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Man Falls To His Death At Wembley Oasis Concert

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RabbitsRock · 04/08/2025 09:32

Just reading a thread on Redditt about this. Terrible situation. The thing that sticks with you the most is the insane amount of alcohol that was being consumed ( it hasn’t been stated that the man who fell was drunk but a lot of people were) & apparently Wembley Stadium proudly claimed they’d sold 250K pints. Not sure if that was in one night. Many concertgoers had been drinking all day & some could hardly stand up, plus the stadium floors were like ice rinks from spilt beer (it was being thrown everywhere). I don’t drink anymore but even when I did, I couldn’t get my head round why people feel the need to get absolutely steaming drunk to have a good time.

OP posts:
Namechange7282829 · 04/08/2025 12:15

I was there the other week in the first row of the top tier and it really is very high. I was sober but caught myself leaning against the railing mindlessly a few times throughout and thought a few times about how easy they would be to topple over. The view from that high up also provided a view throughout of intoxicated people in the standing area being thrown out/taken to medical every couple of minutes. There were SO many and that was only one side! Disaster waiting to happen and very sad regardless of circumstances.

Giraffemonkey8 · 04/08/2025 12:18

Sevillian · 04/08/2025 11:57

I had two DC with friends there on Saturday with seats at the top right next to where this poor man fell, and there were plenty of people who were not drunk.

This is very sad - people should stop rushing to blame. It might have been nothing to do with alcohol.

I hope your DC and their friends are OK, I can’t imagine how traumatising it must be to witness something like this.

Petalymetal · 04/08/2025 12:19

I agree op. I don't understand why the need to get so drunk. I went to a small, seated gig recently and the couple next to me drank so much they could barely stand. I don't understand why they drank so much at a gig. They were in their 50s.

RIP. His poor family.

3luckystars · 04/08/2025 12:20

I’m surprised this doesn’t happen more. Concerts are such huge, built up events now and people are drinking way more. Mixing that amount of people, with all the steps and high seating and alcohol. It’s deadly.

Slane Castle in Ireland is the worst, both times I went to a concert I felt lucky to be alive after it. 😁

I went to loads of concerts the last few years and can feel them getting progressively more uncomfortable so don’t think I will be going to any again for a long while.

NoSourDough · 04/08/2025 12:20

I was there on Wednesday night - high up in the Gods seating. I was sober. The three people below me, especially the man, were absolutely hammered. He was swaying from side to side, staggering forward. I said to DH “what if he falls?”. I kept feeling like I needed to grab his shoulders, ready to save him.

it crossed my mind many times that we were all dancing and could fall. It was an incredible atmosphere but we were dancing like we were on the pitch.

when it was time to almost leave, we left before the fireworks as I was generally scared of that many people leaving the venue and accidents.

Sevillian · 04/08/2025 12:20

Giraffemonkey8 · 04/08/2025 12:18

I hope your DC and their friends are OK, I can’t imagine how traumatising it must be to witness something like this.

They just feel incredibly sad for the man. But thanks - I think the people who were at the bottom rather than right at the top will definitely have been badly affected.

Sevillian · 04/08/2025 12:21

What I find astonishing is that no-one else was hurt.

PandoraSocks · 04/08/2025 12:22

wevetalkedalittlenotalot · 04/08/2025 12:05

Oasis aren’t playing the O2

Sorry I meant Wembley. I don't know why I wrote O2!

But there was a thread, as I said. I think the OP was thinking about not going.

Eta link to thread:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5380455-to-not-go-to-oasis-despite-having-tickets?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

Notonthestairs · 04/08/2025 12:25

I appreciate why posters are focusing on the alcohol because so much has been sold.

But surely stadium design shouldnt allow for this to happen in any circumstances. People trip, get jostled etc. the design should allow for that.

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 04/08/2025 12:26

joanofaardvark · 04/08/2025 11:42

I’d be surprised if a person could just fall over the edge. There needs to be something that lifts them enough that it takes their body weight over the safety rails - either jumping or starting from a point higher than floor level (either standing on the seat or the ledge/guardrail or leaning over it). Gravity alone doesn’t lift you over the railings and there needs to be enough momentum to carry the heavy middle bit of the person over. Absolutely tragic but I’d be amazed if there was no individual culpability.

I was at the gig last night and have been to Wembley previously so have seen the layout.

This is what I am trying to work out. I really don’t want to speculate as to what may or may not have happened but I have been to several football matches and gigs at Wembley and I can’t work out how you would accidentally fall from the seats (no matter how drunk you were) without your fall being broken by the rows of people in front of you. I think there may be more to this story than is currently being reported (and that’s fair enough, I don’t think the public need to hear the gory details).

silverspringer · 04/08/2025 12:27

SoftPillow · 04/08/2025 10:41

Were you there or are you relying on online tattle for your info?

