here goes. Ive met and been on a date with a lovely man who I definitely want to see again. He has a full but well groomed beard which actually does really suit him and I do like it, I love the rugged masculine look. But Im actually feeling quite anxious about kissing him with his beard. will I get a mouth full of hair? will it be in the way? I think im just overthinking things but how to you kiss a man with a full beard! im in my 40s and always had a clean shaven man or just a bit of stubble. I feel like a silly teenager typing this!

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FatLarrysBanned · 13/08/2025 13:15

DP has a full beard, well maintained and clean - he is a fab kisser. Not an issue for us. I'd be very disappointed if the beard went. 🧔🏻‍♂️

BeeCucumber · 13/08/2025 13:22

DH shampoos and conditions his beard every day. He is very kissable.

coxesorangepippin · 13/08/2025 13:24

Lord above

Just snog him

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Sjb85 · 13/08/2025 13:26

My partner has a full beard and I don't think I've ever even noticed it kissing him. I'm going to concentrate next time to see if I can feel it 🤣

Sjb85 · 13/08/2025 13:26

FatLarrysBanned · 13/08/2025 13:15

DP has a full beard, well maintained and clean - he is a fab kisser. Not an issue for us. I'd be very disappointed if the beard went. 🧔🏻‍♂️

I agree. Id be devastated if mine got rid of his!

doodleschnoodle · 13/08/2025 13:29

I love a hairy face. I actually find a smooth just-shaved face really unpleasant to have against my skin Blush I wouldn’t say anything obv but I’d be gutted if DH decided to be clean shaven every day. Luckily I don’t think that’ll ever happen! He just varies from neatly trimmed stubble to beardy depending on how lazy he’s feeling about dealing with it.

Enjoy!

Absentmindedsmile · 13/08/2025 13:29

Beards are gross and unhygienic.. can’t kiss that. Imagine a bit of bolognese dribble 🤢.
I do like a man to have a bit of stubble though.

klfahah · 13/08/2025 13:35

Thanks for all the replies, some have made me laugh especially the one about the creepy crawlies.
Think I am just massively overthinking it, think im worried it'll gross me out even though I do like the look of his manly beard. we're going out for a Chinese this coming weekend, il keep hold of a pair of chop sticks for picking out any random bean sprouts and creepy crawlies from beard. 😂

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PInkyStarfish · 13/08/2025 13:35

Yuck.

Nushi21 · 13/08/2025 13:38

My husband had clean shaven and now full beard. No issues at all. Unless he’s like a hairy biker Mr Twit (Roald Dahl character) style crazy with food sticking out - then I don’t see an issue.
But if you don’t like it then you don’t have to commit yourself. It your personal preference at the end of the day.

Absentmindedsmile · 13/08/2025 13:39

klfahah · 13/08/2025 13:35

Thanks for all the replies, some have made me laugh especially the one about the creepy crawlies.
Think I am just massively overthinking it, think im worried it'll gross me out even though I do like the look of his manly beard. we're going out for a Chinese this coming weekend, il keep hold of a pair of chop sticks for picking out any random bean sprouts and creepy crawlies from beard. 😂

Top marks if you can perform creepy crawly extraction from a beard, with chop sticks 🥇

KPPlumbing · 13/08/2025 13:42

PInkyStarfish · 13/08/2025 13:35

Yuck.

How is it "yuck"! You do know men naturally have hairy faces!?

starfishmummy · 13/08/2025 13:47

DH has always gone between a moustache only, clean shaven and a beard. Wfh and then retiring mean it's usually unkempt apart from a short while after hes decided to hack trim it. Its.fine.

RattyMcBatty · 13/08/2025 13:49

Personally I love a beard. Dh has one and it's not a problem. I don't like it when he shaves it off -feel like I'm kissing a child.

GiveItAGoMalcom · 13/08/2025 13:51

I wish it didn’t but kissing a man who has a beard, physically turns my stomach.

GiveItAGoMalcom · 13/08/2025 13:51

I wish it didn’t but kissing a man who has a beard, physically turns my stomach.

13SixWeetabix · 13/08/2025 13:52

I don't know op - but look, there is only really one way to find out... Go and find out and report back 😆

Absentmindedsmile · 13/08/2025 13:55

For some reason Magnum is the only man who has ever suited a moustache.🥸 🚗

I can’t think of a beard success. Well apart from David Mitchell. He does look better, because the beard hides his weird triple chin / non existent neck.

FruitFlyPie · 13/08/2025 14:13

I was in your situation a few months ago OP, when I went on a date with a man with a beard for the first time at age 38. I can report that it didn't feel any different. I ended up telling the guy about what I'd been thinking and we had a laugh over it. We are still together and I've come to like the beard.

KPPlumbing · 13/08/2025 14:25

RattyMcBatty · 13/08/2025 13:49

Personally I love a beard. Dh has one and it's not a problem. I don't like it when he shaves it off -feel like I'm kissing a child.

Without his beard my very handsome DH looks way too much like his mum!

BauhausOfEliott · 13/08/2025 14:25

Oh, I love a snog with a bearded man. I'd hate it if my DP started shaving!

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 14:27

Haven’t known my husband without a beard. 36 years on, never been a problem.

Rallentanda · 13/08/2025 14:27

JifNtGif · 13/08/2025 12:25

Unfortunately lots of creepy crawlies in beards however well maintained they are. Wouldn't want them in my mouth and would advise you to get your duck in a row and move on.

This response is pure Mumsnet 🤣 love it

Rallentanda · 13/08/2025 14:28

Dh has had a beard for years, we kiss a lot, I’ve never felt that it gets in the way. I’ve never thought about it, actually!

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