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Anyone worked for someone famous?

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FishOnTheTrain · 24/04/2025 01:53

I’m working in a company for an influencer/z list celeb. She’s well known in a certain group of people and hangs around with some pretty famous faces. She has her own fashion company.

I don’t report into her, but work closely with her and she is an utter bitch. The way she comes across on social media is so…different. Her intern films her for content daily and she puts on such a smiley show. When the camera is off, she’s rude, demanding, bitches about everyone in the team, including members of the team that go above and beyond to make her business a success and make her happy…I could go on.

she contradicts herself constantly, making me feel like I’m going mad. I know if I died tmrw she wouldn’t care. She cares only about herself and her success. She’s not even nice about her husband, who is such a lovely guy.

I want to get out this company asap. It’s just difficult to know where to go and what to do next so in the meantime…has anyone else experienced similar?

I have lost all respect for this woman. She is awful and everyone that works for her knows it.

OP posts:
AppleDumplingWithCustard · 26/04/2025 00:19

Cesarina · 25/04/2025 10:27

My post was in response to a post early on in this thread by @Harpey who said she had worked for a well known mental health guru who was toxic and a narcissist.
But she wasn’t named. Many PPs on here have made posts about famous people and named them, or not named them, or not named them but have given clues - yes, sometimes cryptic clues but usually light-heartedly.
@Harpey had chosen not to name this person, and all I did was start the guessing game as others had started other guessing games. I haven’t had time to read the whole thread yet, but another PP made an amusing guess about this guru, and other PPs found my post amusing. AFAIK you are the only person to complain and of course you have the right to refer to these posts as ridiculous cryptic nonsense.
In that case maybe this isn’t the thread for you and you might be happier not reading it’?

I’m grateful for your concern but rest assured, I’m extremely happy reading this thread.

Cojones · 26/04/2025 00:29

ItGhoul · 24/04/2025 11:15

Years ago I worked in PR in the arts and entertainment industry and met loads and loads of C-list celebs - TV actors and presenters etc. The worst people were usually jobbing actors who actually wanted to do theatre and film but had been cast in something like Peak Practice or Bad Girls for which they had to do PR interviews occasionally, and thought it was all greatly beneath them. Also major soap stars, the type who play iconic household name characters, often seemed to be utterly vile.

Nu is that you? ☺️

Having also worked in production I can confirm that the lower down the tree they are the worse they are. They all think they’re going to leave and be the next big thing but there are very few like Sarah Lancashire or Lyndsey Coulson who go on to make it on the outside. And when they want to do publicity it’s only to get a new kitchen.

Cilla Black was another one who was sweet while the cameras were rolling but unpleasant off screen. Linda Bellingham too. (I’m showing my age here.) Amanda Burton in her heyday didn’t like the crew to make eye contact on set.

But Timothy West was lovely, Danny Dyer too.

LuckyAnt · 26/04/2025 00:33

LT1233 · 25/04/2025 18:45

Least surprising of the thread. She's a ginormous twat

Definitely need to know more

Coffeeforayear · 26/04/2025 00:34

Blojappre · 26/04/2025 00:06

I don’t want to be too outing but I once worked for a family as a job role where an earlier job role was murdered. I’ll probably be murdered now but hopefully not…very very very famous case.

Lord Lucan ?
Lady Di's taxi driver?

Soulstone · 26/04/2025 00:42

I can also confirm Joe Strummer was nice. I was invited to meet him many years ago. Actually walked in the room with his manager and he was doing this quiff in the mirror, lol. I chatted with him for a while and he introduced me to several other musicians working with him at the time. He signed some record covers I brought with me and talked about a certain area we had a connection too. I also met and spent time with Hugh Cornwell (ex the Stranglers) he was nice and chatty too. Another was Dave Vanian of the Damned, a very nice guy. Iv met him a few times over the years and he is always polite and very nice to be around. I met little mix, but I didn’t know who they were at the time to be honest. I walked past and was stood right next to Helena Bonham Carter, she smiled in polite acknowledgment as I smiled at her ‘nervously’, I don’t get nervous usually or start struck but I did with Helena, I was embarrassed as I thought she looked amazing (hair cropped very short for a part she was playing) I was instantly smitten, and very nervous, silly I know, but its the truth.

