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soupyspoon · 09/03/2025 19:05

Wildflowers99 · 09/03/2025 18:49

With every other condition, either there is a pathological test or you can diagnose based on the fact the patients overwhelmingly have the same symptoms.

For example, cancer. People can have the same cancer but differing symptoms. But they know they have the same cancer via diagnostic testing.

Migraines - there’s no test for these, but every sufferer presents similarly with head/neck/eye pain, vomiting etc

With autism not only is there no diagnostic test, but the people diagnosed don’t even have the same symptoms a lot of the time. One person can be non verbal and low functioning, the next can be very eloquent and high functioning. Not to mention the various profiles - anxious, demand avoidant, social difficulties, hyperactive etc

How do we know they all have the same thing? It’s far too nebulous for me to even grasp it.

Many professionals I work with, both now and in the past who diagnose are questioning their own diagnoses of children that they've now seen grow up to consider attachment disorders more likely. Other professionals also query attachment disorders and trauma responses, the traits can be very similar. There is a huge overlap and its difficult to pick apart the behaviours. There is huge concern amongst teachers/SWs/health professionals/CAMHS about the lack of differentiation now between what was Aspergers and ASD and there being no descriptor for the differences. Its unhelpful, I think it will change back again, either to 'high functioning' or some other descriptor as so many professionals now are unhappy with the lack of difference.

BananaNirvana · 09/03/2025 19:05

AlertCat · 09/03/2025 17:37

I have heard that this is part of the problem with teaching mindfulness to children, that it creates this exact situation.

Agree - unfortunately we now talk TOO much about mental health and turn kids into anxiety ridden worriers rather than kids that can take knocks and bounce back.

AnotherSlicePlease · 09/03/2025 19:05

Gingenatalie · 09/03/2025 16:15

In regards to ME etc there are new breakthroughs all the time. Just because she doesn’t think much of it doesn’t mean anything. Long Covid research has greatly aided POTS and ME research. There are do sure mental aspects as in many diseases we are learning of feedback loops that reinforce things. Doesn’t mean it’s to be dismissed.

Thanks for this. I do think things are getting better now with this generally and am thankful for those medics who are pushing for research on ME/CFS.

Cynic17 · 09/03/2025 19:08

NewNeolithic · 09/03/2025 17:53

Suzanne O'Sullivan is an excellent, compassionate and thoughtful writer so I will be buying this book - thanks for the share token OP.

The comments on this thread are completely supportive of her point about people seeking diagnoses as sn imagined unadulterated good. It is incredibly difficult as a Dr to have a nuanced conversation about this. There's a really old well designed study showing patients diagnosed with high blood pressure, compared with those who had the SAME BP but no diagnosis had increased number of sick days (not related to meds).

Diagnosis is absolutely not a neutral act. Sometimes it is helpful, sometimes it is hindering (though the diagnosed person might not think this) - it is complex and should always be a considered conversation.

And YES you absolutely can overdiagnose cancer. Prostate is classic, but true of many - cancer is not one disease and it is not known, for example, how some breast cell changes ('cancer') behave. Most people (both pts and drs) want to err on the safe side, but that may end up causing medical harms as well as an illness identity.

Please do not dismiss Dr o'sullivan or the Telegraph; this is such an important subject and she is a good person to tackle it

👏👏👏

BananaNirvana · 09/03/2025 19:09

Hazel665 · 09/03/2025 18:02

I remember a multi disciplinary at CAMHs where I spoke at length with the psychologist, and he was of the belief that the overwhelming majority of children diagnosed with with ADHD had suffered ACEs and this is what triggered it. He was very concerned that we were starting to medicate children living in chaotic families with very powerful drugs before trying to deal with the environment those children were exposed to.

The thing is, a child with ADHD has more than likely inherited it from one or both parents. The parents' ADHD is what is leading to the chaotic family life, and the child's ACEs (adverse childhood experiences) will be caused by the parents' ADHD. It is the parents that need help/diagnosis first, then the children, otherwise the whole thing becomes generational.

Or the parents ACEs lead to the children’s ACEs which is what we see more I think - children growing up in chaotic households because their parents did and so on. We are seeing many generations of inter generational trauma that’s being potentially misdiagnosed as additional needs which means families are not getting the appropriate support to break the cycle.

