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Old threads you followed that you would love to know what happened afterwards

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DaimondSpine · 20/06/2025 11:21

I remember an old thread where a group of friends basically denied themselves treats on holidays and days out for years because one couple in the group were supposedly hard up and they didn’t want the other couple to struggle. It turned out that they actually had saved a substantial amount to put their son through Uni . I wonder what happened next as the OP and friends were absolutely outraged and were going to confront hard up couple, but the thread had reached maximum posts so never knew what happened next . What is the thread that you remember and would love an update on ?

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Pancakeflipper · 20/06/2025 19:30

PollyCreo · 20/06/2025 19:28

What happened to the poster (Purplelampshade?) whose young son was in an abusive relationship with an older woman? That was heartbreaking 😔

The relationship ended and he was back home. I think it sounded like it was going to take time to unravel (the gf's family were bonkers) and sort out.

I hope he is living a happy life.

HerNeighbourTotoro · 20/06/2025 19:30

Have they named the child Balonz.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 20/06/2025 19:30

I also seem to remember the ironing board being on top of a wardrobe. In the spare room, if I remember rightly. Although that might have been a baking tray now I think about it.

TurquoiseDreamCatcher · 20/06/2025 19:31

Trinity69 · 20/06/2025 18:58

The lady who had upset the crows. She went out for a dog walk and never came back to update!

This is the one that I was invested in, it was at Christmas time.

PollyCreo · 20/06/2025 19:34

Pancakeflipper · 20/06/2025 19:30

The relationship ended and he was back home. I think it sounded like it was going to take time to unravel (the gf's family were bonkers) and sort out.

I hope he is living a happy life.

I'm so glad to hear that, I hope he's doing well 💝

blackandgold88 · 20/06/2025 19:36

Butterflyarms · 20/06/2025 18:22

The OP always hosted Christmas at vast expense with little in the way of thanks, so decided to cancel it and go to Disneyland. The last I read her family were threatening to make calls to social services out of 'concern' for her mental health. Was so happy for her to get away and always wondered how her Disney Christmas went and what those relationships are like now.

I remember this one!! The outrage I felt on behalf of the OP! All the gifts she’d bought family and they treated her like crap!

BrownieBlondie01 · 20/06/2025 19:36

The poster last year who suspected her daughter had sepsis, I'd like to know she was OK but could never find the thread again.

VanillaVein · 20/06/2025 19:40

The Crow lady. She just left us in perpetual suspence. Are the crows still around? Is she?

SixteentoOne · 20/06/2025 19:41

Letsgodancing · 20/06/2025 19:24

There was a really sad one which I think could be genuine, she said her life felt like a prison and her husband was very suffocating towards her to the point where she wouldn't go out, and he controlled what TV and radio they could listen to. I hope she got out and is living a wonderful life now, but if true it's a very sad thread

And DH made her sit on the stairs to eat her meals? Am I thinking the same one.

PP seemed to pluck up courage and plans to leave, but always backed down.

It felt quite helpless as a PP, trying to help her as she was so conditioned to being there.

cocoromo · 20/06/2025 19:41

Does anyone remember the one about “Ginny” anns the op was looking for a new job? Always wondered what batshittery happened there?

Hazey19 · 20/06/2025 19:41

PollyCreo · 20/06/2025 19:28

What happened to the poster (Purplelampshade?) whose young son was in an abusive relationship with an older woman? That was heartbreaking 😔

Yes I remember this one and I have wondered how she and her son were doing. Hope they are both ok x

TouchOfSilverShampoo · 20/06/2025 19:42

@PancakeflipperWhere did you read that!!!!! I’ve been checking the thread for bloody ages and there’s no update on there. I think of purple and her son all the time.

cocoromo · 20/06/2025 19:42

VanillaVein · 20/06/2025 19:40

The Crow lady. She just left us in perpetual suspence. Are the crows still around? Is she?

We can only assume the crows got her in the end! 🐦‍⬛🐦‍⬛

catsrus · 20/06/2025 19:42

ScoobyDoesnt · 20/06/2025 18:53

I often wonder about trickytreelou whose husband left her for an OW who was pregnant, then Lou found out she was also pregnant. He left, took all the chutney from the fridge, and Lou had the baby (Adam?) - he must be 10 or 11 now.

