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Injecting a little luxury into life, without breaking the bank

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Sodthesystem · 27/05/2025 10:50

I recently treated myself to a fancy coffee and macarons in a designer department store. Cheaper than buying anything there, but still felt luxurious :)

Thought it might be fun to start a thread on how people get their little fixes of luxury without spending a fortune.

OP posts:
Mardychum · 27/05/2025 16:35

What's an everything shower? Do people usually miss bits?

Westfacing · 27/05/2025 16:44

NeedForSpeed · 27/05/2025 14:45

@Westfacing 😂. When in doubt, look for nice jewellers (as in making and selling, not H Samuel) on Instagram and keep eyes open for sample sales basically! I follow quite a lot of them, aspiring to buy everything I see and hope I can afford things.... There's another I love but her samples are still well out of my budget.

Well, I'm not on Insta so will just have to keep my eyes peeled for sample sales!

PermanentTemporary · 27/05/2025 16:50

Planting rosebushes - in a pot or the ground. Admittedly they are a relatively chunky expenditure at first but it means years of gorgeous scented flowers that make the whole house smell amazing. I've bought a lot of cut flowers in the years since my mum had her stroke and went into nursing care, because it's one of the small nice things she can still enjoy. But I've come to feel supermarket flowers are hardly worth the effort because of the lack of scent.

See also; planting lavender.

Londonmummy66 · 27/05/2025 16:51

Mardychum · 27/05/2025 16:34

Most of these aren't cheap.

Bunch of peonies £6.50, strawberries £4, bar of M&S chocolate £2.65, coffee & cake £10, kids clubs - often free, chocolate pistachios and clotted cream & shop scones also likely to be in the £10 range.......

Noshadelamp · 27/05/2025 16:52

Shcab · 27/05/2025 15:40

Every January, I start religiously using up all the hand creams, shampoos/conditioners, body lotions, soaps and shower gels that I have and don’t particularly like. There are always loads somehow - usually presents. I counted the tubes of hand creams this Jan and there were 8 - all presents over the past year or two. Anyway, I use everything up which takes anything from a couple of months to the whole year depending upon the type of product, and I don’t allow myself to buy anything in that category until it is all used up. Then and only then I allow myself to buy a replacement and the replacement can be whatever I like - any brand, any price, just as long as I really want it. So I generally get to around this time of year and most of the crap is used up and I have the luxury of using lovely posh shower gels, soap, conditioner etc for most of the rest of the year, guilt free. (Apart from hand creams - I swear getting through that lot is going to take me all the way to 2027).

Currently using these nice things after using up things I didn’t like much: Redken shampoo and conditioner, Figs and Leaves soap (from Lush), a nice Frank body wash, some form of expensive looking almond scented body lotion from TK Maxx. They boost my mood every day.

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Sell them on vinted instead and put the money towards what you actually want!

Life's too short to use "crap" for half a year and waiting to feel guilty free about boosting your mood every day.

Shcab · 27/05/2025 17:04

Noshadelamp · 27/05/2025 16:52

Sell them on vinted instead and put the money towards what you actually want!

Life's too short to use "crap" for half a year and waiting to feel guilty free about boosting your mood every day.

No point - would barely get anything for them so makes much more financial sense for me to use them, then I get to really enjoy using the nice stuff, knowing that I’ve decluttered and saved money by using it.

EmmaWoodhouseOfHighbury · 27/05/2025 17:06

Gundogday · 27/05/2025 12:03

https://www.simplycook.com/ppcbrand/default?utm_source=ppcbrand&utmmedium=default&utmcampaign=default&gclsrc=aw.ds&gadsource=1&gadcampaignid=125867655&gbraid=0AAAAADrCumGDeTf9qAgNqUniVnXrxZAD0&gclid=Cj0KCQjwxdXBBhDEARIsAAUkP6g8QPesgYo6UZgYoBRsuOUOSIv6WJd2L27N9kF6SainFi0FuLHojkaAoWDEALwwcB

Simply Cook is a good alternative. It’s cheaper and they supply you with the herbs and spices and you buy the main ingredients yourself. You’re not tied down to shorter expiry dates either. My son uses these, and makes one meal last two days. We tend to get one box per month.

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You have to pay for a recipe and some herbs and buy the ingredients yourself?

Words fail me.

HazelNewt · 27/05/2025 17:10

Shcab · 27/05/2025 17:04

No point - would barely get anything for them so makes much more financial sense for me to use them, then I get to really enjoy using the nice stuff, knowing that I’ve decluttered and saved money by using it.

Donate to Hygiene Bank or similar and then you know you have helped someone out as well as getting to the stuff you want to use - win win

LuckyShark · 27/05/2025 17:14

Buying a set of essential oils
I now make my own "purdy and figg" cleaning solution
My own fragrance for my room diffuser
My own facial oil
My own cleansing oil
My own body oil

Everything smells sensational for under £40 outlay and its been going for 2 years.

I used to buy clinique facial oil and itnwas about £38 then....I bet its much more now

Shcab · 27/05/2025 17:16

HazelNewt · 27/05/2025 17:10

Donate to Hygiene Bank or similar and then you know you have helped someone out as well as getting to the stuff you want to use - win win

I can’t afford to just donate a load of stuff that I could use unfortunately.

