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Blake Lively suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment

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PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 21/12/2024 15:50

According to TMZ Blake Lively is suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment on the set of ‘It Ends With Us’.

According to the lawsuit, a meeting was held in regards to the hostile work environment. Blake demanded that Baldoni stop showing nude videos or images of women to her, no more mention of Baldoni's alleged previous "pornography addiction," no more discussions about sexual conquests in front of Blake and others, no further mentions of cast and crew's genitalia, no more inquiries about Blake's weight, and no further mention of Blake's dead father and no more adding of sex scenes, oral sex or on camera climaxing by Blake outside of the script Blake approved when signing onto the project.

Baldoni’s representative have denied the allegations and state this is an effort for Blake to rehabilitate her recent poor image.

www.tmz.com/2024/12/21/blake-lively-sues-justin-baldoni-sexual-harassment-retaliation-on-it-ends-with-us-set/

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AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:07

The BL defenders - do you have ANYthing at all to say about her behaviour? I can only deem you haven't looked into this whole thing properly

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:07

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:06

Backatcha.

Not this little thread. The world.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:09

Anyway, she is a really good judge of character (Woody Allen, Harvey Weinstein) so maybe I am wrong.... oh wait

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:11

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:07

The BL defenders - do you have ANYthing at all to say about her behaviour? I can only deem you haven't looked into this whole thing properly

I don't like watching videos of men forcing themselves on women who keep telling them no.

I don't give a toss about the rest of it, really not interested.

But the bit where he released a video to 'vindicate' himself where he was trying to kiss an unwilling woman is interesting, the fact that he couldn't see that that looked bad, and that women around the world would recognise that situation.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:13

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:11

I don't like watching videos of men forcing themselves on women who keep telling them no.

I don't give a toss about the rest of it, really not interested.

But the bit where he released a video to 'vindicate' himself where he was trying to kiss an unwilling woman is interesting, the fact that he couldn't see that that looked bad, and that women around the world would recognise that situation.

The scene was supposed to be them almost kissing, how else would they have shot it apart from, almost kissing?

Interesting, the rest of it. There's a lot. A lot.

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:14

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:13

The scene was supposed to be them almost kissing, how else would they have shot it apart from, almost kissing?

Interesting, the rest of it. There's a lot. A lot.

"Almost kissing" isn't one person going in for a kiss and the other person repeatedly trying to put them off.

It is very obvious that you are interested in the rest of it. I still don't care.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:16

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:14

"Almost kissing" isn't one person going in for a kiss and the other person repeatedly trying to put them off.

It is very obvious that you are interested in the rest of it. I still don't care.

Where is she saying, no, stop? No, stop trying to kiss me? No, I'm uncomfortable? They are acting, in a tricky position where they are part in character and part themselves (this was a silent scene where music was played over) This isn't Karen and Bob in HR where bob is dancing with her and trying to kiss her. They are literally supposed to be almost kissing over and over. I didn't see her saying she didn;t want to do that (which would be odd, as that is the part she is supposed to be playing here) how on earth would they get this shot? I don't get it.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:17

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:14

"Almost kissing" isn't one person going in for a kiss and the other person repeatedly trying to put them off.

It is very obvious that you are interested in the rest of it. I still don't care.

Well yes, I like to have the whole picture obviously

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:23

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:07

Not this little thread. The world.

I’m referring to the world.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:25

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:23

I’m referring to the world.

ok... maybe we are seeing different things then

Anyway, apparently she has new 'evidence' coming out tomorrow so let's see

ATM, with the full picture, I will be v surprised if she wins this

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:27

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:04

IMO (totally fine that you have another opinion) it was GRIM of BL to lie in her accusations but each to their own

I also think it was grim that she threatened him with her 'dragons;

i think ti was grim she talked about her 'yummy' ball busting play (her flirty love language - her words) and that she doesn't use teeth and talked about suppositories to him

Well I find your whole approach to JB grim. Perhaps you fancy him, perhaps your standards are low in general. Who knows why your ickometer is out of action.

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:30

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:25

ok... maybe we are seeing different things then

Anyway, apparently she has new 'evidence' coming out tomorrow so let's see

ATM, with the full picture, I will be v surprised if she wins this

I don’t think there will be any winners here. Like many actresses her career would probably have been safer putting up with the grim behaviour that she requested stop on set.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:32

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:27

Well I find your whole approach to JB grim. Perhaps you fancy him, perhaps your standards are low in general. Who knows why your ickometer is out of action.

You are deflecting
I don't know why you won't answer anything about BL! You just will. not. go. there!!! Ah,well. She can do no wrong I guess.
Anyway, no I don't fancy him, totally not my type. SHE gives me the ick as a woman. I would never, ever be friends with someone like her. But then I would never be with someone like him either.

Interesting though that you think I must fancy him because I am defending him. V interesting. Bit... misogynistic really.

