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What’s the oldest person you know to have their first baby conceived naturally?

122 replies

Audistic · 21/04/2025 22:56

Dh’s friend was 49 when she had her child.

Just wondered what age you know of for people to have their first, conceived without help.

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allfurcoatnoknickers · 22/04/2025 00:26

First baby - my Mum. Had me at 44 after years of infertility.

Isthisreasonable · 22/04/2025 00:29

Me - just shy of 45. Very unexpected but happy surprise.

Isthisreasonable · 22/04/2025 00:29

Me - just shy of 45. Very unexpected but happy surprise.

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TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 22/04/2025 00:36

First baby at 46.

Tonnes of women have their 4th/5th/6th in their late 40s, it’s no big deal.

Enko · 22/04/2025 00:44

43 for 1st baby. My aunt.

ItGhoul · 22/04/2025 00:47

A friend of mine had her first (and I think likely to be only) child at 45.

TheHerboriste · 22/04/2025 00:55

45, first child. Perfectly healthy.

TubTubTub · 22/04/2025 01:00

What’s the oldest person you know to have their first baby conceived naturally?

Me - 40.

But sadly had a miscarriage at 38. Both pregnancies were natural.

(My grandmother apparently was 39 when she had her last baby - my mum). So maybe ‘older mums’ runs in my family!

Nat6999 · 22/04/2025 01:03

Someone I worked with his wife was 49, thought it was the menopause.

ImagineRainbows · 22/04/2025 01:07

47 natural conception and 56 with IVF
Both first babies

Nat6999 · 22/04/2025 01:09

I also got pregnant at 44, had ds when I was nearly 38, tried for 6 years for another but it never happened other than a couple of chemical pregnancies, split from my husband & got pregnant within 6 weeks with my new partner. Sadly lost her at 16 weeks, nothing to do with the actual pregnancy, autoimmune factors caused the loss.

EconomyClassRockstar · 22/04/2025 01:11

My friend was 46 when she had her one and only and it still blows my mind that she is still dealing with young kid stuff when I"m an empty nester!

MsNevermore · 22/04/2025 01:23

I used to take my DCs to a baby and toddler group when they were little. Struck up a friendship with a woman who was always there with two kids similar age to mine. I immediately assumed she was their grandma or a nanny…..but no. She’d had the first one naturally at 44 followed quickly by the second when she was 45!

LindorDoubleChoc · 22/04/2025 01:49

I know two women who were 45 when they had their first (and last!) babies. This was about 24 years ago.

ViciousCurrentBun · 22/04/2025 02:05

First baby 42
Latest Baby at Number 6, 44 they were 45 the day after.

XelaM · 22/04/2025 02:15

44 friend of mine

Boreded · 22/04/2025 03:32

ImagineRainbows · 22/04/2025 01:07

47 natural conception and 56 with IVF
Both first babies

Who is giving ivf to someone that old…madness

loonase · 22/04/2025 03:42

45 a friend of mine, gave birth aged 46. I know it was natural as she called me in shock when she found out.

Some school/toddler group mums might be older, but I don't know them well enough to know exact age and whether ivf was involved. I was 42 when I had dc3 (no fertility help needed) and I feel like I'm at the higher end of average age at toddler groups (north London).

Summerbaby81 · 22/04/2025 03:46

Beth8307 · 21/04/2025 23:50

I’m 41 and found out today.

Congratulations

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 22/04/2025 03:49

Me. 43 and 44 when I gave birth.

Followed by my Mum, last baby at 42.

Custardandjelly · 22/04/2025 03:51
ArtemisiaTheArtist · 22/04/2025 03:55

Friend was 42.
Dd's paternal Great GM had her youngest child at 45 in the 1950s. (I never knew her though)

Theunamedcat · 22/04/2025 04:33

ImagineRainbows · 22/04/2025 01:07

47 natural conception and 56 with IVF
Both first babies

56? I'm 50 I wouldn't want the sleepless nights at my age

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pinesofrome · 22/04/2025 07:11

Sorry - wrong thread!😱