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Bianca at the Grammys

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OrangeCarrot · 03/02/2025 11:15

I know Kanye is unhinged and it would take a special person to be with him but I can’t get over her (lack of) outfit at the Grammys.

I know the whole point for it is to be outrageous. I just hope it was her own idea…

for anyone that hasn’t seen it: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/bianca-censori-kanye-west-grammys_n_679ffcbbe4b0702fa93fdfb1

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shellyleppard · 03/02/2025 11:16

@OrangeCarrot what woman would allow themselves to be exposed like that??? He's a absolute control freak and I feel sorry for her.

IHateBakedBeans · 03/02/2025 11:17

It's vile. The whole thing is creepy as fuck. She looks out of it. How is this woman and architect?

I don't understand why she wasn't arrested for indecent exposure.

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OrangeCarrot · 03/02/2025 11:19

IHateBakedBeans · 03/02/2025 11:17

It's vile. The whole thing is creepy as fuck. She looks out of it. How is this woman and architect?

I don't understand why she wasn't arrested for indecent exposure.

Maybe they are flexing that they can break laws and social norms and get away with it because of their money and fame… It’s mad.

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OrangeCarrot · 03/02/2025 11:19

shellyleppard · 03/02/2025 11:16

@OrangeCarrot what woman would allow themselves to be exposed like that??? He's a absolute control freak and I feel sorry for her.

Honestly don’t get it either. She’s meant to be really smart and well educated.

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FictionalCharacter · 03/02/2025 11:19

Without doubt this is coercive control. A woman wearing something outrageous would normally look pleased with herself, and defiant. She never does, she always looks uncomfortable and frightened.

Floralnomad · 03/02/2025 11:20

I’m not sure I feel sorry for her , they are an absolute pair of exhibitionists and she needs to get some self respect . Disgusting . I’m assuming it’s not public indecency because it was in a building so not a public area but that is what should happen .

IHateBakedBeans · 03/02/2025 11:21

It's like something from Black Mirror. Watching him fully dressed standing over her while she is actually full on naked. Can you imagine how her parents are feeling?

Poorscreamer · 03/02/2025 11:24

Absolutely vile.

I don't agree that it's all him. She is a fully grown woman with some agency, she is making a choice to do this.

Just another example of the disgraceful example set to young people (men and women), plays right into the hands of right wing ultra-conservative dictatorship we will see coming out of the US very soon😨

shellyleppard · 03/02/2025 11:24

@OrangeCarrot exactly!! Why would anyone put up with it??

FictionalCharacter · 03/02/2025 11:24

OrangeCarrot · 03/02/2025 11:19

Honestly don’t get it either. She’s meant to be really smart and well educated.

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Sadly that doesn’t make a person resistant to abuse and coercive control. As we see from the constant flow of “Aibu to be unhappy about my partner’s appalling behaviour” threads on MN from intelligent, capable women.

Quietnowplease · 03/02/2025 11:26

FictionalCharacter · 03/02/2025 11:19

Without doubt this is coercive control. A woman wearing something outrageous would normally look pleased with herself, and defiant. She never does, she always looks uncomfortable and frightened.

Without doubt? I don't know. Looking miserable is their thing isn't it.

shellyleppard · 03/02/2025 11:26

@FictionalCharacter saw a video on the daily fail news site. , Just before she took off her coat she's all smiling then she's looking unhappy......not entirely sure what is going on.

DelectableMe · 03/02/2025 11:28

I don't even know why people give Kanye any time and leeway at all, not least because of his antisemitism. He's now parading a woman like a piece of meat. I have no idea why Bianca is complicit, but I hope she can get help if she needs it. I've never seen a woman look so dead behind the eyes.

WattleTyler · 03/02/2025 11:30

Absolutely disgusting. The press shouldn’t release the photos.

DelectableMe · 03/02/2025 11:30

He seems to be taking it further than he got with Kim Kardashian. This is beyond skin tight nude coloured clothing.

Upstartled · 03/02/2025 11:33

There are pictures of her with her Mum and sisters last summer looking totally normal and happy beyond the reach of Kanye. Maybe the photographers should stop shooting these displays, it's beyond exhibitionism - it's coercion and the producers and consumers of these photos are complicit in the abuse?

CocoapuffPuff · 03/02/2025 11:33

She looks like a hostage. She's utterly dead in the eyes. We all know KW is a fruitloop and egomaniac, so his "possession" being displayed like this "you can look but not touch" must be quite a trip for him.

SingingSands · 03/02/2025 11:42

You'd think the organisers would insist on a suitable dress code - maybe they will next year?!

You couldn't stand and have a conversation or sit next to her like that!

DelectableMe · 03/02/2025 11:43

SingingSands · 03/02/2025 11:42

You'd think the organisers would insist on a suitable dress code - maybe they will next year?!

You couldn't stand and have a conversation or sit next to her like that!

I don't think they were invited.

poppymango · 03/02/2025 11:51

The thing is, seeing her naked in itself isn't in any way shocking or outrageous. It's 2025, we've seen it all.

What IS shocking and outrageous is the way he continually presents her to the cameras and instructs her to strip off. It's creepy and controlling and honestly makes me worried for her. "Look at her body, look what I own, and look what I can make her do".

He makes me deeply uncomfortable. She looks dead behind the eyes, like some kind of robot. It's abhorrent. Imagine having him for a dad... ugh.

Quietnowplease · 03/02/2025 11:52

I think she's totally in on it and is presenting herself like a piece of living art.

DelectableMe · 03/02/2025 11:53

That's the issue, @poppymango . She's not some woman desperately trying to get ahead in showbiz and catch the eye of casting agents or presenting herself as available, this is very different.

ArcticBells · 03/02/2025 11:54

She looks terrified to me

Judgejudysno1fan · 03/02/2025 12:00

Look at Victoria bonya on instagram. Its pretty diabolical

CalicoPusscat · 03/02/2025 12:01

I can't understand them at all