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In a post-apocalyptic future would you rather...

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noblegiraffe · 18/07/2025 16:25

struggle for survival on the harsh and bleak surface with other survivors

or

live in a nice comfy large bunker with a few thousand people and all the mod cons except you can't go outside, or communicate with anyone outside?

See, I assumed everyone would choose the bunker but some friends said they'd rather chance death on the outside than live in a bunker, even if it was huge.

Polling wouldn't let me put only two options so you can also choose to die in the apocalypse and opt out of either scenario.

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ShesTheAlbatross · 19/07/2025 23:20

Definitely prefer to die. I’ll be running into the mushroom cloud. I have no skills for the post apocalyptic world! No one will care about my amazing excel abilities while we’re trying to scrabble together a basic civilisation.

Pinkrosesyellowroses · 19/07/2025 23:50

Bleak survival on the outside sounds like the least worst option although in reality I probably wouldn’t survive very long.

estrogone · 20/07/2025 00:58

Orangemintcream · 18/07/2025 18:45

I could cope with that. It’s a big stately home. Huge grounds.

Own herd of deer. River full of trout.

What about nuclear fallout, though?

MyLov · 20/07/2025 02:02

I don’t like either of the options but have health issues so wouldn’t survive 5 minutes without “mod cons” so would have to go with bunker but would hate it.

GoodLaudanum · 20/07/2025 09:42

noblegiraffe · 19/07/2025 09:16

Genuinely surprised that a third of people would rather die in an apocalypse than give the comfy bunker a go. I reckon if the asteroid was coming, people were panicking and someone grabbed your hand and said 'quick, let's get to the bunker', you wouldn't go 'nah I'm good thanks'.

But the question was what would you choose post-apocalypse.
The disaster has happened and now we are just surviving.

The bunker would be riddled with selfish, needy, controlling characters.
I'd definitely take my chances in order to keep my independence and not be forced to live under someone else's rules.

I'd find a boat and anchor myself off shore somewhere, maybe sail around till I find a safe, secluded place. Possibly befriend some animals (foxes?) to take with me and train them to go and find me food.

BrandyandGinger · 20/07/2025 12:11

Depending on the type of apocalypse it was, you might not really have to worry too much about food. They ultraprocessed food and tinned stuff in the supermarkets would last a long time if there weren't too many survivors scavenging.
The main thing you would need would be a good generator and someone who knows how to get the diesel and petrol out of the tanks under petrol stations when the electricity is off.

FreewomaninParis · 20/07/2025 12:13

No woman would be safe outside the bunker. You’d be mad to think you wouldn’t regularly be raped etc

DiscoBob · 20/07/2025 12:13

I'd rather be dead frankly.
How long can one live in a bunker for? And what value is life without fresh air, freedom, nice things to look at and buy and eat?
It would be worse than being in prison forever for a crime you didn't commit.

Fraggeek · 20/07/2025 12:14

I would willingly take death over a few thousand people.
But I have kids.

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/07/2025 12:19

ObtuseMoose · 18/07/2025 16:52

Definitely not in a bunker, shit would go bad really quickly because people are arseholes.

This. Would try to find a remote, tiny island for me and mine.

TheAutumnCrow · 20/07/2025 12:26

noblegiraffe · 18/07/2025 18:57

Ah no, once you're in the bunker, it's sealed. Can't have people going outside and potentially telling people about the bunker because then the bunker gets raided and RIP bunker.

But how do the bunker people, like experts in (say) fixing pumps and actuators in water hydraulic systems, get to fix the world outside?

Will I have a team of apprentices eagerly learning all my accumulated wisdom for One Day In The Future?

noblegiraffe · 20/07/2025 12:50

Needmorelego · 18/07/2025 17:57

@noblegiraffe have you read the teen book "Children of the Dust" by Louise Lawrence.
Your scenario is essentially the plot.
Nuclear War - some in a bunker, some not.
100 years or so later which society is doing better....
(I won't plot spoil)

Ok I have just read this on your recommendation. Jeez that was a riot, particularly the first chapter of the actual apocalypse.

The 'after' is very reminiscent of John Wyndham's The Chrysalids (which is one of my favourite books), although that one is focused on a society that guards heavily against mutations.

I think, given the book, I would still prefer to be in the bunker rather than experience the apocalypse up close. Future generations on the other hand....hmmm.

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Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 13:04

@noblegiraffe glad you "enjoyed" the book 😂
Another favourite teen book (actually a trilogy) is by Jean Ure. It's about a plague rather than nuclear war.
Book 1 is Plague (originally published as Plague 99)
Book 2 is After the plague (originally published as Come Lucky April)
Book 3 is Watchers at the Shrine.
Very interesting to decide which society that evolved after the plague happened that I'd prefer to live in.
(again I don't want to plot spoil....)

NeverDropYourMooncup · 20/07/2025 17:02

FreewomaninParis · 20/07/2025 12:13

No woman would be safe outside the bunker. You’d be mad to think you wouldn’t regularly be raped etc

Being imprisoned in a bunker with no way out wouldn't be that great for anybody, either. Any 9-10 year old daughter will come in handy for the leaders once the 22-34 year olds had aged out/died in childbirth to keep them going until the 4 year olds and newborns reach fertility, especially if there's no way of going outside the shelter to acquire some more through abduction squads.

It wouldn't be like Hazel-Rah inviting the female bunnies at the farm to come and join the warren.

noblegiraffe · 20/07/2025 17:16

NeverDropYourMooncup · 20/07/2025 17:02

Being imprisoned in a bunker with no way out wouldn't be that great for anybody, either. Any 9-10 year old daughter will come in handy for the leaders once the 22-34 year olds had aged out/died in childbirth to keep them going until the 4 year olds and newborns reach fertility, especially if there's no way of going outside the shelter to acquire some more through abduction squads.

It wouldn't be like Hazel-Rah inviting the female bunnies at the farm to come and join the warren.

Hazel needed more females though because they neglected to bring any does with them when they escaped the original warren. (Which is fair enough, it was a mad dash of whoever they could persuade to leave).

If the leaders of the bunker make sure that there's an even spread of sex and age in the population then they're not going to need children to reproduce. In fact they might need to restrict procreation in order to conserve supplies.

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Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 17:19

@noblegiraffe @NeverDropYourMooncup
"You stoooooopid bunnieeeeees....you got no does...you got no chicks"
My favourite Watership Down line 😂

slightlydistrac · 20/07/2025 17:30

I wouldn't be able to stand being cooped up in a bunker ad infinitum, I can barely cope with going round IKEA for a couple of hours on a busy day.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 20/07/2025 20:09

noblegiraffe · 20/07/2025 17:16

Hazel needed more females though because they neglected to bring any does with them when they escaped the original warren. (Which is fair enough, it was a mad dash of whoever they could persuade to leave).

If the leaders of the bunker make sure that there's an even spread of sex and age in the population then they're not going to need children to reproduce. In fact they might need to restrict procreation in order to conserve supplies.

That gets 'humanity' to Comfort Women/Slavery and eugenics, though. Much like how Woundwort treated Hyzenthlay and the other does in Efrafa.

Think Watership Down is probably my favourite post apocalyptic odyssey tail tale.

(ETA: Very appropriate typo there...)

NameChangedOfc · 20/07/2025 20:32

A bunker with thousends of people? I'll take my chances outside, thank you.

MrsSethGecko · 20/07/2025 20:40

I wasn't expecting Watership Down to come into this but I'm not sorry it has.

TourdeFrance2025 · 21/07/2025 19:53

I think a lot of people must have just voted & not posted. To me the replies & the vote don't match up!

(I was a die please!)

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