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The number of people going on and on about their wonderful alcohol free lives

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Eastie77Returns · 09/01/2025 07:45

It’s a bit boring now. Every other Opinion essay or online article today is written by someone waxing lyrical about their decision to stop drinking and how incredible their lives are now followed by judgy comments about the poor saps who still drink, use it as an emotional crutch and are too wine addled to realise they are drinking themselves into an early grave. It’s all a bit sanctimonious and honestly…who cares?

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Eastie77Returns · 09/01/2025 19:53

frozendaisy · 09/01/2025 16:31

If you get your information online OP the topics you dislike, that you think you are being lectured about are easy to avoid. Same if you stream TV, you are no longer beholden to what is actually on live.

What do you want to read about? Because it's probably out there somewhere. Which magazines/newspapers do you subscribe to? It might be time for a New Year change to see if a different publication is more your fit.

I find the development of society fascinating. So quite enjoy the crazy parenting strategies, one thing is nowadays is it's much more acceptable for dads to be just as mushy about their babies which is lovely in real life. And that there are scientists going after the industrial food companies with research to back up their claims. I don't find any of this a waste of time reading about. But it's not for everyone I understand that.

I skip over interior design (our own bores me anyone else's is irrelevant), gardening, wouldn't know a Strictly or Love Island dancer/contestant if I tripped over them in Selfridges, skincare has gone beyond my understanding and opinion columns on what people would do if they were the PM are very predictable and unrealistic.

There are great articles in The Economist, New Scientist, Financial Times, some broadsheets if you want a more heady, calmer, more balanced and informed bunch of articles. To get away from the shallow lifestyle lecturing ones.

I’ve never watched an episode of Love Island or Strictly and I don’t subscribe to any lifestyle magazines. I doubt the glossy, gossip magazines would have articles on being teetotal anyway since I imagine they all glamorise the party/celebrity lifestyle and a fair amount of their revenue comes from advertising alcohol brands?

I mainly read current affairs and political magazines (Prospect Magazine, The Atlantic..) but I read the print versions because I find it difficult to read long form articles online - kills my eyes. I do read from news outlets online such as the Guardian, Indy, plus US publications NY Times and Washington Post and Le Monde. The Guardian seems to be worst for the smug, preachy columnists!

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whathaveiforgotten · 10/01/2025 12:18

You say 'no-one cares' about the topic OP but also say you see articles on it published widely in so many publications that you find it irritating and feel bombarded with it. So clearly lots of people do care if there is that much of an appetite from editors for articles on the topic?

TheignT · 10/01/2025 13:49

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 09/01/2025 13:14

There's an awful lot of defensive comments from both sides.

I think some people could do with reading the Dry January thread over in Chat. People do it for a number of reasons and it's not to be smug or sanctimonious or to post all over social media.

I did it last year because I found myself drinking more and more, a couple of gins on Friday night became 4 doubles on a Friday night and the same on Saturday or I'd get through 16 bottles of beer a weekend. The worst thing was I was sitting drinking on my own sat watching tv not out with friends. For someone who could take it or leave it that was the turning point for me. I'm very much a social drinker but I realised it was becoming part of my every day life.

I never have people trying to force an alcoholic drink on me, I think some people need better friends and colleagues if that is happening to them.

Presumably people don't force alcoholic drinks on you because you drink alcoholic drinks. People don't try and persuade me to eat chocolate because I don't need asking twice.

BeAzureAnt · 10/01/2025 14:16

No matter what you do, you are going to die. There is no avoiding that.

That said, the UK has a drinking culture, it is likely people's health is affected from drinking too much (hence the articles)

I guess all processed foods, alcohol, tobacco and any recreational drugs could be banned and users subject to jail time. They tried that with prohibition in the States, and it predictably didn't work. People are going to do what they want to do, and besides, the government likes the tax revenue.

SapphireSeptember · 19/01/2025 12:13

Ban all processed foods? That would include stuff like frozen peas, dried lentils and bread. A lot of food needs to be processed before we can eat it, or is processed in a way that means we can store it (frozen, tinned, dried, pasteurised, etc,) or made into something else, like milk and cream being made into yogurt, butter and cheese.

Plantmumfailure · 19/01/2025 12:17

I imagine people do enjoy reading them tbh as they wouldn't publish them otherwise. They're maybe a bit click baity as drinkers might read out of curiosity and non drinkers might read for encouragement or solidarity.

That said, I don't personally think going AF would significantly improve my life. It's part of the culture of my friendship groups, so I'd miss out on a sense of community if I drank nothing. But I try not to drink alone as the sociable aspect isn't there then

dynamiccactus · 19/01/2025 12:25

I've never understood Dry January. If you don't overdo it over Christmas you don't need to deprive yourself for a month.

whaddayawannado · 19/01/2025 12:25

I honestly haven't noticed anything like this and I don't drink (haven't for years as alcohol violently disagrees with me and I don't go on about it), so it is probably something I would have noticed, iyswim.

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