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Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 34: Calmly through the day

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 25/06/2025 19:30

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 15/10/2025 17:46

Good morning all. 😊
It's mostly sunny and 7c. ☀️🌤️
Had the kids out at a local farm yesterday that was decorated for Halloween. They had fun brushing the goats and looking at the horses. Havoc now wants to try ride a horse. I'll book a pony ride next month and see how it goes. I rode when I was a kid, we had horses, so I would like to introduce it to the kids.

https://southlandsfarm.pike13.com/pages/home

Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 34: Calmly through the day
Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 34: Calmly through the day
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MissConductUS · 16/10/2025 14:40

Uman, going out for a smoke less than three hours post op is quite the non-compliant patient. We have an excess of hospital beds in my area, so if you are an inpatient, you usually get the room to yourself. The hospitals run adverts on television to attract patients, believe it or not.

Myrtle, you have certainly been through the ringer with this surgery. Fingers crossed that they get the infection under control before your next surgery date.

DS is signing the lease on his new flat this morning. He's taking over someone else's lease, and it runs until next April. It's going to be a project to get him moved in and setting him up with everything he needs.

I got tired of looking at the way the kitchen windows looked next to the wall after I painted the wooden exterior, so I repainted the whole wall and the one next to it that is the side of the garage. I still have some paint left over, so I may repaint to the right of the front door as well.

Mingus is standing on the windowsill, admiring the fall colors. I looked it up, and calling the season fall is a shortening of "the fall of the leaves.", a term from 17th-century England. A bit more about how "fall" and "autumn" diverged here:

https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/autumn-vs-fall

A handful of words got caught in the identity crisis, and fall was one of them. Both autumn and fall were born in Britain, and both emigrated to America. But autumn was, by far, the more popular term for quite a long time. In fact, the "autumn" sense of fall wasn't even entered into a dictionary until 1755, when Samuel Johnson first entered it in his Dictionary of the English Language.

Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 34: Calmly through the day
Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 34: Calmly through the day
Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 34: Calmly through the day
MyrtleLion · 16/10/2025 19:20

Operation scheduled for noon tomorrow. This is to debride the wound and hopefully close it. If it can't be closed, the plan is to stretch some skin in a flap over the wound. That may be done tomorrow or next week.

On Monday we will know the full details of the infection. If it's just aureus, and the wound is closed I should be able to go home by the 24th.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 17/10/2025 07:41

Booked appt for car to get checked as didn't want to start today. Took three tries. I'm thinking battery or alternator. Appt is first thing in the morning yet here I am still awake and scrolling/posting. 🤦‍♀️

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MyrtleLion · 17/10/2025 08:32

Operation will be later this afternoon. If they can't close the wound I'll have the plastic surgery next week with another week's stay. Here's hoping...

sproutsandparsnips · 17/10/2025 10:23

Good luck @MyrtleLion

MyrtleLion · 17/10/2025 15:50

Thank you. I'm still waiting to go to theatre so I suspect it will be Monday now.

MissConductUS · 17/10/2025 18:43

Good luck, @MyrtleLion. Is there an issue scheduling the surgical team?

MyrtleLion · 17/10/2025 23:25

MissConductUS · 17/10/2025 18:43

Good luck, @MyrtleLion. Is there an issue scheduling the surgical team?

One consultant was off sick, massive underfunding over years, hospital is full, hip replacement before me overran by several hours. I'm important but not urgent.

Operation was cancelled and will now be Saturday afternoon at 2pm.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 17/10/2025 23:26

Wishing you well Myrtle. 💐🩷😊

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bizzey · 18/10/2025 00:16

@MyrtleLion sending good healing wishes to you x

Following in from the chat earlier about education across the pond .

I watched a really interesting program on Channel 4 about this.

Uk vs USA School swap ..channel 4.

3 episodes.
I won't do a synopsis, but it is a very interesting watch .

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/10/2025 02:37

Myrtle, I hope you are getting a restful night. We're just finishing dinner here, but I wanted to wish you well for tomorrow again. When I check here tomorrow I'm hoping you will have posted some good news.

@bizzey how are you managing? Miss you here! 🥰

Had the car in the shop this morning for a new water pump and oil change. It was an unplanned expense, but am thanking the angel that gave me the warning yesterday with car not wanting to start prompting me to call mechanic. Very grateful car didn't die/didn't die when I was out across town with dc. 😇

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mathanxiety · 18/10/2025 05:22

Uman Irish schools have been having 'proms' for at least a century. They are called 'debs' balls, short for debutantes' balls. Back in the early 80s my graduating year's debs committee started planning the event in our final year of school. We had a reception with students, dates, teachers, principal, and parents at the school, then decanted to a hotel/ resort, some in limos, some driven by parents, some in taxis, then dined and danced for hours, followed by everyone taking taxis or limos to a nightclub, and a groggy breakfast at a place that opened early. Back then, girls traditionally were a white dress but that has gone out the window now. Entire towns in Ireland turn out to see the local students off to their debs. There are sections of national newspapers devoted to debs style. It's huge.

