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Am I "tiny"?

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Lollysoup · 25/07/2025 17:09

I'm not. I've always thiigh of mysefl as a normal healthy build. In a world where a majority are over weight , I'm not that, but I don't think I'm exceptionally thin either.

I've just been for my NHS health check. A bit of a waste of time really, but I hadn't had my cholesterol checked for a while, so I went when I was invited.

I was weight and measured. 5'7", 10st1 in my clothes and 75cm waist. At both my weight and my waist the HCA explained "ooh you're tiny".

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ImthatBoleyngirl · 25/07/2025 20:17

I'm 5'7" and didn't feel tiny at all when I was 10 stone. 9 stone is my happy weight, but thats usually when im training, eating well and physically fit in general.

Everyone carries weight differently though I guess.

Thanks for the opportunity to stealth boast OP 🤣

PersephonePomegranate · 25/07/2025 20:19

MrsSunshine2b · 25/07/2025 18:42

It's seen as very unusual in this day and age.

I used to have a BMI of 19 and got called all sorts including stick insect.

My SIL was particularly persistent, working together with my husband's ex to spread rumours I had EDs, saying I looked "disgusting", and saying I clearly had body dysmorphia and should be hospitalised when I told her I was a healthy weight.

Then one day she started ranting at DH, saying I was "emaciated" and he said, "You wouldn't like it if I said you were fat." She went off on one and didn't speak to him for 6 months. Funny how that works.

Never come across this personally, 18.5 is 'underweight'. I'm Currently 19.3 apparently and never had anyone call me skinny, tiny or underweight. I'm certainly none of those things and I know of people with a much slighter frame than me!

I suppose some of it might be regional. I work in London and live in tbe suburbs.

MsNevermore · 25/07/2025 20:21

I guess people have different perspectives of what “tiny” is 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m 5’5”, and 125lbs last time I checked. I’m within the healthy weight range for my height. If you saw me on my own, I doubt anyone would think I’m tiny…..
But if you saw me and DH together? You’d probably say I was tiny. Which in comparison to my 6’5”, 260lb DH would be accurate 😂 I look like a child next to him, especially in pictures.

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solando · 25/07/2025 20:28

Perhaps a lot of people that go for these health checks are on the big side, so you would be tiny, compared to them. I'm mid 60s and don't recall ever being called for a health check though. I used to have basic health checks at work, a nurse would come in and do them but not NHS

TheCoralEagle · 25/07/2025 20:28

Practically a borrower.

MrsApplepants · 25/07/2025 20:28

I don’t think the word ‘tiny’ is a great descriptor for adult full stop. Newborns yes, my chihuahua, definitely, but it seems a silly word to use, and not helpful.

solando · 25/07/2025 20:31

You sound fairly average size to me, I'm 5'10" and 11 stone so bigger than average.

slightlydistrac · 25/07/2025 20:33

Of course you'e not tiny. Well you might be compared with the constant parade of overweight and obese people the HCA usually sees, but your proportions are what people are supposed to be like. There is a 'thing' whereby your waist measurement is supposed to be less than half your height, and maybe the HCA doesn't come across people in that category all that often.😂

Throughout my 20's I was 10st 4 and I'm 5ft 7 and a half. I was a size 12. My waist size was about the same as yours too.

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 25/07/2025 20:37

For age 55 and 5ft7 I’d say you’re probably an ideal weight.

im 15 years younger and 4 inches shorter and 8st2/3. I’m mirror less in the middle of my healthy weight. Maybe a little towards the lighter end but I’m very active.

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 25/07/2025 20:40

No you’re not tiny, I’m 5ft6 and 8.7 stone. I am not tiny… normal. You weigh 1.5 stone more than me so are probably curvy/normal. X

BogRollBOGOF · 25/07/2025 21:25

DH went to a drop-in blood pressure clinic at the GP. The staff seemed rather surprised to have someone with normal blood pressure and not need to go to the zones for high blood pressure and very high blood pressure.

While I'd associate "tiny" as being small height with slim build, statistically a mid-range healthy BMI is the minority in mature adults and nurses will see a bias towards heavier people with health issues compared to the general population.

solando · 25/07/2025 21:33

Apparently 72.8% of adults in England age 55-64 are overweight or obese so that is probably why they she thought OP was tiny, they probably rarely see a normal sized older person

lljkk · 25/07/2025 22:01

Everyone i know including myself whos had this over 40 health check thing has been told their cholesterol is high.

