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The Gods Have Shone Upon Me

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SardinesOnGingerbread · 08/07/2025 15:48

Having felt that life has been going too smoothly of late, and the summer sunshine making me feel like taking life by the horns, I decided it was time to try buying some new jeans.

Important context: I am 5'2. I am a woman. I have had three children. I am perimenopausal.

Previous shopping attempts have taught me that jean shopping must be undertaken in multiple stages. The initial walk round and trying on of the first dozen or so pairs. The sad acceptance that I look upholstered. The second trip. Pairs 12-30ish. Worse. Catching sight of my dappled arse cheeks in the changing room lighting designed by some fucker that hates women. Mild depression. Trip three. Grief stages of bargaining and depression. Gin. Sticking forks into my eyeballs. Usually by about pair 50 - and please do not imagine this is exaggerated because, as sure as eggs is eggs, around 50 is my average try on for new jeans - I find something that doesn't make me want to cry. I fork out the goods, and then pay about £15 more to have someone lop off about two feet off the length so I can wear them in public.

But today, my friends, today God herself has blessed me and shone her countenance upon me. First shop, first pair. I shit you not.

Having heard some slightly optimistic tales of Levis, I polished my credit card and headed in on my lunch hour. I was leapt on by a gorgeous looking twenty something as soon as my fingers touched fabric. I usually hate this, but resigned to my fate told Ms Gorgeous what I wanted.

She immediately handed me a pair straight away and told me she was getting the same pair two inches shorter for me. I waited for the runty legged version (this isn't my first rodeo) and tried them on first.

Well fuck me sideways with a banjo, they fit, they were comfortable, I looked not only acceptable but actually rather nice.

So in the interest of karmic balance for all the whining I do, here is my glorious tale of Levis and the servant of God who helped me today.

Disclaimer: I do not work for Levis. But if they are looking for a chonky middle aged influencer with three followers on the Tricky Tok to shower with their product, well, I'll struggle on through.

OP posts:
frozendaisy · 08/07/2025 15:55

Buy three pairs

SardinesOnGingerbread · 08/07/2025 16:21

Excellent idea, I am wanting to try them on at home and then do precisely that. I am currently too scared to take them out their bag in case I imagined the whole thing and the magic went. I'm looking at the bag like it's got a bomb in it.

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SoManyTshirts · 08/07/2025 16:34

I’m older and taller but undeniably woman-shaped - I have a waist. I had a very similar experience 2 years ago when Levi opened a shop near me. Never bought jeans anywhere else since.

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unsync · 08/07/2025 16:35

I recently bought some 501s, they are great. Last had a pair in my early 20s, some thirty plus years ago. Elastane is all well and good, but there's something about rigid denim that I can't quite put my finger on.

EmeraldRoulette · 08/07/2025 16:37

@SardinesOnGingerbread i'm happy for you

Would you share what particular type they are, please? I am also short.

Icecreamhelps · 08/07/2025 16:40

52 here god know where I'm at with menopause. My beloved 501's no longer fit but I'm keeping them along with the rest of my clothes that no longer fit. However a few months ago I plucked up the courage to enter tkmax and bought a pair of diesel jeans that fit like a glove. I need to summon up the courage now to buy some new bras.

CloudPop · 08/07/2025 16:41

That really is a win. Treasure it (and as pp said, buy a couple of spares)

SirChenjins · 08/07/2025 16:43

Congratulations!! 🥳

I know the misery of jeans shpping only too well. Five foot 1, narrow waist, generous arse, meno belly - the makers of jeans have a picture of me in their minds so they can absolutely avoid designing for this shape.

So which Levis did you go for??

Thaawtsom · 08/07/2025 16:43

Smiling and applauding a total stranger winning at jeans. FABULOUS and thank you for posting. :)

nearlylovemyusername · 08/07/2025 16:44

Which model???? Link please!
I know exactly what you mean, I'm also 50 pairs average to get something not well fitting but acceptable with top covering my waist. Haven't had luck with jeans for good 10 years 😥

Whatareyoutalkingaboutnow · 08/07/2025 16:54

Congratulations. 🍾
This happened to me a couple of years ago.
Picked up 1 pair of straight leg mid rise jeans in Next. Didn't have high hopes. Went into changing room. Put them on. Couldn't believe it. Perfect. Bought 3 pairs. Yes, a very rare occurrence.

SardinesOnGingerbread · 08/07/2025 17:21

Okay, but this means I need to now open the bag. The things I do for you vipers. XL straight lightweight. Label says a mid rise loose through the leg and thigh straight leg.

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SardinesOnGingerbread · 08/07/2025 17:23

Looks like a slightly seventies vibe almost like a gentle flare. These are definitely summer jeans, and although the 29 inch leg just hits the floor on me with chunky sandals, they'd be leaf collectors in the autumn.

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SardinesOnGingerbread · 08/07/2025 17:24

SirChenjins · 08/07/2025 16:43

Congratulations!! 🥳

I know the misery of jeans shpping only too well. Five foot 1, narrow waist, generous arse, meno belly - the makers of jeans have a picture of me in their minds so they can absolutely avoid designing for this shape.

So which Levis did you go for??

Edited

Oh me too! I have a 13 inch difference between my waist and my arse. These work really well for that.

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BoredZelda · 08/07/2025 17:27

How bizarre the Gods are focusing on a short, middle aged woman’s shopping and not, say, preventing people dying from starvation around the world. 🤔

Lovelynames123 · 08/07/2025 17:29

I have the same 2 styles of levi's in many different colours, I dont care if they're the most stylish fit, the fit me well and look good. Once you've found your fit you can look around for them on sale, Amazon and MandMDirect often have reduced Levi's.

TaborlinTheGreat · 08/07/2025 17:37

BoredZelda · 08/07/2025 17:27

How bizarre the Gods are focusing on a short, middle aged woman’s shopping and not, say, preventing people dying from starvation around the world. 🤔

The gods were obviously too busy to bless you with a sense of humour.

Enjoy your jeans OP!

Imbluedalale · 08/07/2025 17:41

You are hilarious 😆. Can we be friends?

weaselwords · 08/07/2025 17:42

BoredZelda · 08/07/2025 17:27

How bizarre the Gods are focusing on a short, middle aged woman’s shopping and not, say, preventing people dying from starvation around the world. 🤔

Depends on which gods, surely?

Mingenious · 08/07/2025 17:48

Oh, jeans are hard!

I’m chuffed for you ❤️

Icecreamhelps · 08/07/2025 17:53

BoredZelda · 08/07/2025 17:27

How bizarre the Gods are focusing on a short, middle aged woman’s shopping and not, say, preventing people dying from starvation around the world. 🤔

😑

Boreded · 08/07/2025 17:56

CONGRATULATIONS!!

Now if you can just ask those same gods where I can get some padded, underwired, t-shirt bras in size massive…but that don’t let my boobs fall out of the middle or become pointed like Madonna, that would be perfect 🤣

Treesarenotforeating · 08/07/2025 18:00

Congrats 🙌
I too know the misery of jeans shopping I ended up in marks and found some that kinda fit , still need a belt thi

Y2ker · 08/07/2025 18:04

SardinesOnGingerbread · 08/07/2025 17:21

Okay, but this means I need to now open the bag. The things I do for you vipers. XL straight lightweight. Label says a mid rise loose through the leg and thigh straight leg.

Ooh I have these in the culotte version which are also very nice.

Sidebeforeself · 08/07/2025 18:04

Ooh Im going to try some Levis when Ive shifted a bit more flab. I want old fashioned, thick denim.Hate this thin stretchy stuff which is perfect for vanity sizing but not for rounding up cattle.