What jumped out at me was how difficult she and her mum had found it to navigate the process.
How she hadn’t been represented at all at various stages of hearings; was discharged by an advocacy service for not returning letters.
Having supported a relative in a slightly different situation – the admin burden of organising suitable support is immense – even for people who are confident and cognitively fully capable.
She needed consistent and reliable points of contact within the social care system, who could both help her navigate the process– and understand her individual situation.
The place she was offered was in a town that had trauma memories for her. I wouldn’t particularly want to move in to a place where e.g. I had been abused. Note that EUPD is closely associated with childhood sustained SA.
This is one of many consequences of chronic underfunding and lack of joined-up-thinking in social care.