Standards are not low. The first time I had sex, it was rape. I was raped by two men a few years later, one after the other. I later in life worked in the sex industry for a while (not a prostitute, just seeing things happen - not going into it more than that) I KNOW men. I KNOW SA/SH. I have standards thank you. I don't see it. Maybe as more comes out, it will change. Who knows. But my standards, because of what I have experienced, are high.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:33

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:30

I don’t think there will be any winners here. Like many actresses her career would probably have been safer putting up with the grim behaviour that she requested stop on set.

I will be surprised if he doesn't win his lawsuit. If she has more to show/give. It's all v murky. Apparently more is coming tomorrow but who knows?

Vespanest · 06/02/2025 22:38

I would like to see the script and direction for the footage, it's years since I read the book but Ryan was inappropriate, if memory serves correctly he sexualised the conversation about lily's dad on the night of his funeral. Ryan often ignored lily's reaction. So I find it difficult viewing the scene as this is Justin playing Ryan. I'm am sceptical that this hasn't been released by Justin but then there is still disclosure

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:40

Vespanest · 06/02/2025 22:38

I would like to see the script and direction for the footage, it's years since I read the book but Ryan was inappropriate, if memory serves correctly he sexualised the conversation about lily's dad on the night of his funeral. Ryan often ignored lily's reaction. So I find it difficult viewing the scene as this is Justin playing Ryan. I'm am sceptical that this hasn't been released by Justin but then there is still disclosure

Well he is abusing her at home, he IS an abuser in the film and he's supposed to be trying to kiss her in that scene! (I don't know is she is supposed to be hesitant as I haven't read the book) but I just think, he's in character here, as is she, and I just can't get my head round this being BLATANT SH/SA, sorry I just can't

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:42

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:32

You are deflecting
I don't know why you won't answer anything about BL! You just will. not. go. there!!! Ah,well. She can do no wrong I guess.
Anyway, no I don't fancy him, totally not my type. SHE gives me the ick as a woman. I would never, ever be friends with someone like her. But then I would never be with someone like him either.

Interesting though that you think I must fancy him because I am defending him. V interesting. Bit... misogynistic really.

Standards are not low. The first time I had sex, it was rape. I was raped by two men a few years later, one after the other. I later in life worked in the sex industry for a while (not a prostitute, just seeing things happen - not going into it more than that) I KNOW men. I KNOW SA/SH. I have standards thank you. I don't see it. Maybe as more comes out, it will change. Who knows. But my standards, because of what I have experienced, are high.

Deflecting from what? You’ve never asked me anything about BL.

No idea why who you might be friends with is relevant. You attack BL and then accuse me of misogyny - so odd.

I’m sorry about your past - sounds awful - but it does like you must have much higher tolerance for ghastly men. I wouldn’t last in the sex industry for even a minute.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:43

Mirabai · 06/02/2025 22:42

Deflecting from what? You’ve never asked me anything about BL.

No idea why who you might be friends with is relevant. You attack BL and then accuse me of misogyny - so odd.

I’m sorry about your past - sounds awful - but it does like you must have much higher tolerance for ghastly men. I wouldn’t last in the sex industry for even a minute.

About her behaviour? Maybe it was a different poster and I am getting confused

I can't defend a woman just because she is a woman, sorry

I can't really explain without giving too much detail. I was just trying to say i know how disgusting men are!

Vespanest · 06/02/2025 22:44

sorry not Ryan blaming a Freudian slip meant Ryle

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:48

Vespanest · 06/02/2025 22:44

sorry not Ryan blaming a Freudian slip meant Ryle

haha!

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:48

If you listen to the dialogue, the 'almost kissing' is meant to be the characters both getting closer and closer to kissing, as Lively puts it, what the audience wants.

It's not one of them going in for a kiss and the other saying 'no'.

How could this scene have been shot? With an INTIMACY COORDINATOR and agreement before the shot exactly what will be happening and when, agreed to by both parties.

Clearly this didn't happen and there is an issue with consent.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:50

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:48

If you listen to the dialogue, the 'almost kissing' is meant to be the characters both getting closer and closer to kissing, as Lively puts it, what the audience wants.

It's not one of them going in for a kiss and the other saying 'no'.

How could this scene have been shot? With an INTIMACY COORDINATOR and agreement before the shot exactly what will be happening and when, agreed to by both parties.

Clearly this didn't happen and there is an issue with consent.

Yes but if you listen to the before, they both agree to this beforehand

Enough4me · 06/02/2025 22:51

@AngryBird6122 you say you have high standards in men, but you defend a man who asked a PR team to destroy a woman's reputation?
Many of your posts make sense if I imagine one of his PR team writing them.

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:54

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:50

Yes but if you listen to the before, they both agree to this beforehand

Even then, consent can be withdrawn at any time. No means no.

AngryBird6122 · 06/02/2025 22:55

noblegiraffe · 06/02/2025 22:54

Even then, consent can be withdrawn at any time. No means no.

No i get that completely, but then say it blatantly. she isn't a wallflower! Even in this scene she is taking control and directing him