I was there.

I can’t comment on why the poor man fell. It was dreadful.

your points in turn:

  • Many concertgoers had been drinking all day - some had been perhaps but I didn’t see anyone very drunk. There was also free drinking water amply available
  • some could hardly stand up - I didn’t see one person like this, everyone was upright and happy.
  • plus the stadium floors were like ice rinks from spilt beer - a bit slippy at the end when everyone was bouncing about. But not slippy for those just walking around. There was a spill on the stairs and the staff quickly mopped it up and warned us so we avoided those steps.
  • (it was being thrown everywhere). - nope, some was thrown, I was maybe splatted 3 times in many hours and it was a light trickle not a deluge.
  • I couldn’t get my head round why people feel the need to get absolutely steaming drunk to have a good time - everyone is different. Again, not that many people were ‘steaming drunk’ but everyone did seem to have a very good time.
Edited

Thank god for some sense and not silly hyperbole!

wipebored · 04/08/2025 12:28

I was at a big concert at a large venue packed to the rafters on very steep balcony seating last year. The amount of booze flowing and very drunk people and puking going on was incredible. I am surprised these things don't happen more often.

Rolosaregoo · 04/08/2025 12:30

Yeah it’s the combination of the steepness and some people being drunk makes it doubly dangerous .

I went to a stadium in my early 20s, I think Manchester arena perhaps but not sure. Anyway I felt light headed and dizzy as we walked up the steps to our seats, and to be clear I wasn’t drinking lol. It was the height that made me dizzy!

I’m not good with heights so I thought I was just being over dramatic, but hearing about this tragedy tells me I was right to be wary.

FairKoala · 04/08/2025 12:31

I don’t understand why safety glass can’t be put as an extra height barrier not just between the rows of seats but also on top of the wall at the edge.
We have safety glass for balconies so why not in these seating areas

Also why is there no safety netting under these barriers if they are so low.

Sometimes it might seem like no safety netting is required because a barrier conforms to certain height standards but accidents happen and for peace of mind I do think architects when building these places. need to think about worse possible outcomes and add safety features. Even the stadiums should have put safety features (netting at the very least in)
It’s not as though people haven’t been complaining about how low the barriers seem up in the top levels of these big stadiums from the day that they opened.

Rolosaregoo · 04/08/2025 12:33

Notonthestairs · 04/08/2025 12:25

I appreciate why posters are focusing on the alcohol because so much has been sold.

But surely stadium design shouldnt allow for this to happen in any circumstances. People trip, get jostled etc. the design should allow for that.

I agree, I wouldn’t drink at a concert but I still feel it could be unsafe for me despite being sober and alert.

VeryStressedMum · 04/08/2025 12:33

A terrible thing to have happened to that man.
I am going g to oasis in a few weeks. When we bought the tickets I didn't know what seats we had got then o realised they were high up and I've actually been dreading the concert since. I'm not really afraid of heights but I hate the thought of climbing up to get there.

Codyrhodesisaheel · 04/08/2025 12:34

Honestly I’ve been in level 4 at the 02 and nearly had a panic attack. I remember going to see Dolly Parton, and the lady next to me had a full attack and had to be escorted elsewhere.

I’ve also sat in block 516 a few times for various football games at Wembley and it’s fucking high and insanely steep. I was terrified standing up and making my way up/down the stairs because like others say, it feels like you could topple off. It’s literally my biggest fear in life, so condolences to the man’s family and friends, it’s heartbreaking,

Netcurtainnelly · 04/08/2025 12:37

RabbitsRock · 04/08/2025 09:32

Just reading a thread on Redditt about this. Terrible situation. The thing that sticks with you the most is the insane amount of alcohol that was being consumed ( it hasn’t been stated that the man who fell was drunk but a lot of people were) & apparently Wembley Stadium proudly claimed they’d sold 250K pints. Not sure if that was in one night. Many concertgoers had been drinking all day & some could hardly stand up, plus the stadium floors were like ice rinks from spilt beer (it was being thrown everywhere). I don’t drink anymore but even when I did, I couldn’t get my head round why people feel the need to get absolutely steaming drunk to have a good time.

Me neither. I don't understand all.the drinking.

MaloryJones · 04/08/2025 12:37

SupposesRoses · 04/08/2025 09:56

There was a thread on here a few days before the concert from a poster afraid to go as her seat was high up. At the time I thought she was overly anxious.