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MarxistMags · 26/04/2025 00:53

Toto, Dorothy's dog.
This clue has whooshed right over the top of my head !

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 26/04/2025 00:59

MarxistMags · 26/04/2025 00:53

Toto, Dorothy's dog.
This clue has whooshed right over the top of my head !

Toto Wolff. CEO of Mercedes F1 team.

montelbano · 26/04/2025 00:59

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 25/04/2025 15:54

He's been known to turn around - on stage at live gigs - and just stand there reading his newspaper with his back to the audience during instrumental interludes!!

Saw Morrison on the same bill as Bob Dylan in Paris. Morrison was Dylan's guest and was being his usual miserable, grumpy self. At one point, Morrison came on to duet with Dylan; as the song progressed Dylan changed the verses around leaving Morrison floundering and eventually stomping off. Dylan continued singing with a big grin. Think they'd had a row backstage.

Bigcat25 · 26/04/2025 02:10

Westfacing · 25/04/2025 08:36

To back up the nice things said about Mick Jagger upthread - I know someone who provided services to his big busy Richmond household for decades.

He said from Jagger himself down to wives, ex wives, children, grandchildren everyone was pleasant and well-mannered. Smile

I used to have a client who worked for He and Jerry and thought they were great. They sent her nice wedding and baby gifts after she was done working with them, and she got to eat with David Bowie in Mustique.

StarCourt · 26/04/2025 02:21

@FiercelyFree also happy to hear this Valentino always seems lovely.

Talisin · 26/04/2025 02:23

LovePeriodProperty · 25/04/2025 12:58

I’ve never heard of this Tom Cruise cake so thanks for posting about that.

Apparently Tom Hanks said he would want it as his last meal !

Just looking up copycat recipes to give it a go. 🙂

My favourite thing with the Tom Cruise cakes is The Guardian journalist who lobbied to get one (actually two) and then…

I challenged Tom Cruise to send me two of his special cakes for Christmas. Did he deliver? Of course he did

Every Christmas, the actor sends an extreme white chocolate coconut gateaux to close friends – by private jet, it turns out. This year, those friends include me. Twice

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2021/dec/15/i-challenged-tom-cruise-to-send-me-two-of-his-special-cakes-for-christmas-did-he-deliver-of-course-he-did

StarCourt · 26/04/2025 02:27

2andadog · 24/04/2025 15:27

Ooh this is interesting! I always thought he was a bit "soft lad", interesting he's an absolute a**. Have got a soft spot for his teammate and principle though!

That’s so disappointing

Downunderduchess · 26/04/2025 02:38

Oneearringlost · 25/04/2025 20:37

Did you have swimming lessons with her?

I think the clue might be in the username KingOfPoundbury …

LovePeriodProperty · 26/04/2025 02:42

Talisin · 26/04/2025 02:23

My favourite thing with the Tom Cruise cakes is The Guardian journalist who lobbied to get one (actually two) and then…

Edited

Thanks for posting that what a great read.💐
I love the fact he got sent two because Tom Cruise remembered the same guy had commented about Cruise eating two curries in Birmingham once.
What a great guy
What an amazing cake

I actually went and bought a bundt mould to try and make one of these.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/04/2025 03:00

Kellybonita · 24/04/2025 12:00

But who is nice?

I think that most women I've met with and worked with are not nice. Most of them are competitive, selfish and nasty to other women. Especially to younger women.

It just seems to be how women are.

I think that says more about you

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/04/2025 03:08

VenusClapTrap · 24/04/2025 13:53

I worked for Zoe Ball for a year or two. She couldn’t be lovelier - what you see is exactly what you get. Genuine, friendly, thoughtful and generous.

I met Kate Adie through work years ago. She was incredible - a consummate professional, nice to people, and fascinating to listen to. There was no getting a word in edgeways though! She really commanded a room.

A friend worked with Helena Bonham Carter on the Harry Potter films and said she was delightful to everyone.

Harry Redknapp was on a plane I was on, kicking off and being horrid to the crew because he wanted a free upgrade and didn’t get one.

I worked with Kate Adie on a project once and she was fairly tricky. Not vile or anything like it, but quite a job to manage.

