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In 2 hours time, I will be the mother of a 6 year old!

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/04/2025 22:05

It's just me and dd, and our cat. She's autistic so isn't speaking yet but has come on so much since turning 5 🥺

She's so much more aware now, and is understanding more. And she's using the toilet!

No reason for this post. It'll be a quiet birthday. I plan to send her into school tomorrow with a cake, and they'll have a little party for her.

I wish I could do more for her. This next year of her life is about making her friends, as she currently doesn't have any, which i feel like crap about. It's hard as she doesn't see the same sen kids outside of school, or the same neurotypical ones tbh

But that's what this year is for - getting her semi verbal and making friends.

This time 5 years ago, I had just discovered that I was all alone with an almost one year old, facing a pandemic. I didn't think we'd make it, but here we are ❤️

If anyone is alone with their baby, no family and friends, just keep on going. It does get better.

And if anyone has any experience with private speech therapy, please do share xx

Dunno where I'd be without mumsnet ☀️🙌

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PersephoneSmith · 03/04/2025 22:06

That’s lovely, happy birthday to your DD

watchuswreckthemic · 03/04/2025 22:07

Awww what a lovely post, happy birthday to your DD x

PoundlandColumbo · 03/04/2025 22:07

What a lovely post! Happy birthday to your daughter 🎂

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Changed18 · 03/04/2025 22:07

Happy birthday to your DD! Hope you both have a lovely day.

DGPP · 03/04/2025 22:08

You sound like an incredible mum. Hope she has a wonderful day

Starryknightcloud · 03/04/2025 22:09

Happy birthday to her!

OwlBasket · 03/04/2025 22:09

I hope you’re damned proud of yourself, op🥂

happy birthday to your dd!

Fluttering5 · 03/04/2025 22:11

Aww Happy birthday to your little Queen when the time comes! 😊💕🎊🎂🎁🥳

Keep on being the best Mum that you are and I pray for this coming year to be full of joy, good health, good friends and love for your girl and you! 🙏🙏🫂💕

What a beautiful positive post this is 🥰😇 xx
Respect from one mama to another x

Needspaceforlego · 03/04/2025 22:11

Happy birthday to DD

And congratulations 🎊 to for being a fab mum for your DD.
Best Wishes for the year ahead

VeryNearlyLegendary · 03/04/2025 22:12

Happy birthday to your DD, this is a lovely post and sounds like you're doing a great job - the pandemic was hard, particularly with little ones, additional needs, etc.

Thenewbiegardener · 03/04/2025 22:14

Sorry I can’t help with experience but couldn’t pass without saying happy birthday to your dd. Wishing you both a lovely day. 🎂

newrubylane · 03/04/2025 22:19

My twins turned 6 on Tuesday (my little pair of April Fools!) and although they are NT and thriving, I can totally relate the pandemic memories - me and my husband and two one-year-olds, no support for months, barely hanging on. And yet here we are! I hope you and your DD have a lovely day tomorrow xxxx

DuskyPink1984 · 03/04/2025 22:23

Lovely post 🩷🎂🍭

shellyleppard · 03/04/2025 22:24

Wishing your daughter the happiest of birthdays, and well done mum.....you are a inspiration x

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/04/2025 22:28

newrubylane · 03/04/2025 22:19

My twins turned 6 on Tuesday (my little pair of April Fools!) and although they are NT and thriving, I can totally relate the pandemic memories - me and my husband and two one-year-olds, no support for months, barely hanging on. And yet here we are! I hope you and your DD have a lovely day tomorrow xxxx

I was in the hospital waiting to have her then - yes it wasn't easy! But we did it! Happy belated birthday to them, and happy 6 years of parenting to us all! 🥰

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Dontbeme · 03/04/2025 22:29

Happy birthday to your lovely daughter 🎉🎂🎈

Hope you all have a great day

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/04/2025 22:30

Thank you everyone 💕

So many things have been hard but she's been the best thing ever 🥺 - dunno where I'd be without her 😄

Shes still awake, terrible sleeper, with no idea why i keep on staring at her and hugging her! 🤭

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Needspaceforlego · 03/04/2025 22:33

Op what have you got planned for tomorrow?

Have you go a treat for you too? Her birthday is a special day for you too.

ScrubMummy · 03/04/2025 22:35

Awww, that’s lovely! Hope you both have a lovely day… wishing you well for the future, OP, and best wishes to your DD x 🎁🥳🎉

NinjaFurtive · 03/04/2025 22:38

Happy birthday to your daughter!

We have had private speech therapy for our son. It was incredible. Please feel free to message me if you wanted to chat about it at all.

SauvignonBlonk · 03/04/2025 22:38

Happy Birthday DD! Enjoy the cake and your little party tomorrow 🥳🥳🥳
(Your Mummy really loves you 😍😍😍)

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/04/2025 22:40

SauvignonBlonk · 03/04/2025 22:38

Happy Birthday DD! Enjoy the cake and your little party tomorrow 🥳🥳🥳
(Your Mummy really loves you 😍😍😍)

🥺💕 thank you, I do x

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/04/2025 22:40

NinjaFurtive · 03/04/2025 22:38

Happy birthday to your daughter!

We have had private speech therapy for our son. It was incredible. Please feel free to message me if you wanted to chat about it at all.

Will do, thank you xx

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/04/2025 22:44

Needspaceforlego · 03/04/2025 22:33

Op what have you got planned for tomorrow?

Have you go a treat for you too? Her birthday is a special day for you too.

Oh God I dunno actually 😄

I'm on a diet so can't eat the cake 😫, but I plan to do drop off and come home to bed and watch This City is Ours on the iplayer with some fruit and a coke zero

I can't believe we've made it, if you could've seen me 5 years ago, I was a wreck! Just gonna relax and feel happy for a day 😌 x

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Minimalistmamaoftwo · 03/04/2025 22:47

Happy birthday to your lovely little girl, sounds like you both have an exciting year ahead