I remember when I was 11 (last Year of Primary) and we went to a Theatre in Central London and we were up in the Gods, so to speak
I was absolutely terrified .
I don't go to the Theatre much but if I do I make sure I am not right up there

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 04/08/2025 12:38

This is awful, poor guy, do not expect something like this to be the outcome of a night out that he was presumably enjoying himself at.
Both DDs and DH were there on Saturday and they said there were so many people there completely off their face. It’s so high and steep, it was also very slippery because so many ‘drinks’ (sure it wasn’t the expensive beer) being thrown around. Lots of pushing to get out at the end because there’s 90,000 trying to get home on time. And they were there from 5pm to 10.30pm so plenty of time for insane amounts of drinking to take place. They could see various fights break out in the standing area and one person was stretchered out. Gigs like this really need a rethink at such enormous venues. They’re taking my mum to Coldplay at Wembley at the end of the month - hopefully it won’t be quite as bad but then again they saw a fight break out in Cardiff at the Stevie Wonder gig last month, so who knows.

myplace · 04/08/2025 12:39

AutumnLover1989 · 04/08/2025 12:05

Bit of a strange comment. Why are so many people in a COL crisis going on holiday? Maybe people are going to gigs INSTEAD of going on holiday?

@Bananachimp clearly it isn’t the point of the thread, however people have pointed out both the cost of alcohol and the amount consumed. I can point out my surprise at the numbers able to do it. I felt the same way about the Eras tour. Extraordinary money, and no shortage of people able to pay the prices.

Ohjoyohbliss · 04/08/2025 12:40

ThatsNotMyTeen · 04/08/2025 09:54

Yes. At a football match or sports event, people are perhaps more likely to be seated, for at least the bulk of the event. I’m not sure in England, but in Scotland alcohol can’t be served during football matches. At a gig, as well as the potential impact of alcohol, people are more likely to be dancing/standing/moving around, increasing risk.

What a terrible thing to happen

I've been to lots of football games at Wembley. You can't drink alcohol within view of the pitch, but you can on the concourse.

In one of the Euro 2020 games at Wembley (in 2021) a fan fell from the upper tier. He was quite badly injured (broken pelvis + more) but survived.

RabbitsRock · 04/08/2025 12:40

SoftPillow · 04/08/2025 10:41

Were you there or are you relying on online tattle for your info?

I was there.

I can’t comment on why the poor man fell. It was dreadful.

your points in turn:

  • Many concertgoers had been drinking all day - some had been perhaps but I didn’t see anyone very drunk. There was also free drinking water amply available
  • some could hardly stand up - I didn’t see one person like this, everyone was upright and happy.
  • plus the stadium floors were like ice rinks from spilt beer - a bit slippy at the end when everyone was bouncing about. But not slippy for those just walking around. There was a spill on the stairs and the staff quickly mopped it up and warned us so we avoided those steps.
  • (it was being thrown everywhere). - nope, some was thrown, I was maybe splatted 3 times in many hours and it was a light trickle not a deluge.
  • I couldn’t get my head round why people feel the need to get absolutely steaming drunk to have a good time - everyone is different. Again, not that many people were ‘steaming drunk’ but everyone did seem to have a very good time.
Edited

I wouldn’t call it tittle tattle as the folks posting had either been at Wembley that night, another night or at a different Oasis venue. Plus they were discussing concertgoers’ behaviour in pubs etc during the day, not solely at Wembley

OP posts:
rrrrrreatt · 04/08/2025 12:42

JohnofWessex · 04/08/2025 11:29

There have been two reports recently into deaths on The Tube.

In both cases the deceased were very drunk BUT as with Oasis nothing about 'public intoxication'

I gather that there were significant problems caused by drunkenness in Sweden which resulted in the very strict licensing rules they now have. Perhaps we need Government to 'grow a pair' and take on the alcohol industry

Sweden introduced strict restrictions on alcohol almost 100 years ago, influenced by the Temperance movement which was v popular over there. It’s debatable how severe the problems were vs how convenient a moral panic was for the movement’s objectives.

Their venue licensing is similar to ours but generally time is called earlier (maybe 1am in most places?). The biggest difference is the systembolaget which are state run off licences, giving the govt a monopoly on retail sales of alcohol. They’re not open late or on Sundays and only open for a half day Saturdays.

Mrsbloggz · 04/08/2025 12:42

Notonthestairs · 04/08/2025 12:25

I appreciate why posters are focusing on the alcohol because so much has been sold.

But surely stadium design shouldnt allow for this to happen in any circumstances. People trip, get jostled etc. the design should allow for that.

The people who profit from the event would like to spend as little money as possible on the safety of the cash cows who attend the event 🤷🏻‍♀️

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