JLou08 · 09/03/2025 19:10

WimbyAce · 09/03/2025 18:36

I wonder if this happens a lot tbh. Have a relative currently on DLA (autism) having a lovely time horse riding etc, no thoughts on anything education wise for the future, not been in school for years. I asked the parent what the plan was for them and they said move to PIP when they reach that age. Looking at the PIP criteria I can't comprehend how it will be approved as they are pretty much a normal functioning person, they don't require help as such. I would say the main issue is they are unsocial but they do still manage these horse riding events etc.
I just feel like cases like this it seems easier to push them on to PIP rather than to encourage them to achieve something with their life. Sad really.

It's quite well known that being around horses is a form of therapy for autistic people. I work with an autistic lady who also has a learning disability, she can be violent, she cannot hold a conversation, can't safely cross a road alone. However, she can rife beautifully and is very calm and safe around the horses.
There's a good chance your relative struggles much more than you realise and you are making an unfair judgement.

soupyspoon · 09/03/2025 19:10

Wildflowers99 · 09/03/2025 19:03

But it isn’t a concrete test, like a blood test or an X ray. They diagnose based on behaviour, but equally could diagnose 2 people presenting completely differently with the same thing.

And actually its reported on descriptions of behaviour more often than not. Its all very well people trying to validate their own or their child's diagnosis by saying 'there were several interviews and a history taken and interviews with me', well yes, whatever you're describing is taken as the evidence

There will be lots of children whose behaviour is very similar at school, in the community, at home, whose behaviour will be obvious during the assessment sessions and interviews, whose behaviour is well documented in other professionals reports.

There will be some children whose behaviour is said to be mostly or only at home and masking everywhere else.

Kirbert2 · 09/03/2025 19:12

AmusedGoose · 09/03/2025 19:00

Regarding cancer diagnosis a lot of elderly people don't realise how brutal the treatments will be and also they may go through it all only to die of that or something else. My 80 years old MIL goes to GP about everything and frequently gets referred to imaging or consultants but tells DH she doesn't want any treatment anyway. More education needed for those getting too frail to be treated is surely best.

When my son was diagnosed with cancer, they made it perfectly clear how brutal treatment would be to the point he didn't even have chemotherapy the first time around due to the complications the tumour caused making him critically unwell and it was all removed surgically. It was agreed that risking the cancer coming back was a much better option than putting him through chemo when his body was so weak and unwell.

When it did come back, he was stronger and able to have chemotherapy but even then, his body still wasn't 100% so they adjusted his treatment plan and he had a smaller amount of one of the chemo drugs because it was deemed too risky on his body to have all of it.

Of course, he's a child and not elderly so maybe it isn't explained as well to the elderly or maybe they don't understand? It is all very overwhelming and very easy to become confused about it all when you aren't elderly.

godmum56 · 09/03/2025 19:13

Cynic17 · 09/03/2025 19:03

If people want to access screening, then of course that is fine. But it is pushed on us as if it's mandatory, when it absolutely isn't.
And some women who are getting a "positive" still may not require treatment, and yet the bandwagon seems to. ust roll on.
People need choice and information.

I agree. I stopped having smear tests before I aged out of them. I did my own research before I took the decision. I went to see a GP shortly afterwards for something else and he mentioned my lack of recent smear results so I took him briefly through my decision making process. He was a bit surprised but said he followed and agreed with my reasoning.

soupyspoon · 09/03/2025 19:14

I think one day there will be a 'test' for ND, by way of looking at the genetics more clearly. Things move on and evolve in science.

Yalta · 09/03/2025 19:14

Newyearsametroubles · 09/03/2025 18:30

surely the most interesting question is about what a diagnosis DOES.

DOES it actually make anything better?
Are we sure there isn’t evidence it can make things worse?

we have lots of diagnoses in our family. I am far from sure they have all helped us, even though I also don’t doubt their accuracy.

If I had a diagnosis when I was a child it would have changed my life completely

Having a diagnosis would have triggered my whole family getting diagnosed. Which would have meant we would have worked better and probably wouldnt have led to suicide attempts and hospitalisation with mental health issues and with meds we wouldn’t have all been relying on benefits.

