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Brigette macron hits Emmanuel

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Stressedout150 · 26/05/2025 12:38

has anyone seen this on the news?! What do we all think, it’s all a bit bizarre

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Weepixie · 27/05/2025 04:09

Illegally18 · 26/05/2025 19:34

I'm also in my 60s , and I remember it well. But you forget that it was a different era, and the mind set of the time was completely different. We'd had years of people banging on about sexual freedom, female sexual freedom, gay sexual freedom, and teenage sexual freedom.And while it caused a stir, it was considered alright. My question about Bill and Mandy is, what on earth did they talk about? And if I remember correctly, there was a a march to be able to have sexual relations with children from the age of nine. Infantile sexual freedom!

I’m in my late 60’s and can’t recall it being considered alright amongst ordinary people with their heads screwed on the correct way.

Weepixie · 27/05/2025 04:18

TaupeMember · 26/05/2025 22:44

I've just watched it again. He goes straight back in there after her. I don't think he looks like hes cowering at all.

Probably to appease her and get her to start the official visit.

I suspect that going forward she’ll now retire from public life to quite an extent and both will lead seperate lives with appropriate excuses being made as to why.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 27/05/2025 04:23

MidnightMeltdown · 26/05/2025 20:53

Hmmm… I think I will reserve judgement until we find out what he’s done to deserve it (if we ever do!)

I wonder whether another woman has caught his eye

This is a truly disgusting post, and you should be ashamed of it. If a man hit his wife, would you wait to see what she had done to "deserve" it before passing judgment?

Victim blaming is not OK, ever.

Mummyoflittledragon · 27/05/2025 04:37

icecreamisforwintertoo · 26/05/2025 19:20

The thing is grooming is grooming even if the people involved don’t see it that way (or it was culturally acceptable, acceptable in the past etc.) I was groomed as a teenager but it took me thirty years to see it that way, not fully until I had children of my own and understood about how grooming happens.
the key thing is that the groomer has all the control - and the person who is groomed doesn’t get to choose anything about the relationship, including even whether they really want to be in it at all, but they think they do and this can be what causes the shame and the fear of what might happen or they leave etc. So the fact that he married her, or is even still with her, doesn’t mean that the relationship can now be an equal and healthy one because of the way it came into being.

I am sorry this happened to you. And I think you make a valid point about not seeing the abuse until you had children. I was also involved with men over 10 years older than me from age 15, which looking back was disgusting. Macron doesn’t have children. I wonder if he’d think differently if he did. It’s only once my dd got to 15 that I truly saw how young and vulnerable I must have been.

@NeverDropYourMooncup I am so sorry for the abuse you suffered. Flowers

YourSignalFadedIntoAnotherWorld · 27/05/2025 05:01

ThatsNotMyTeen · 26/05/2025 14:06

This

Its a very weird relationship I wouldn’t be at all pleased if this was one of my kids wound up in a marriage like this

I have a relative who is in a similar relationship. I think he was in a FWB style thing with a much older woman and got her pregnant. Next thing, she has moved in with him and his parents to have the child and she hasn't lifted a finger since. The DD is 9 now. It's a mess and she has ruined his life.

Kids, keep your DNA to yourselves! Use condoms.

TheAutumnCrow · 27/05/2025 05:29

Waterweight · 27/05/2025 02:37

Looks like there trying to scrub the internet clean - swear I saw this come up a few times hours ago but when I googled it you have to be more specific

It’s not really going away.

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/05/26/brigitte-emmanuel-macron-shove-relationship-expert/

NattyTurtle59 · 27/05/2025 05:40

GreatGrandmaSeenItAll · 27/05/2025 00:42

It's just a couple having a tiff, Emmanuelle's poise is submissive not hostile, the aggression appears to come from Bridgette. The French are far more physical in their emotions than us 'stiff upper lipped' Brits. I think we should just leave them alone, kinda tired of all this armchair criticism.I'd be more concerned about all the atrocities that are going on in the USA in plain sight under Trump than this private gone public article yet no-one seems to want to publicize this over here in the UK.

Well said. Honestly, what is wrong with so many of you? It's nothing whatsoever to do with any of us. The MN "experts" on relationships (especially the relationships of people they don't even know) are out in full force today.

This thread is insane.

treetopsgreen · 27/05/2025 05:43

Of course he's going to look embarrassed as he realised he was on film & the associated PR fallout.

The French are far more physical in their emotions than us 'stiff upper lipped' Brits

I agree with this

TheAutumnCrow · 27/05/2025 05:46

It’s international news.

Macron’s pushback is international news.

The pushback to the pushback is international news.

edition.cnn.com/2025/05/26/europe/macron-brigitte-shove-vietnam-intl

EasternStandard · 27/05/2025 06:38

midlandsmummy123 · 27/05/2025 00:12

He has said that they were joking around and he realises that the conspiracy theorists on mumsnet will have a field day.

Is that what it looked like to you? Did you watch it

anotherside · 27/05/2025 06:56

@midlandsmummy123
“He has said that they were joking around and he realises that the conspiracy theorists”

Do you literally believe all politicians in every situation? And every newspaper headline as well? If not then I call you a conspiracy theorist.

ScarlettOYara · 27/05/2025 07:14

treetopsgreen · 27/05/2025 05:43

Of course he's going to look embarrassed as he realised he was on film & the associated PR fallout.

