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Blake Lively suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment

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PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 21/12/2024 15:50

According to TMZ Blake Lively is suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment on the set of ‘It Ends With Us’.

According to the lawsuit, a meeting was held in regards to the hostile work environment. Blake demanded that Baldoni stop showing nude videos or images of women to her, no more mention of Baldoni's alleged previous "pornography addiction," no more discussions about sexual conquests in front of Blake and others, no further mentions of cast and crew's genitalia, no more inquiries about Blake's weight, and no further mention of Blake's dead father and no more adding of sex scenes, oral sex or on camera climaxing by Blake outside of the script Blake approved when signing onto the project.

Baldoni’s representative have denied the allegations and state this is an effort for Blake to rehabilitate her recent poor image.

www.tmz.com/2024/12/21/blake-lively-sues-justin-baldoni-sexual-harassment-retaliation-on-it-ends-with-us-set/

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Applecharm25 · 31/01/2025 18:46

AngryBird6122 · 31/01/2025 18:45

@Applecharm25 oh same. I’m not a jb fan or anything but I think what’s going on here is so wrong

unless at some point some huge evidence against him comes out

I think some of these celebs need to grow up and talk things out, instead of slapping each other with multi million pound lawsuits

AngryBird6122 · 31/01/2025 18:46

Applecharm25 · 31/01/2025 18:45

I think what she said about sexual harrassment was that he kept trying to kiss her in scenes , where she didn't approve of any kissing before it happened.

They agree literally beforehand that they would keep almost kissing. I watched it again today!

Applecharm25 · 31/01/2025 18:50

I don't think it should have got this far with the lawsuits.

America is a very litigious culture

camerasupply · 31/01/2025 18:52

The main issue in this whole situation is that it's now becoming more and more possible that JB did not in fact sexually assault BL.

I'm not saying he categorically didn't, but it's looking a lot less likely due to what's been publically posted.

It's alleged that BL told Sony that if they didn't use her cut of the movie that she would accuse JB of harassment. I have no idea if that is true, but if it is, I am so angry that this woman has made it so much more difficult for genuine victims to come forward.

Mirabai · 31/01/2025 19:17

camerasupply · 31/01/2025 18:52

The main issue in this whole situation is that it's now becoming more and more possible that JB did not in fact sexually assault BL.

I'm not saying he categorically didn't, but it's looking a lot less likely due to what's been publically posted.

It's alleged that BL told Sony that if they didn't use her cut of the movie that she would accuse JB of harassment. I have no idea if that is true, but if it is, I am so angry that this woman has made it so much more difficult for genuine victims to come forward.

That’s exactly what JB’s lawyers want you to think hence the media leaks.

BL has not accuse him of SA anyway, merely SH and a smear campaign.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 31/01/2025 19:56

camerasupply · 30/01/2025 21:04

Lady Colin Campbell (huh?) has now weighed in on this. Unfortunately I don't have a link so you'll need to have a Google.

I have never understood why she keeps getting trotted out - never heard her say anything that was not idiotic.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 31/01/2025 20:01

I'm not saying he categorically didn't, but it's looking a lot less likely due to what's been publically posted.

I saw something from an intimacy coordinator saying what has been posted bolstered what Blake Lively is saying.

Mirabai · 31/01/2025 20:40

Hotflushesandchilblains · 31/01/2025 20:01

I'm not saying he categorically didn't, but it's looking a lot less likely due to what's been publically posted.

I saw something from an intimacy coordinator saying what has been posted bolstered what Blake Lively is saying.

Yes I posted it upthread.

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/01/2025 20:47

It's alleged that BL told Sony that if they didn't use her cut of the movie that she would accuse JB of harassment. I have no idea if that is true, but if it is, I am so angry that this woman has made it so much more difficult for genuine victims to come forward.

Two things.

One, if you have no idea if it's true, don't post it. It's just being a flying monkey.

