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Quick straw poll. A 12yo coming home from school to an empty house on their birthday?

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Crunchymum · 14/11/2024 12:45

12yo / year 7.

Will be coming home from school to an "empty house" but will be getting changed and walking round aunts house where there will be a birthday cake / dinner etc with the whole family.

Parent 1 is at work and parent 2 has to drop another child at a club so usually drops in to see their sibling why they wait on that day. Sibling has agreed to have a mini party for the birthday child and grandparents will pop in.

Parent 1 wants Parent 2 to wait in (and the other child to miss club). Parent 2 thinks the child will be fine / or Parent 1 can book annual leave.

[I'm the sibling and more than happy to have them over for a few hours that afternoon]

OP posts:
Artistbythewater · 16/11/2024 08:59

DoublePasta · 16/11/2024 08:42

Sounds utterly joyless.

Confused

A nice morning together.
Cake and candles on the day.
A family and relatives birthday tea.
A birthday party with friends.

I was referring to the comment the world doesn’t stop turning because it your child’s birthday. That is a miserable outlook.

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