Myrtle wishing you well for tomorrow. I hope they can get the infection under control.

MissC that's a really nice painting job.
Will your DS inherit any furniture from the previous tenant? One of my DDs was prepared to throw in her desk and chair, plus a TV and bed frame and clothes storage unit to sweeten the deal when she was trying to sublet her room. She ended up getting a local job so discontinued the listing.

havoc you had a lucky break there. Getting stranded with the little DCs was a fear of mine when we went places all those years ago, before the age of cellphones.

bizzey · 21/10/2025 02:16

I realized today , that I only understand weather temperature in Celsius !

I had accidentally put my phone the other one F ...

Inches and Cm
Oz and grams
Lb and kilo

I can interchange quite easily.

Fahrenheit and Celsius ..is a complete mathematical mystery !!
😅..

I do know the number 32 is involved somewhere 😁

mathanxiety · 21/10/2025 02:37

For me, the temperature in Celsius doesn't feel hot enough to match the sweaty mess I am in summer. It's fine for cold weather.

I bake using cups, teaspoons, tablespoons, etc.

sueelleker · 21/10/2025 08:30

bizzey · 21/10/2025 02:16

I realized today , that I only understand weather temperature in Celsius !

I had accidentally put my phone the other one F ...

Inches and Cm
Oz and grams
Lb and kilo

I can interchange quite easily.

Fahrenheit and Celsius ..is a complete mathematical mystery !!
😅..

I do know the number 32 is involved somewhere 😁

I use both F and C for weather-if it's 4 C it's cold, and if it's 75 F it's hot! To convert C to F, double it and add 32.

EllaDisenchanted · 21/10/2025 09:04

DH got back last night, thank Gd. I'm full of a cough and cold and just want to sleeeeep but sadly need to work (hence procrastinating on mumsnet).
Still uninterested in cooking, plus need to do a restocking grocery shop, but don't think the kids can be persuaded to eat yet more pasta sadly 😅
@bizzey you multiply by 1.8 and then add 32 😄it's messy!
@MyrtleLion hope you had your op and it went well 💞

Mumtobabyhavoc · 21/10/2025 09:29

Baby and I fell asleep yesterday at 4pm and slept almost 3 hours. That's why it's almost 1:30am and I'm still awake and baby fell asleep about an hour ago.

It's going to be a rough morning and day tomorrow.

Hoping @Deathraystare is doing ok and has found a place to live. 🫶
@MissConductUS how are you doing?
@sueelleker @bizzey @EllaDisenchanted nice to have you back here 😊

@mathanxiety how did you survive raising your 5?
😬

I'm heading to bed. I made a tray of oatmeal choc chip cookies at 10:30pm and plan to finish making them tomorrow with Havoc.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/10/2025 10:25

Last night I knitted the top half of my rainbow octopus’s fifth tentacle. He’s a huge worry-eater - I think I’m going to knit his head and body next - mattress-stitching the tentacles does get a bit tedious.

MyrtleLion · 21/10/2025 10:56

I've had the operation and I'm no longer attached to a VAC machine. Hopefully this means I can go home soon.

HildaTablet · 21/10/2025 22:22

Thank goodness you’ve had the op now, @MyrtleLion - hope it all went well and you’ll be home soon.

mathanxiety · 22/10/2025 03:11

Hope you're having a peaceful night's sleep, Myrtle, and fingers crossed the op was a success.

It turned quite raw and chilly today. I didn't wear the right jacket so felt a bit shivery when I got home from work.

We ended up visiting Walgreens twice this evening - they called DD earlier in the day to say her prescription was ready, went to pick it up, came home, DD realised it was a medication she had had a reaction to and not the one the doctor had recently prescribed for the same condition, waited til the pharmacy reopened after their evening break, called to ask if she could get the last prescription refilled and return the medication she had been given earlier, and then called again half an hour later to check the prescription status - it was ready so off we went again. I made dinner between coming home the first time and heading out the second time - bangers and mash, the quickest and most warming dinner I could think of. I had broccoli with cheese sauce with mine. DD hates broccoli.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 22/10/2025 03:24

Glad to get the update @MyrtleLion ☺️
How are you feeling?

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 22/10/2025 03:27

Math, bangers and mash takes me back to childhood. My mum would make gravy from the sausage drippings and a can of peas would likely be opened and warmed for the veg.

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MyrtleLion · 22/10/2025 17:04

Waiting to be discharged!

Very tired because one of the shouty women woke me up at 3.30am. I've been cleared by the surgeon and the physio, I have a phone appointment booked with the outpatient antibiotics team and I'm just waiting for the pharmacy to issue my drugs.

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