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Things you miss from the 'good old days'

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Adultautismdiagnosis · 02/08/2025 19:57

I'll start with:

  1. Choosing a video or DVD from Blockbusters
  2. Pic n mix from Woolworths
  3. Puffy triangle snacks/crisps. I can't even remember what they were called.
  4. Walkmans and mixed tapes
  5. Simplicity e.g. only having 4 TV channels, not having 1001 chocolate bars to choose from etc
OP posts:
nolight · 03/08/2025 16:38

Better manufacturing standards - things were generally made to last.
Cars which were less complicated.
Scammers were far far less of an issue.

CalzoneOnLegs · 03/08/2025 17:05

I don’t really miss a lot from the ‘GOD’s ‘ personally. I suppose being able to socialise without SM for instance and meeting people rather than OLD, and a nice day out shopping but that meant lots of impulse purchases ! but the food was awful, the tech was awful too. I love that we can now watch a series in full and pay for so much good content as and when we please and there is always YouTube for nostalgia
so much more choice now for decent food mainly. I agree with a PP there are lots of tatty imports and awful disposable clothes but nobody needs so many so there are quality clothes to be had, you just need less.
safety standards are better too now

RightOnTheEdge · 03/08/2025 17:07

Toffos, especially the mint ones.

TheMixedGirl · 03/08/2025 17:09

Being skinny and beautiful

RaraRachael · 03/08/2025 17:14

People doing their jobs properly

Aurora2023 · 03/08/2025 17:33

YelramBob · 03/08/2025 00:08

Who remembers the Britannia Music Club? Five CDs at 99p each! What could possibly go wrong? 🤷

I’ll tell you what went wrong.
Forgetting to cancel the bugger and ending up with the monthly “surprise” cd which wasn’t Blondie but in fact some pan pipes delight, or similar. And having to pay for it, due to lack of cancelling it. That’s what went wrong there 😂

CravingPotNoodle · 03/08/2025 17:52

I miss the simplicity of life before the internet.

People growing older gracefully without botox and fillers.

People were more respectful in the ‘good old days’ unlike nowadays.

I miss not having to put up with the stench of cannabis. It stinks and it’s everywhere.

Sweets, biscuits and lucozade from the good old days. Lucozade doesn’t taste anything like it used to. Neither do Rich Tea biscuits and why did they put a stop to Highland Toffee Bars and Tutti Frutii sweets.

I miss the time when we didn’t hear about so much crime and depravity. I miss the time when we didn’t hear about the likes of Bonnie Blue and Lily Philips.

I could write a never ending list of what I miss from the good old days…

fetchacloth · 03/08/2025 18:06

Being able to see a GP in the same week as making an appointment. These days I'm lucky if it's in the same month.

Fish and chips with change from £10

Woolworths.

Good manners. Please and thank you is apparently passive aggressive these days so some people don't bother. Some people don't even bother to hold a door open for anyone behind them.

Shop assistants on the floor to ask questions and reach higher shelves.

Pedestrians taking care before crossing the road. The Green Cross Code was drummed into me as a kid but nowadays people are so busy looking down at their phones they step straight out into the road, sometimes without looking first.

busymomtoone · 03/08/2025 18:20

So many things ! Consistency especially- seeing the same doctor or same dentist/ optician for years; shops keeping their layouts ( and staff rather than self service tills) C&A and TOTP as lots have mentioned. Holiday brochures - the anticipation was great ! Whilst Amazon, Trip Advisor and 24 hour on demand tv have their huge advantages in terms of instant gratification or feedback/ recommendations, I sometimes miss that mystery, the anticipation of waiting for things ( like photos , or going to a record shop).Also proper phone calls rather than texts which leave plans so fluid - we used to just make a plan and stick to it because once out you were out of contact !!

asrl78 · 03/08/2025 18:25

Long distance journeys by car didn't take a ridiculous amount of time due to months long roadworks and accidents caused by crap driving.