Two, the misogynist message that it's feckless, lying women who cause genuine victims not to come forward is utter bullshit. It's used in every male sexual crime towards women, from rape to harassment. But never with regard to mugging or GBH or arson or any other crime. It's only FEMALE liars involving MALE perps who cause this. Even though the rate of false accusation is no different for other crimes.

The reason female victims don't come forward is fear, embarrassment and shame coupled with knowledge that the likelihood is that they will be treated like shit by male police, male judges and male media, and get no justice. With some handmaidens thrown in for good measure.

Good for BL for bucking the trend.

Applecharm25 · 31/01/2025 21:19

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/01/2025 20:47

It's alleged that BL told Sony that if they didn't use her cut of the movie that she would accuse JB of harassment. I have no idea if that is true, but if it is, I am so angry that this woman has made it so much more difficult for genuine victims to come forward.

Two things.

One, if you have no idea if it's true, don't post it. It's just being a flying monkey.

Two, the misogynist message that it's feckless, lying women who cause genuine victims not to come forward is utter bullshit. It's used in every male sexual crime towards women, from rape to harassment. But never with regard to mugging or GBH or arson or any other crime. It's only FEMALE liars involving MALE perps who cause this. Even though the rate of false accusation is no different for other crimes.

The reason female victims don't come forward is fear, embarrassment and shame coupled with knowledge that the likelihood is that they will be treated like shit by male police, male judges and male media, and get no justice. With some handmaidens thrown in for good measure.

Good for BL for bucking the trend.

Yeah how could blake possibly be making "it harder for real victims to come forward".

That's bullshit.

If she was sexually harassed. She was.

In the potential scenario that she lied or exaggerated anything that happened- it still doesn't affect any other victims.

Enough4me · 31/01/2025 23:00

It's better BL came forward and hasn't backed down when he paid a PR firm to destroy her reputation.

AngryBird6122 · 01/02/2025 22:25

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/01/2025 20:47

It's alleged that BL told Sony that if they didn't use her cut of the movie that she would accuse JB of harassment. I have no idea if that is true, but if it is, I am so angry that this woman has made it so much more difficult for genuine victims to come forward.

Two things.

One, if you have no idea if it's true, don't post it. It's just being a flying monkey.

Two, the misogynist message that it's feckless, lying women who cause genuine victims not to come forward is utter bullshit. It's used in every male sexual crime towards women, from rape to harassment. But never with regard to mugging or GBH or arson or any other crime. It's only FEMALE liars involving MALE perps who cause this. Even though the rate of false accusation is no different for other crimes.

The reason female victims don't come forward is fear, embarrassment and shame coupled with knowledge that the likelihood is that they will be treated like shit by male police, male judges and male media, and get no justice. With some handmaidens thrown in for good measure.

Good for BL for bucking the trend.

Good for JB for sticking up for himself and not letting Khaleesi and her dragons ruin him

MrsTerryPratchett · 01/02/2025 22:32

Khaleesi and her dragons

Oh my sweet summer child.

AngryBird6122 · 01/02/2025 22:42

MrsTerryPratchett · 01/02/2025 22:32

Khaleesi and her dragons

Oh my sweet summer child.

I'm just using her preferred names 😚

Enough4me · 01/02/2025 22:43

Ruin him by highlighting his bad behaviour or ruin him by suing him when he employed a PR team to destroy her reputation?

AngryBird6122 · 01/02/2025 22:45

Enough4me · 01/02/2025 22:43

Ruin him by highlighting his bad behaviour or ruin him by suing him when he employed a PR team to destroy her reputation?

quoting @MrsTerryPratchett oh my sweet summer child.

Enough4me · 01/02/2025 23:21

@AngryBird6122 you lack originality of thought.

AngryBird6122 · 01/02/2025 23:35

Enough4me · 01/02/2025 23:21

@AngryBird6122 you lack originality of thought.

