What can f* right off? Tuesday edition

[UnhealthyCopingStrategies]

Pardon my French....

Elderly parents ailing, sibling wanting drama where no extra is needed, moody teen and tween and difficult day at work... so for me, everything other than chocolate really!

So sorry

You couldn't have chosen a better day for this thread op! I am now in bed with the door locked so I don't kill anyone! Had enough of being everything to everyone.
If I hear my name one more feckin time today!
I'm usually quite happy go lucky but today has been shit.
Solidarity to you all ❤️

My husband can do one. He's questioning everything I do or say. It's suffocating

Fucking January and the fucking dark

fucking cancer that’s taking my friend away

fucking arthritis in my fucking stupid knees.

This truly terrible thing we are watching on tv. It’s fucking awful.

God that feels better. General best wishes to everyone on this thread that’s having a hard time.

Sending you a hug 💐

Look up 'Evidently Chickentown' by Dr John Cooper Clarke...
It's as good as Betjeman.

and dark days too ! this has been a particularly dismal dark dreary, cold
rainy wind lashed depressing January, (although Baileys is reduced to £13
at Morrisons)

Eta - a litre !

Dog going up the walls due to house arrest post-surgery 😬

Being made redundant.

This could be me - I second this!

My delusional XH and his grandiose narcissistic fucking pain in the royal arse manipulative control tactics. …

Winter fed up of dark nights

Work

Perimenopause

Dsis for splitting up the family helping herself to elderly dm money and getting her to change her will and taking out an equity release on her house

Dm for believing whatever dsis has been telling her and allowing herself to be manipulated and isolated from me and dc

Opg who have taken a year after agreeing to investigate my concerns to actually assign it to an investigator an awful lot more money has gone in that time plus an equity release done on dm house dsis spent the money

Anxiety about the above situation and that dm passes away before it's resolved not being told that she has passed away

Plantar Fasciitis

*Off to Google the Bruno Mars lyrics 😳

My stupid right hip - I'm not entirely sure what is wrong with it, but it has these flare-ups where it's so, so painful especially at night, that I've not had a proper night's sleep for about a week because of the pain and discomfort and not being able to get comfortable, despite taking pain relief. I just want to have a lie in and have an undisturbed night so badly 😭. Really need to sort out a physio appointment for it....

January.
So far I've had a nail in my car tyre, legal wrangling with next door neighbour who is now doing a full renovation so lots of noise, I'm back to the office 3 days a week, I've had a colonoscopy and lost a family member, who was not close but it's upset my mum and another family member is behaving horribly which has upset my mum.
And it's just cold and wet and dark. Thank fuck I'm not doing dry January!

Have googled, gosh.

The dentist who gave me a treatment quote when I went there in December only for me to ring today to book it in and be told their prices went up from 1st Jan and it is now going to be £40 more.

@Tortiemiaw I remember you from the uni threads! I'm sorry about your Ds's uni accommodation, it's scandalous. I hope your dd is doing ok?
My Dd had a massive autism breakdown, we had to bring her home just before Halloween and get her seen by a doctor. We informed uni and told them she wouldn't be going back to the halls. We have to pay £3K accommodation fees onThursday even though she hasn't been there since October! You are not alone!

This weather
Having to train colleague who can't seem to grasp even simple concepts
My solar panels not working since the storm ( not that they'd be doing much in this weather anyway)

13 hour work days as standard
Five hour round commute
Constantly late trains
My gloves, currently sat at home on the sideboard
The pain in my frozen fingers on the platform waiting for said late train that has me slightly worried I’m actually getting frostbite (I know, it’s never that quick
Trousers with no pockets
Coats with no pockets
The consultant that will not switch my other half off his current epilepsy meds, despite the fact that we want to start a family and current medical advice is to wear a condom and DO NOT get anyone pregnant while you’re on it
Knowing I’m going home to find the litter box needs emptying, the curtains need closing, the cat bowls need washing, the washing up needs putting away and all the other myriad jobs that just don’t get done when I’m not there
To top it all, the fucking mouse my fucking cat brought in in the middle of the night and then let go of, which promptly ran behind the oven and into the fucking walls - we’ve been hearing it in different rooms for a WEEK now and pest control can’t help

I’m just tired, cold, PMTing like a bitch and work was so busy, I couldn’t heat up dinner before I left, so you can add hangry to the list.

Cheers, OP - that was needed to counter the toxic positivity that I channel at work all day.

Wet play and long division. Also being cold all the bloody time.

Just finding out the price of wine is going up.

DP. I WFH but the past two days I've been back in the office so he's had to do the kids school runs etc. well you'd think he had run a fucking marathon. Now he's lost the plot at me because he's lost something but could tell me what it was. He's due to go to see family on Thursday and will be away for nearly a week. I cannot wait because there will be calm in the house. Utter fucking dick.

Here's a medal for your partner for doing the school run 🏅
Bless his little cotton socks.
You'll have one less child to look after on Thursday, hang in there 💐

The cold, the rain, the dark, the mud, Seasonal Affective Disorder on top of regular depression rendering me unable to do anything useful 😭.