As a couple of examples, my journey to visit family, 240 miles, has increased from 4 1/2 hours to 5 1/2 hours routinely even away from bank holiday weekends over the last 20 years. Recently my partner and I went to Northumberland, about 360 miles and although we had to go to Twickenham first which added an hour and a half's time, the journey took 12 hours.

Transport seems to have regressed in the UK.

TheBewleySisters · 03/08/2025 18:30

I am ancient so I remember playing outside all day with friends, roaming freely in parks and fields and only going home when it was tea time. Walking to and from school, and some years later, the thrill of going to the local "disco" and dancing all night and maybe "getting off" with a boy who then asked you to go to the pictures with him the following week.

Umbrella15 · 03/08/2025 18:38

Adultautismdiagnosis · 02/08/2025 19:57

I'll start with:

  1. Choosing a video or DVD from Blockbusters
  2. Pic n mix from Woolworths
  3. Puffy triangle snacks/crisps. I can't even remember what they were called.
  4. Walkmans and mixed tapes
  5. Simplicity e.g. only having 4 TV channels, not having 1001 chocolate bars to choose from etc

All of them, also no internet. Having to actully leave the house to go shopping, or to the library to find out information

OSTMusTisNT · 03/08/2025 18:52

Crisp packets with enough content to save you reaching for a second packet.

Cats being allowed to roam without being 'rescued' and plastered all over FB.

Phoning people for no reason was appreciated.

Nescafe Gold Blend before they ruined it.

Mongrels were free to a good home without a silly made up doodle name.

Paper files at work, staplers, hole punches, treasury tags, tippex, carbon paper, floppy discs😍.

Pease pudding at the deli counter (North East thing maybe?)

£1.00 got you 10 Regal Kingsize in the dodgy papershop next to the school.

RaraRachael · 03/08/2025 18:52

TheBewleySisters · 03/08/2025 18:30

I am ancient so I remember playing outside all day with friends, roaming freely in parks and fields and only going home when it was tea time. Walking to and from school, and some years later, the thrill of going to the local "disco" and dancing all night and maybe "getting off" with a boy who then asked you to go to the pictures with him the following week.

Edited

Sounds like my childhood and youth too.

Happy days!

ThatRoseBear · 03/08/2025 18:59

Being able to take my pedal bike out with my cousin and cycle all day. I have no recollection of what we ate or where we went for a wee but just remember the freedom of being out all day pre high school.
Half penny mojos, when 25p would buy a big bag of cola cubes.
Not having to worry about how much things cost. I feel all my adult life has been spent worrying about money, even more so lately. Maybe it's nostalgia and I'm remembering things through rose coloured glasses as I was a child but life seemed more simple and joyful in the 80s and 90s

shadypines · 03/08/2025 19:12

People walking around adopting a normal straight posture and looking where they are going rather than hunch over at nearly 45 degrees with their faces glued to their phones.
People who looked liked normal humans and not plastic ones.
Funny comedies on TV and cheesy dramas rather than the gruesome fests we are served up these days.

Clingfilm · 03/08/2025 19:19

People just looking around at their surroundings and noticing things if they had to wait longer than 10 seconds for anything, as opposed to whipping out their phones during the briefest of waits these days.

And by extension of that...

Kids in prams looking around and not at a screen.

Clingfilm · 03/08/2025 19:20

Ha, I see me and pp poster think alike!

mildlydispeptic · 03/08/2025 19:21

My red passport.

Strawberrri · 03/08/2025 19:22

Cleaner streets as shops were owned and the shopkeeper would keep the pavement clean -also Council wasn’t skint so cleaned things

Rhaenys · 03/08/2025 19:37

Someone has already mentioned this, but - spontaneously deciding to go somewhere, and being able to stay all day. Now you have to pre book slots everywhere.

A local restaurant introduced a 2 hour slot booking system not long ago and it feels so unwelcoming. Obviously you’re not going to stay there all day, and you may well be ready to leave within 2 hours, but it feels pressured and like you need to watch the clock.