Bartonzam · 26/04/2025 04:37

Liz Earle anyone?

Profhilodisaster · 26/04/2025 04:51

Atsocta · 25/04/2025 23:25

My parents lived next door to Roger Moores parents, shooters Hill area he gave me a lift to work on a few occasions when he was staying at his parents on a visit this was around 1966 so awhile ago
I worked at a nearby hospital which his mother was a patient who I cared for whilst on duty, very nice family.

The Brooke hospital or Royal Memorial ?

thebluerose · 26/04/2025 05:16

CleaningAngel · 25/04/2025 18:55

No idea the one that's been advertising 4 times a year for about the last 10 years!!

Definitely not this one:

Fabulous Dead People | Bubbles Rothermere

Tinydancer35 · 26/04/2025 05:32

Hear me out — I didn’t read the entire thread, but @FishOnTheTrain I’m putting my bet on Georgia Toffolo (she’s married to James Watt now). She comes across all cheery on social media, but maybe it’s just me she strikes me as someone who could be a total bitch off camera. The shit she posts is so cringe and completely unrelatable. Ever since she got with her husband, it’s been non-stop cringeworthy crap on socials.

Don’t even get me started on her husband especially when he came out with that whole ‘work-life integration’ bullshit instead of ‘work-life balance.’ That backfired real quick. I’ve nevermet them so it’s just a guess but they both strike me as total twats, completely detached from reality

Atsocta · 26/04/2025 05:46

Profhilodisaster · 26/04/2025 04:51

The Brooke hospital or Royal Memorial ?

Saint Nicolas in Plumstead …

NewspaperTaxis · 26/04/2025 05:56

Kellybonita · 24/04/2025 14:13

Someone always pops on a thread to say that, whenever anyone dares to mention that women can be cruel.

I'm 40 . I've worked in many different jobs. In many different places.

The women have been the same in every job. I've seen groups of women gang up on , amd bully some woman in every job I've been in.

The female managers have always been worse than the men.

In my opinion, the bad side of men is they can be physically and sexually destructive.

The bad side of women is that women can be emotionally destructive. You never see men isolate and bully a man in the workplace I've seen women do it so so so many times.

I will out myself as a bloke to say that I used to work as a sub-editor in the magazine industry, where most of the chief subs were women, and it was a slog. Of course, male bosses can be horrible but generally I've found that happens if the bloke is a horrible personality anyway - in fact, the head chef at the place I now work is awful, but then he is known to be an awful person. The women I worked for otherwise seemed to have decent enough personalities but the mantle of being the boss didn't sit well with them, blokes generally enjoyed and embraced rank, the sense of being in charge, while the women didn't.

Many of them, when I went up to ask them a question about the job, tried to not give me a straight answer, as if to do so would give me some hold over them! If I walked away none the wise, it seemed to give them some satisfaction. It was like they felt I was trying to trip them up, whereas a male boss would be glad I was trying to get things right, and a friendly chat might ensue.

Many would use silence as a weapon, I agree with what others say about it being emotionally damaging, they could go all day and just not say anything to you, and as a freelancer I didn't have much clout anyway, but you can't take that stuff to HR because, well, they haven't actually said anything.

Being a bloke, you often came up against what I'd term the Japanese PoW attitude to - you know, they treated PoWs like dirt because they'd surrendered, which was not the Japanese way back then. Likewise, some women seem to think, well, if this bloke is working for me, he must be rubbish because in a normal world the roles would be reversed.

That all said, the industry itself and the job of being a chief sub didn't lend itself to happy extroverts so I also chalked it up to that, it depends on the sector. I think you also get bullying in sectors which are predominantly female or predominantly male, as the sexes can have a civilising effect on one another. Kitchens tend to be a very macho atmosphere, and the Army is notoriously rife with bullying, too.

unevenwalls · 26/04/2025 06:23

I used to work in TV in the 90s and met lots of celebs (met as is seeing them to their car, showing them where the lifts were etc) and my fave ever moment was getting into a lift with Dolly Parton and her telling me she liked my shoes.

unevenwalls · 26/04/2025 06:25

and not me but a good friend worked with Naomi Campbell. I am sure it will not come as a surprise to anyone that she was a total nightmare.

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