Imagine feeling ill. You have a list of symptoms, one of which means you can’t walk unaided but are not allowed to use a wheelchair.
You struggle through your whole life getting around on sticks until you get to 60 years old and suddenly there is a name for the reason you can only walk with sticks and with a diagnosis there is a pill you can take and when you take it you can walk unaided

Do you really think a diagnosis is any good

Remember people with undiagnosed/unmedicated ADHD have a much shorter lifespan than a NT person and their brains aren’t the same shape as a NT brain

Cynic17 · 09/03/2025 19:16

godmum56 · 09/03/2025 19:13

I agree. I stopped having smear tests before I aged out of them. I did my own research before I took the decision. I went to see a GP shortly afterwards for something else and he mentioned my lack of recent smear results so I took him briefly through my decision making process. He was a bit surprised but said he followed and agreed with my reasoning.

Me too.

ItisIbeserk · 09/03/2025 19:16

soupyspoon · 09/03/2025 18:32

Local Authorities dont diagnose ND conditions, thats CAMHS

I didn’t mean the Head of Planning was handing out ASD diagnoses.

LAs part-fund CAMHS (alongside clinical commissioners), and the SEN teams in the LAs now work on the basis that the local CAMHS are no longer funded to diagnose so the lack of a diagnosis should not prevent the appropriate support being put in place for the needs evidenced.

It won’t be surprise anyone to know that there is a lot of scepticism that this approach is being done to meet need better.

Bornnotbourne · 09/03/2025 19:25

I was reflecting on this very topic at a funeral the other day. I was educated in the 90’s and whilst there was an awareness that there was something ‘wrong’ with me no one at our school knew what to do so we were left in a room by ourselves (1 girl, 8 boys). Since we’ve left school 3 of us have died, 2 from addiction and one in act of violence. The remaining members of the ‘special’ kids have had substance abuse issues, partaken in criminal activity and all have mental health disorders ranging from schizophrenia to depression. We were all present at the funeral and it was very clear to me that we all would have received diagnoses and support these days. Things have got better not worse.

JoyousGreyOrca · 09/03/2025 19:30

@Yalta Where there is effective treatment of course diagnosis helps. Where there is not it helps some people and is negative for others.

soupyspoon · 09/03/2025 19:32

Yalta · 09/03/2025 19:14

If I had a diagnosis when I was a child it would have changed my life completely

Having a diagnosis would have triggered my whole family getting diagnosed. Which would have meant we would have worked better and probably wouldnt have led to suicide attempts and hospitalisation with mental health issues and with meds we wouldn’t have all been relying on benefits.

Imagine feeling ill. You have a list of symptoms, one of which means you can’t walk unaided but are not allowed to use a wheelchair.
You struggle through your whole life getting around on sticks until you get to 60 years old and suddenly there is a name for the reason you can only walk with sticks and with a diagnosis there is a pill you can take and when you take it you can walk unaided

Do you really think a diagnosis is any good

Remember people with undiagnosed/unmedicated ADHD have a much shorter lifespan than a NT person and their brains aren’t the same shape as a NT brain

I hope you are being supported at the moment, however ADHD meds are not a panacea and dont work for everyone, and there is no medication for ASD specifically although lots for comorbid conditions

Its also very difficult to persuade reluctant children to take their medication, you may have not been such a child but many are.

JoyousGreyOrca · 09/03/2025 19:32

@Bornnotbourne I am sorry to hear that.
I grew up in a very poor area. Every single boy in my street grew up to commit a criminal offence serious enough to end up in the local paper. Every single one, and we are talking about 20 boys. Now days they would probably all be diagnosed with ADHD or ASD. Some of them may have this, but most just lived in dire poverty and some had very chaotic families.

soupyspoon · 09/03/2025 19:34

ItisIbeserk · 09/03/2025 19:16

I didn’t mean the Head of Planning was handing out ASD diagnoses.

LAs part-fund CAMHS (alongside clinical commissioners), and the SEN teams in the LAs now work on the basis that the local CAMHS are no longer funded to diagnose so the lack of a diagnosis should not prevent the appropriate support being put in place for the needs evidenced.

It won’t be surprise anyone to know that there is a lot of scepticism that this approach is being done to meet need better.