I often wonder about @trickytreelou too - she stayed around in a few short 30 day threads for a few years, until Adam was just about to start school I think? then one day I couldn't find the thread and assumed she had name changed.

Would love to know how "our Adam" is, and the cats....

TidyDancer · 20/06/2025 19:44

The one I’ve always remembered and wanted to know how it worked out was posted by TheLastOfTheNappies and the thread title was something like ‘help me have a good relationship with MIL or DH and I will split’ and it turned out MIL was basically evil and DH was failing at calling her out on it. OP has changed her child’s name quite late and MIL wouldn’t have it and threw a birthday party for the child under the original name, invited the DH but they were both hiding it from the OP. Would love to know if she kicked them both into touch or if things worked out differently! The child would probably be 16ish now so a very long time ago!

zeibesaffron · 20/06/2025 19:44

I am still invested in the lady from last week with the step daughter graduation- she must of had her post deleted. I hope she is ok 😀

TidyDancer · 20/06/2025 19:46

parsnippot · 20/06/2025 17:38

I would just like to know if Kateandthegirls is OK

I remember Kateandthegirls and would love to know this too. I think of them every anniversary. I suspect there’s a lot of us old timers here for whom the human/personal aspect of 9/11 was brought home specifically because of their family.

NescafeAndIce · 20/06/2025 19:48

Pancakeflipper · 20/06/2025 19:30

The relationship ended and he was back home. I think it sounded like it was going to take time to unravel (the gf's family were bonkers) and sort out.

I hope he is living a happy life.

I think you're thinking of the Australian poster called workworkworkugh or similar.
Sadly purple 's situation does not seem to have improved at all, although she hasn't posted for a long time. Keeping fingers Xd for her.

TidyDancer · 20/06/2025 19:50

TidyDancer · 20/06/2025 19:44

The one I’ve always remembered and wanted to know how it worked out was posted by TheLastOfTheNappies and the thread title was something like ‘help me have a good relationship with MIL or DH and I will split’ and it turned out MIL was basically evil and DH was failing at calling her out on it. OP has changed her child’s name quite late and MIL wouldn’t have it and threw a birthday party for the child under the original name, invited the DH but they were both hiding it from the OP. Would love to know if she kicked them both into touch or if things worked out differently! The child would probably be 16ish now so a very long time ago!

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/1015140-Help-me-have-a-good-relationship-with-my-MIL-or?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

this is the thread I meant.

Help me have a good relationship with my MIL or DH and I will split | Mumsnet

I have posted before last year for the back story see first post here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/828190-Another-MIL-story Basical...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/1015140-Help-me-have-a-good-relationship-with-my-MIL-or?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

Pancakeflipper · 20/06/2025 19:50

TouchOfSilverShampoo · 20/06/2025 19:42

@PancakeflipperWhere did you read that!!!!! I’ve been checking the thread for bloody ages and there’s no update on there. I think of purple and her son all the time.

I am sure she did an update...... I seem to recall he was home and they aren't pushing him on the subject. Hoping I didn't dream it.

Pancakeflipper · 20/06/2025 19:51

NescafeAndIce · 20/06/2025 19:48

I think you're thinking of the Australian poster called workworkworkugh or similar.
Sadly purple 's situation does not seem to have improved at all, although she hasn't posted for a long time. Keeping fingers Xd for her.

Oops sorry everyone. I was positive it was Purple.... sorry..

PeachBlossom1234 · 20/06/2025 19:51

zeibesaffron · 20/06/2025 19:44

I am still invested in the lady from last week with the step daughter graduation- she must of had her post deleted. I hope she is ok 😀

I’ve been searching for a new thread on this one too! Hope she’s ok

HeartandSeoul · 20/06/2025 19:52

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NescafeAndIce · 20/06/2025 19:52

Back when I first joined there was a poster callled something like downthehillandaroundthebend who was gearing up to leave her DH. I wonder how she is - think all her posts got deleted.

Also a longtime (but I was new!) poster whose husband had a serious car accident and she found out he'd been having an affair. Writing this now it sounds like the plot of a film. I feel like she name-changed on her posts. Again, I wonder how she is. Her posts felt so raw.

IsIroningEssential · 20/06/2025 19:53

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