You lack critical thinking

lillylallylu · 02/02/2025 05:53

baldoni has released a website with all the relevant info:

thelawsuitinfo.com/downloads/amended-complaint.pdf

Stube · 02/02/2025 07:49

I haven't read the website and haven't been following along too closely since the initial reporting, but I read some of the text messages recently reported by the media between the three of them and all I can say is they seem to be a whole different species of weird sycophants, some of the messages they were sending each other, from Ryan Reynolds to Justin Baldoni, from Justin Baldoni to Blake Lively, Blake Lively to Justin Baldoni, just make you think wtf are these people on, how can three functioning adults write messages like those..

Hollyweird doesn't even encompass it.

lillylallylu · 02/02/2025 08:37

Stube · 02/02/2025 07:49

I haven't read the website and haven't been following along too closely since the initial reporting, but I read some of the text messages recently reported by the media between the three of them and all I can say is they seem to be a whole different species of weird sycophants, some of the messages they were sending each other, from Ryan Reynolds to Justin Baldoni, from Justin Baldoni to Blake Lively, Blake Lively to Justin Baldoni, just make you think wtf are these people on, how can three functioning adults write messages like those..

Hollyweird doesn't even encompass it.

Hollyweird is a whole different planet!

Mirabai · 02/02/2025 08:37

lillylallylu · 02/02/2025 05:53

baldoni has released a website with all the relevant info:

thelawsuitinfo.com/downloads/amended-complaint.pdf

It’s the same weirdly unprofessional, hyperbolic, hysteric and badly written spiel that his lawyers produced previously. It’s impossible to imagine a top flight lawyer in this country producing something of this tabloid calibre. It doesn’t read like any legal document I’ve ever come across just ungrammatical ad hominem attacks on BL’s character. Who starts a paragraph with “Though”?

LadyTottingham · 02/02/2025 15:14

Stube · 02/02/2025 07:49

I haven't read the website and haven't been following along too closely since the initial reporting, but I read some of the text messages recently reported by the media between the three of them and all I can say is they seem to be a whole different species of weird sycophants, some of the messages they were sending each other, from Ryan Reynolds to Justin Baldoni, from Justin Baldoni to Blake Lively, Blake Lively to Justin Baldoni, just make you think wtf are these people on, how can three functioning adults write messages like those..

Hollyweird doesn't even encompass it.

Exactly my thoughts.
So very cringey, I couldn't even finish reading the RR to JB text 😬
Only in Hollywood would you find such sycophantic texts exchanges like that. That this nonsense is now out in the public domain for us all to read, how embarrassing for all concerned particularly if you are RR.

Vespanest · 03/02/2025 12:44

The emails from Sony, the third party do shift the power play argument. It's pretty clear Blake had total control of the movie in the end. There is footage of Blake telling an audience that without permission of Sony she was going to show them the whole movie, with a what Blake lively wants comment. I am on the fence and will be till discovery as both could be telling some truths. But I really hate blind belief, it diminishes the argument. Justin will never fully clear his name and neither will Blake or Ryan

elessar · 04/02/2025 21:37

It's fascinating stuff reading through the lawsuits.

Probably my biggest takeaway is that nobody comes across well in the situation, and they're pretty much all horribly unprofessional and the entire Hollywood world seems toxic AF.

I agree that the wording of that lawsuit is ridiculous though - it's like it's been written by a teenage girl. What credible lawyer refers to somebody's "megacelebrity" friend?

However, there's some very big gaps in narrative from the JB lawsuit. If you took it at face value, you'd have to believe that BL set out to destroy JB's career and reputation for no reason whatsoever, just out of pure malice and spite, when he'd been nothing but kind towards her, and in her own words she'd been effusive and friendly towards him too. It simply doesn't add up.

Plus their own evidence supplied is extremely flimsy. Using an example of BL talking about an outfit as sexy or referring to breastfeeding to suggest that she couldn't be uncomfortable with any comments about her body by JB? Showing texts where she's made a joke as proof that she can't have felt harassed by his behaviour at other times?

Even the evidence that they didn't plant some specific stories or negative social media content strongly suggests they did plant others.

It will be very interesting to see how it all plays out anyway.