Don’t have a good relationship with my mum due to her being abusive in the past and that abusive person still comes out at times
Anyway leant to just not tell her things, I keep plans dreams hopes worries to myself or share with a trusted friend
so now she’s developed this tactic of throwing out a statement to see how I respond
for example
youngest child will be starting school in Sept, but we’ve already decided to try for more children, sahp atm
she will just throw out at me
youll be looking for a job in September then…
kinda waiting to see how i will respond
I basically just ignore her and act like I didn’t hear her
then she will do the same again next week the exact same statement
how would you handle this ?
i mean I could say oh will I now
but she will just flow that up with more statements etc