Revenge is best served cold

[yesrevenge]

Yes! I got my revenge. MIL ignored something which was very important for me and Dh. I didn’t show my annoyance then but hoped to somehow pay back. The situation came two months later and I didn’t need to do anything. I am the only person who could have prevented it happening but I did nothing. She must feel same as I did.

Are we supposed to know what you're talking about?

You sound awful

This

The best revenge is no revenge. Just live your life.

and two wrongs do not a right make

What person waits months to get revenge on their DH mum after a perceived slight. You must be a deeply unhappy person.

besides which, two months is not cold, but lukewarm

What she did is unforgivable

What are you hoping to achieve from this thread, other than strangers thinking what a weirdo?

Thanks for the clarity OP.

My MIL has pulled some really nasty strokes in her time, so I understand where you’re coming from.

Eh?

My mil also got her comeuppance.. With dh's approval..
Some people deserve a taste of their own medicine..
Feel free to elaborate op.

Ignoring something important to you does not sound unforgivable in the slightest

Why so vague? What did you both do?

Please tell us what she did, and what the revenge was.

Then don’t forgive her - no need for actual revenge too. Nasty plus nasty doesn’t equal nice.

Well if what she did is unforgivable and you’ve done the same thing then that makes you unforgivable doesn’t it? Does that feel nice?

I’m intrigued to know what she did, OP!

Literally makes no sense whatsoever OP! Did you just have a ‘thought dump’ and post it on here?

Without actual context, we are all just very confused and think you’re a raving idiot.

I hear you @yesrevenge

DS1 was horribly bullied at primary school. I had spoken to the bully's mum many times about it but her darling child would never do such a thing apparently.

Years later the bully's mum was asking for help with something on FB related to her child and I was one of only a very few people who could have helped her.

I took great pleasure in not helping her out!

Don't humour her 🙄

Did she fart on your breakfast or something..

What happened?

I think if you don't want to elaborate on either side...you probably could've kept this one to yourself.