The French are far more physical in their emotions than us 'stiff upper lipped' Brits

I agree with this

No, because "a stiff upper lip" means that you show no emotion.
I don't think anyone should be excusing or minimising any kind of physical abuse. That's what this is about. It's not about "culture" it's about thinking this isn't ok.

shockthemonkey · 27/05/2025 07:24

It wasn’t mentioned in the main TV news journal 20h avec whatever his name is (Giles Boulot?)… though they did discuss the Vietnam visit and showed footage. I thought that was interesting. Then again this would be considered a strictly private matter in France and not newsworthy, just gossip-worthy.

PumpkinSpicePie · 27/05/2025 07:38

BFMTV were covering it yesterday, although then Liverpool became their main headline.

rb124 · 27/05/2025 07:43

Maybe he said or did something inappropriate to her just before and she forgot about the open plane door in a moment of anger?
I think far too much is being read into this - every married couple has rows, but most manage to keep it private - the fact that Russian State Media is over it like flies is suggestive of overkill.

StupidBoy · 27/05/2025 07:44

PlutoCat · 26/05/2025 14:03

I agree. It reminds of when Nigella Lawson's ex-husband casually abused her in public.

I feel really sorry for Macron.

I don't. He's wealthy, powerful and intelligent and he has no children to worry about, plus she's in all probability going to die long before him anyway, so what's the problem with calling it a day a few years early? He has the chance to do that before he has to start being more like her nurse or one of her adult children than her husband, when he will still be in his prime and he'll start to really feel that age gap and wonder wtf he's done with his life.

After this he can leave any time he wants with no guilt and no-one would blame him. He isn't trapped like so many other people experiencing the same thing. He doesn't have to choose between being abused and having a roof over his head, a provider for his children, a family who won't shun him for disgracing them. Save your pity for those who have those awful choices to make.

ScarlettOYara · 27/05/2025 07:45

rb124 · 27/05/2025 07:43

Maybe he said or did something inappropriate to her just before and she forgot about the open plane door in a moment of anger?
I think far too much is being read into this - every married couple has rows, but most manage to keep it private - the fact that Russian State Media is over it like flies is suggestive of overkill.

What do you think he did which warranted physical assault?
Isn't that victim blaming?
It's not about a "row".

TheAutumnCrow · 27/05/2025 07:55

And like I give a fuck about Russian State Media. I know how to spot troll activity. God knows I report enough of it on here.

bigvig · 27/05/2025 08:01

She (possibly he if you believe the rumours) is a paedophile so nothing surprises me. I feel sorry for Emmanuel Macron.

PlutoCat · 27/05/2025 08:20

StupidBoy · 27/05/2025 07:44

I don't. He's wealthy, powerful and intelligent and he has no children to worry about, plus she's in all probability going to die long before him anyway, so what's the problem with calling it a day a few years early? He has the chance to do that before he has to start being more like her nurse or one of her adult children than her husband, when he will still be in his prime and he'll start to really feel that age gap and wonder wtf he's done with his life.

After this he can leave any time he wants with no guilt and no-one would blame him. He isn't trapped like so many other people experiencing the same thing. He doesn't have to choose between being abused and having a roof over his head, a provider for his children, a family who won't shun him for disgracing them. Save your pity for those who have those awful choices to make.

You obviously understand little of domestic abuse. There are many reasons why people don't leave their abusers even when they have the practical and financial means to do so.

Nigella was rich in her own right and whilst not the President of a country also not exactly powerless. The abuse had been going on for a long time, but Nigella only finally left her husband when he

a)abused her in public and was photographed doing so; and

b)his actions were widely condemned by press and public.

I have pity for anyone trapped in an abusive relationship.

Deathraystare · 27/05/2025 08:21

I am wondering if it is fake or if she was wiping his mouth?

ScarlettOYara · 27/05/2025 08:22

Deathraystare · 27/05/2025 08:21

I am wondering if it is fake or if she was wiping his mouth?

Have you seen the video?

GlomOfNit · 27/05/2025 08:23

saraclara · 27/05/2025 00:17

In that mail video link at the beginning of the thread, just focus on the young woman airport worker. She reaches the door, sees it happen, and is hugely discomfited. She can't get away from them quickly enough and does that hair touching anxiety thing.

She did not witness a joke or anything good natured, imo.

Yes, I was also watching and rewatching her reaction. Very telling - she could see a lot more than we could too, as her sightline is into the fuselage. I agree that her body language was 'I don't WANT to see that!' and awkward hair playing as she gets away quickly.

GarlicPile · 27/05/2025 08:23

bigvig · 27/05/2025 08:01

She (possibly he if you believe the rumours) is a paedophile so nothing surprises me. I feel sorry for Emmanuel Macron.

FFS, Brigitte has three children from her first marriage. I don't think her husband gave birth to them. She won damages against the journalists who started the rumour.

Thatsalineallright · 27/05/2025 08:26

TaupeMember · 26/05/2025 22:46

We don't know what went before.

He couldn't been aggressive with her.

For all we know she's putting up with far more...

We don't know.

That's all very well, but I suspect that if we'd seen the opposite - Macron hitting his wife across the face - you wouldn't be saying "well she might have been aggressive with him first, he might be putting up with way more".

It's not okay for one partner to hit another.