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Things you miss from the 'good old days'

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Adultautismdiagnosis · 02/08/2025 19:57

I'll start with:

  1. Choosing a video or DVD from Blockbusters
  2. Pic n mix from Woolworths
  3. Puffy triangle snacks/crisps. I can't even remember what they were called.
  4. Walkmans and mixed tapes
  5. Simplicity e.g. only having 4 TV channels, not having 1001 chocolate bars to choose from etc
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BlueandWhitePorcelain · 04/08/2025 15:27

Aged 5, being able to cross the road on my own to the sweet shop, and buy a number of sweets for 6d. Being able to play out on the street with all the other local children. Having a family doctor, who did home visits for infectious diseases like measles.

Aged 8, being able to go out all day on my bike with my best friend to the woods, with my parents having no idea where we were. We could get a bus to town for 2p, as bus fares were highly subsidised. The council ran the buses, gas, water, etc iirc, so everything was integrated and worked. There wasn’t the feeling that the public were cash cows, to be exploited as far as possible by every commercial organisation and public sector. My mother cooked practically everything from scratch and did a hot dessert, after dinner most days.

Apart from Brownies/Cubs, there were no after school activities nor homework until secondary school - apart from possibly some reading?

There was no pressure at school to achieve, apart from going to university. The attitude to O levels and A levels was, you are going to get what you are going to get - which could be a mix of As, Bs, Cs, etc. Teachers didn’t go on generally about getting As, and A*s didn’t exist.

I had virtually a full grant at university, and after paying my hall fees, could live on £7 a week - including going out for a drink every night at the bar; or a pizza or nightclubbing on a Saturday night. 2:2s were enough to get a graduate entry level job.

You could pay most bills by cheque, and go into the local electricity showroom to pay a bill. All the shops like Saxone, Dolcis, Freeman Hardy and Willis, Chelsea Girl, Dorothy Perkins, C and A, Woolies….No call centres - if you had a problem, you got to speak to a real person, not automated menus!

Santina · 04/08/2025 16:14

I used to like the shops being closed on Sunday, there wasn't really anything to do and you would visit your grandparents. That was the part of lockdown I liked, the simple daily life.

RazzleDazzleEm · 04/08/2025 18:41

The good life

shadypines · 04/08/2025 21:50

Wonderful post @mambojambodothetango , it would be hard to explain to the younger generation that warm and fuzzy feeling you got when you know you and all your mates had watched the SAME thing at the SAME time! Incredible! You then had very excited chats the next day or on a Monday morning.
99.9 % of school kids I see now barely acknowledge each other due to the ever present smart phone.

ThreeCooks · 05/08/2025 09:06

shadypines · 04/08/2025 21:50

Wonderful post @mambojambodothetango , it would be hard to explain to the younger generation that warm and fuzzy feeling you got when you know you and all your mates had watched the SAME thing at the SAME time! Incredible! You then had very excited chats the next day or on a Monday morning.
99.9 % of school kids I see now barely acknowledge each other due to the ever present smart phone.

I can remember us all discussing

Diff’rent Strokes

FourBlackCats · 05/08/2025 09:22

Nothing. I must be missing the nostalgia gene.

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 05/08/2025 09:29

A world without social media.

Lots of clothes and book shops.

Spiras.

Todayismyfavouriteday · 05/08/2025 17:26

Mavvera · 02/08/2025 21:05

Most things, I'm glad I'm old now so at least I had a decent youth. I couldn't imagine being young in these days

I agree. I'm happy I'm old enough to have lived my youth in a completely different era, and I'm very worried about my son's youth. So far, I've done my best to create an environment as similar as the one I grew up in, for him: reduced access to technology, plenty of books and reading, real-life experiences and activities, etc. But the world is changing, and there's no escaping reality.

WhatdoesitmeanKeith · 05/08/2025 17:56

PerfectTuesday · 02/08/2025 20:31

Consulate Menthol.

God yes. And I haven’t smoked for years, but I know what you mean.

Jayne35 · 05/08/2025 21:04

I miss going to the video shop too, loved choosing a film, then in the shop next door for snacks. The tv channels are too many now, we spend an hour looking for something to watch these days!

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 05/08/2025 21:21

I miss browsing for a Cd in HMV and Volume One

Thanksman · 05/08/2025 21:34

So many things. More than anything I miss my youth and not making the most of it at all. The old saying that youth is wasted on the young was so true for me.

TheodoraCrumpet · 05/08/2025 22:19

Being able to go to the job centre and actually find jobs displayed on postcards, which you would take down and wait for a staff member at a desk to tell you how to apply, whether that meant giving you a form or calling the employer to arrange an interview. As a slightly gauche and nervous youngster, I found someone else taking that first step on my behalf enormously helpful, and I got a number of casual jobs with their help. The option of going into shops etc to ask for work was always there, but I never really had the nerve.

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