Ok I wasnt sure what you meant. Yes I know how they're funded

I can understand the skepticism

WimbyAce · 09/03/2025 19:37

JLou08 · 09/03/2025 19:10

It's quite well known that being around horses is a form of therapy for autistic people. I work with an autistic lady who also has a learning disability, she can be violent, she cannot hold a conversation, can't safely cross a road alone. However, she can rife beautifully and is very calm and safe around the horses.
There's a good chance your relative struggles much more than you realise and you are making an unfair judgement.

Possibly yes, I take that on board. However, a lot of children struggle at one time or another and then so on into adulthood. I just wonder where the line is drawn between "labelling" them with a condition or actively encouraging them to overcome such struggles.
A lot of us have to do things outside of our comfort zone a lot of the time. There are a lot of things in my life I would rather not have done (in school, in work etc) but pushed myself even though I may have felt uncomfortable and socially awkward. I do feel these days people would rather assign themselves a label than challenge themself.

JoyousGreyOrca · 09/03/2025 19:39

BananaNirvana · 09/03/2025 19:05

Agree - unfortunately we now talk TOO much about mental health and turn kids into anxiety ridden worriers rather than kids that can take knocks and bounce back.

I agree with this. I realised as a young adult that focusing too much on how I am feeling just increases any depression or anxiety. You have to do things to make life better.

Mustreadabook · 09/03/2025 19:41

LadyRoughDiamond · 09/03/2025 16:10

I work in an education, husband is a GP - we’ve both seen an increasing level of diagnosis of neurodivergence. The one thing we’ve both commented on is the strange coincidence that, specifically, private ASD/ADHD/other clinics never, in our experience, send a report back stating that a patient isn’t neurodivergent. That’s a 100% positive diagnosis rate, which is very unusual in medicine. Referrals through CAHMS/NHS tend to have a lower positive diagnosis rate.

Another poster, further up the thread, commented on how this seems to be a middle class phenomenon. This would fit with it being the private companies that possibly over-diagnose. I guess there a lot of money to be made from anxious parents looking for answers.

But if the nhs is underdiagnosing, due to gate keeping of who gets a test, refusing CAHMS referrals, and long waiting lists, then it would make sense that more people who can afford private are diagnosed. Also if schools are not noticing neurodivergence so only the educated are likely to recognise it in their children then children of the educated are more likely to be diagnosed.
Resulting in over representing the white middle class. But only because others are underdiagnosed.

Shelby2010 · 09/03/2025 19:43

Part of the problem is the long, long wait for a child to be seen by an NHS ADHD diagnostic team. Especially if they are not causing too many problems at school.

My DD has recently had a private ADHD diagnosis after her previous teacher advised that it was likely that she had it. I have to say that it did feel like I was buying a diagnosis, especially with the invitation to pay significantly more money if we wanted medication.

I agree with an issue that a previous poster mentioned; I am concerned that the lack of thoroughness means that the possibility of another diagnosis (eg anxiety or personality disorder) have been missed. I’m not going to go into her symptoms, but there is obviously something going on and at least her (new) teacher will realise that she needs extra help not that she’s deliberately not paying attention. What else can I do? The ADHD assessment was a big stretch for us financially, we haven’t got infinite resources.

Shelby2010 · 09/03/2025 19:48

LadyRoughDiamond · 09/03/2025 16:10

I work in an education, husband is a GP - we’ve both seen an increasing level of diagnosis of neurodivergence. The one thing we’ve both commented on is the strange coincidence that, specifically, private ASD/ADHD/other clinics never, in our experience, send a report back stating that a patient isn’t neurodivergent. That’s a 100% positive diagnosis rate, which is very unusual in medicine. Referrals through CAHMS/NHS tend to have a lower positive diagnosis rate.

Another poster, further up the thread, commented on how this seems to be a middle class phenomenon. This would fit with it being the private companies that possibly over-diagnose. I guess there a lot of money to be made from anxious parents looking for answers.

Is this because with the NHS referrals the kids are coming back with other diagnosis that are more difficult to diagnose? Or are they all cleared as ‘no problem’?

JoyousGreyOrca · 09/03/2025 19:52

Reallybadidea · 09/03/2025 18:47

Is there any evidence that diagnosis of 'mild' neurodivergence improves long term outcomes for children and adults? I really hope there is some and we're not just conducting a massive social experiment.

No it is a massive social experiment.

Soontobe60 · 09/03/2025 19:58

badtimingisrubbish · 09/03/2025 16:08

What does ACE mean?

Adverse childhood experiences

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