Me early 50s & xH late 40s, our checks : My numbers were 'perfect'.

His numbers were both terrible and amazingly good (how can that be, you ask):
His raw number was "high" but his ratios total Tg: or xDL:yDL were excellent. Long story cut short: He's probably got a lot of circulating fats to support endurance sport habits. Nothing is clogged up though, or likely to become so.

MrsSunshine2b · 25/07/2025 22:21

PersephonePomegranate · 25/07/2025 20:19

Never come across this personally, 18.5 is 'underweight'. I'm Currently 19.3 apparently and never had anyone call me skinny, tiny or underweight. I'm certainly none of those things and I know of people with a much slighter frame than me!

I suppose some of it might be regional. I work in London and live in tbe suburbs.

I was living in the London suburbs when all this happened so I don't think it's regional. Maybe it's just who you happen to be around.

Disturbia81 · 25/07/2025 22:59

I’m very thin at that weight and height as I have a wide skeleton. Anorexic at 9 1/2 stone
But I’ve never been described as tiny as thought that was reserved for short people

Wadadli · 25/07/2025 23:02

35965a · 25/07/2025 17:17

Is this a thinly veiled fat bashing thread? It’ll attract all the ‘we’ve lost sight of a healthy weight, I am 5’8 and weigh 6 stone and I’m perfectly normal sized, anyone heavier than 7 stone is morbidly obese’ brigade.

Bring back the 🤣 emoji 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

jetlag92 · 25/07/2025 23:05

doodleschnoodle · 25/07/2025 17:35

I am a similar BMI, 21, and 5ft 4 and am definitely not tiny! I think I look pretty average for someone of a healthy weight, not really worthy of any exclamations of any kind, I’m an average height. Very weird! Maybe it’s just something she says to people who are slim 🤷‍♀️

Me too.

Sonolanona · 26/07/2025 00:47

5 ft 7 and 9 stone 3 here... (I'm 57) and I would never describe myself as tiny... I'm slim I suppose but I'm above average height.

Thisshirtisonfire · 26/07/2025 01:17

Completely depends on your build..
I'm the same height as you and a stone heavier. I'm not tiny but I'm a uk size 10 so I'm not large either. But I'm quite pear shaped... thin upper body, flat chest etc. Makes me look quite slender when actually I'm top end of healthy weight range on BMI.

andfinallyhereweare · 26/07/2025 01:26

Yes I get it too I’m in the healthy bmi range and I’m 5ft4 but get called tiny all the time 🙄

PreciousTatas · 26/07/2025 01:29

It depends on your frame size op (you can check this by measuring your wrist).

Someone of your height, with a larger frame and of that weight would look very slim.

Iloveloveisland · 26/07/2025 01:34

awkwardasfuck · 25/07/2025 19:02

Doubt this actually happened, just a brag. You're not tiny. I wasn't, at shorter and lighter than that.

Yep. Making personal remarks like this would be pretty unprofessional

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 26/07/2025 01:38

Once upon a time when I was growing up, it was thought / suggested that the ' ideal ' measurements for a woman were:
34
24
34
Now where this thought/suggestion came from I have no idea !

I had to convert cm to inches and 75 cm is 29.5 inches.

Google tells me that a 75 cm waist is a size 12 / medium.

My idea of tiny would be less than 5' in height, and less than a size 8.

girljulian · 26/07/2025 01:59

Agree that you don't sound tiny from your stats but as others have said, it depends on your build. I am 5'5 and when I got married weighed 127lbs which gave me a BMI of 21. Absolutely perfectly normal on paper. But in the photos I so clearly look underweight and unwell and oddly shaped. My head is too big for my skinny little body. I look emaciated.

MidnightMeltdown · 26/07/2025 02:31

No. I’m slightly heavier than you and an inch shorter, and I’ve also had comments from nurses about how slim I am on more than one occasion. I’m not especially slim, my BMI is leaning towards the higher end of normal. I’m not sure whether it’s said to try to make the patient feel better, or whether it’s simply because most nurses are fat!