Ownedbykitties · 03/08/2025 19:46

cofffeeee · 02/08/2025 21:39

Having a laugh without anyone being offended.
Dating people without swiping now they get called perverts if the say hi in public.
When women stuck together now they judge you on every thing.

Women have always judged other women. Sadly.

mintydoggyv · 03/08/2025 20:05

CalzoneOnLegs · 02/08/2025 22:09

@Nitgel my car is 5 years old has a CD player

Yes my car is a few years old and l can listen to cds ,the radio , l can drive an electric car but with all the computer stuff on them it's ok but the ev l had for work before retirement always kept stopping and needs a garage repairs yet our battery engine goes on and on , the pleasure of getting anything from a shop , clothes , white goods , furniture, presents so and so on , woolworth and so many more shops , so now you get a picture of the said item from whoever and pray it will in the least be delivered and not thrown over next doors garden fence . Are things better l will let you decide

SouthernNights59 · 03/08/2025 22:48

manicpixieschemegirl · 03/08/2025 08:37

Being able to go out to bars without having to reserve a table for drinks. Or actually being able to go anywhere without having to pre-book.

I miss how much less bureaucracy there used to be. Now you need to fill out masses of online forms, create accounts and download apps for absolutely everything.

I just miss the simplicity, really. Life can be very overstimulating these days with a relentless pressure to always be busy and “on”.

Yes, it's the simplicity of life that I miss too. I'm not in the UK so don't have to book for everything, but so much in life now is complicated and everything seems to take so much more time.

I try to live as simple a life as possible, but a lot of it is out of our control. Things like it being difficult to actually contact businesses to get things sorted, or even being able to talk to a human, phoning places and having to wait in a long queue, or get a callback, before you can have your issue addressed.

In some ways life now is so much better than it used to be, but also in many ways it is so much worse.

mambojambodothetango · 03/08/2025 22:55

LittlleMy · 02/08/2025 22:10

I miss the analogue world of my 80s youth. The world was more simple then and you weren’t overwhelmed with endless choices of shopping, food, clothes etc.

You had your trusty few stores to get your different bits from including Woolies, BHS, your local newsagent (always good for a 10p mixture). The latest pop gossip and beauty tips were straight from magazines like Just 17 and Smash Hits with their pull out posters, lyrics and innocent celeb Qs like for some reasons I still remember being v confused by Kylies answer that her favourite sandwich was white bread with chocolate spread lol.

The few TV channels by the very fact there was only 3/4 was comforting in that you could have a shared experience with everyone usually watching the same big shows. Again not getting overwhelmed by choice and you’d talk about them at school together.

My interests and I imagine of other kids were so simple, I lived to read, watching the Sat morning shows, playing with other kids from the street and disappearing for the whole day only reappearing for lunch and then supper.

People had less random ‘stuff’ as well. I like how once you bought a lamp, ornament or whatever it was, it just seemed to last amd was never replaced because you saw something cuter, fancied a change - it just stayed forever u til it broke. Again there was a comfort in the familiarity of the unchanging landscape of your home.

The music, the familiarity of things not changing as fast as they seem to do now eg the amount of pop up shops in town that last a few months to replaced by something less equally temporary. The bustling high street and busy markets my mom dragged me to every Sat morning.

Most of all, everyone seemed synchronised to the same sort of habits in TV watching and routines.

So I guess in a nutshell, I miss the ‘comfort’ of back then - I don’t know if it’s imagined or because I currently am single and live alone with no family or friends that I feel a lack of comfort but anyway that’s what I miss. (Apologies for the rambling long post but this one has really touched me 😌).

Yes, i think you've got something there. Having so much choice, and cheaper stuff, available instantly, has spoiled us. Broadly I think life has improved overall but there is a sense of detachment - and the pursuit of individual pleasure and constant distraction (snacks on sale everywhere, ads everywhere, phones demanding our attention) has made life complicated and 'noisy' in a way that it wasn't 30+ years ago.