@Youagain2025 i just wanted to message to say hi 👋🏻 and to commend you for seeking out your past.
I have no credentials in this area, and other more experienced people have replied to you. But I just wanted to say I’m sorry that you have had to embark on this journey to uncover why you were removed from mainstream education. I have found some of the replies unempathetic, because you are sharing a very personal journey of discovery as to why you missed out on approx seven years of mainstream education, and you may have lost valuable opportunities because of that intervention.
You have been very open about what you do know, and what remains unexplained. I recall a boy who was in my class at school up to age 9, and one day we had a school party for him because he was going to a new school. I’ve no recollection of him having SEN; I do remember he was very tiny for his age, and the thinking in those days was that ‘different’ meant ‘special school.’ I am projecting perhaps, but I wonder are you wondering if your life would have turned out differently if patience and time were afforded you? Might you have had a different life if you’d had a chance to be with a different peer group?
I don’t get a sense of anger or resentment from your posts, but I notice you haven’t really referenced parents or siblings, so it sounds like you’re not surrounded by people who can answer, or perhaps you don’t feel you can ask.
I really just wanted to say you sound like a lovely and articulate person, and I hope you’ve had a good life. I am in Ireland and we have a shameful history of institutionalising people (children!) for such “misdemeanours” as ‘wandering’, ‘being an orphan’, and ‘slow’, and from here I have the uneasy feeling that your parents were encouraged to place you somewhere ‘more suitable’ when the reality may have been you were just a little girl who needed a little help, a little encouragement, and a little time 💖