Epli · 27/05/2025 17:17

Falke socks. They have beautiful colors & fabrics that lasts forever, does not loose shape and really adds to my outfits (I work from home so a lot of casual wear).

CaramelEmporium · 27/05/2025 17:22

madaboutpurple · 27/05/2025 16:12

Ages ago I read on a few posts that M&S Big Mix chocolates are much nicer than Roses or Quality St. I got a box and they are far far better. Also DH and myself liked each one instead of having lots of hard toffee ones left so that made them much better value. I will get another box soon.

Agree, they are the best chocolates ever, especially the butterscotch ones.

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/05/2025 17:23

Was always a mug or a cushion as I love print and it would cheer me up to pick from my collection of mugs when I had a hot drink. Just remembered before that, when I lived alone in a tiny studio flat, Waitrose Stem Ginger Cookies were the absolute height of luxury!

GameOfJones · 27/05/2025 17:23

Mardychum · 27/05/2025 16:35

What's an everything shower? Do people usually miss bits?

An everything shower normally has extra bits that I do not get time to do daily. So in a normal shower I wash my hair and body but in an everything shower I would also exfoliate, shave, apply a hair mask, lotion afterwards etc etc.

GameOfJones · 27/05/2025 17:31

My luxuries are:

Having nice pyjamas that make me smile. They're not crazy expensive.... around £40 a set but a big upgrade from the bog standard supermarket ones I used to have. Since I wear them every day price per use they are well worth it.

Champneys body balm for moisturising. It smells great and lasts ages.

Buying free range meat whenever it is reduced at the supermarket and putting it straight in the freezer. I'd rather have less but higher welfare meat.

Having an appointment at my local beauty salon for every six weeks. I can't afford a more regular appointment than that but it means I can have a pedicure during the summer, then swap to massages or facials in the colder months. It really feels like a treat to myself but costs the equivalent of about £8-£10 a week.

MyHouseInThePrairie · 27/05/2025 17:36

Wundy · 27/05/2025 15:26

Chocolate covered pistachios?! I need these (even though I've only just become aware of their existence). Where do I get them from?

Lidl have some!!

Thelostjewels · 27/05/2025 17:44

What's are the push/posh shampoo people are using

LadyWhitwell · 27/05/2025 17:46

Wundy · 27/05/2025 15:26

Chocolate covered pistachios?! I need these (even though I've only just become aware of their existence). Where do I get them from?

Lidl

DJSteves · 27/05/2025 17:46

loccitane or Kiehl’s soap in the shower. Sometimes I go full Jo Malone.

AngelinaFibres · 27/05/2025 17:50

I have biab gel on my nails every 3 weeks. They do it so beautifully. I have long, slim fingers but do a lot of making/ gardening so my natural nails always looked battered. Now they look sooooooi pretty all the time. I wear gloves to do the garden but biab is pretty indestructible .
Helen Macalinden knitwear and Russell and Bromley bags from ebay/ Vinted.
Costume jewellery which I swap on and off depending on the colour of my nails. I have lots of rings that look like diamonds/ opals/ pearls but were from antique fairs and cost a few pounds. I wear nice clothes (ebay) carry an expensive bag ( ebay or had it for 15 years)and have nice hair and nails so people assume the 'diamonds' are real.

Sodthesystem · 27/05/2025 17:57

IleftmybaginNewportPagnell · 27/05/2025 17:23

Was always a mug or a cushion as I love print and it would cheer me up to pick from my collection of mugs when I had a hot drink. Just remembered before that, when I lived alone in a tiny studio flat, Waitrose Stem Ginger Cookies were the absolute height of luxury!

I use a site called nightcafe to make ai drawings (it easy, anyone can do it. Just type a description of what you want to see and it'll generate it in picture form) and then have my art printed onto a mug via online print posting sites when I want some new ones :)

OP posts:
AngelinaFibres · 27/05/2025 17:58

Mardychum · 27/05/2025 16:35

What's an everything shower? Do people usually miss bits?

De-fuzzing your fanny

ThereIsACatOnMyLapAgain · 27/05/2025 18:06

Mine is a lovely body oil. At £40 for a small bottle it's very expensive for me so I used to ask for it as my birthday / christmas present.

But then I thought screw it. If using a bit of oil every day makes me this happy then I can cut back on other things to pay for it. So I did. I still wince when I press "buy" though!

MyKingdomForACat · 27/05/2025 18:14

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 27/05/2025 14:49

Every so often I give myself a 'holiday at home'. I work quite hard, both OOH and self employed, so just having a whole day with nothing planned is quite a luxury. I buy something a bit special to cook for my tea - M&S ready meal and snacks - and take myself and the dog out for a walk somewhere scenic, then come home to a clean bed, clean PJs and my M&S special. If I'm really pushing the boat out I'll take a cup of tea and some posh biscuits up to bed with me and lie and read a new magazine for a while.

I have simple tastes...

That sounds wonderful and as you say, simplistic x

Rainiac · 27/05/2025 18:14

Wine bottles in the fridge filled with tap water. Feels so luxe in summer to have properly cold water out of glass, for mixing with cordial or just on its own. And it's free!

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