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Picking a new surname

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CindereIIa · 03/02/2025 10:15

A very good friend of mine is exiting a marriage, doesn't want her married surname any more, and doesn't wish to go back to her maidenname (toxic birth family), so we are talking about her choosing a nice new surname.

What would you pick, if you could pick a new surname for yourself? Ideas welcome, thanks!

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CindereIIa · 03/02/2025 13:58

RoseMarigoldViolet · 03/02/2025 13:53

Rainbird
Fairchild
Rainbow
Kingfisher

Ooh, these are lovely! I want to change my name too now!

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MumonabikeE5 · 03/02/2025 13:59

I’d go for something that means “Determined” or Brave or Creative or Persistent etc .
as a daily reminder that I am.

ie from a list like this: https://www.momjunction.com/baby-names/meaning-determined/
I might also consider heritage that I have or resonates with me.

123 Baby Names Meaning 'Determined'

Explore a collection of names that symbolize strength and ambition. Pick a name that will encourage your child to lead a meaningful life.

https://www.momjunction.com/baby-names/meaning-determined

FuzzyPuffling · 03/02/2025 13:59

I did this. I chose my great Grandmother's surname.
But I'm not going to tell you what it is!

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Shakespeare

CindereIIa · 03/02/2025 14:04

MumonabikeE5 · 03/02/2025 13:59

I’d go for something that means “Determined” or Brave or Creative or Persistent etc .
as a daily reminder that I am.

ie from a list like this: https://www.momjunction.com/baby-names/meaning-determined/
I might also consider heritage that I have or resonates with me.

This is a wonderful idea and a great list. She is going to muck around with other word-meanings on that site, such as strong/brave/new etc.

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Serenandnova · 03/02/2025 14:06

Just pick a nice sounding classic name, Beaumont is good, Falconer, Miller, Day.

Iwishiwasapolarbear · 03/02/2025 14:15

Snowdon
Holly
Stone
Swan
Ray
Hawke

BunnyLake · 03/02/2025 14:20

user1492757084 · 03/02/2025 13:25

Does your friend have a favourite bird, or tree, or beach or colour or passion of any kind...
Eagle
Magpie
Scarborough
Oakton
Swan
Bronte
Maple
Honey
Chocolate

Chocolate?

Davros · 03/02/2025 15:06

Quinn, Delaney and Power are all Irish names. Not that it means they're off limits but best to know any associations

fussychica · 03/02/2025 15:07

A friend did this via the phone book when they were still around and came up with Bradley.
I've always preferred my mother's maiden name, Harrison, to others I've had.
I also like Harrington.
Bloom is lovely but definitely wouldn't sound right with my first name so I'd have to pass on that.

user1471527955 · 03/02/2025 15:13

I knew someone whose surname was Coolbear. I love it!

NormasArse · 03/02/2025 15:16

I’ve always liked the name Pennington. I don’t know why though.

mathanxiety · 03/02/2025 17:23

Winter, Spring, Summer?

Austen, Morrison, Woolf, Christie, Alcott, Atwood, Lee, Montague, Sheridan, Macaulay, Monckton, or any other female writers, poets, etc?

Gardener, Ryder, Baker...

Wood, Forest, Copse, Weald, Grove, Coppice...

River, Brook, Lake, Rill, Bourn, Flood, Beck, Burn..

Field, Meadow, Lea, Acker...

Is there a place she loves? A city, town, village, or street?
A certain river or lake?

CindereIIa · 03/02/2025 17:26

user1471527955 · 03/02/2025 15:13

I knew someone whose surname was Coolbear. I love it!

That is epic!!!

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