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Liam Payne Funeral

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good96 · 19/10/2024 22:42

Read online that Liam Payne’s funeral could be as big as Princess Diana’s - not sure how true this is.

Don’t get me wrong I think it’ll be a large public gathering for sure…. Unless the family decide to have a more private service unannounced with just family and friends etc..

OP posts:
unmemorableusername · 20/10/2024 14:39

What's different now and for the near future is that even 'yesterdays' celebs like Liam were very much still in their fans lives through social media.

His management posted on Snapchat less than an hour before his death!

He had 30m followers on x even though he didn't really use it.

I don't know how many he had on instagram/ Snapchat/ TikTok but it was surely millions.

Also 1D were a global band that the uk hasn't seen since the Beatles. I didn't realise quite how globally successful they were.

They were also expected to reunite some day and do stadium tours again so he wasn't just a star of the past, his fans expected to see him play again.

There are vigils to him across Asia, America, South & Central America & Europe.

What other UK 31 year old would have that?

FianoMis · 20/10/2024 21:58

Drinkdrinkduuurink · 20/10/2024 13:22

Just read your post @FianoMis sorry for your loss.

Thank you, I appreciate your kindness.

rainbowunicorn · 20/10/2024 22:11

pepperonipizzaaaa · 19/10/2024 23:51

no im not agreeing it’s the same scale - but the comments saying they didn’t even know who he was. what’s the point in commenting that?

Because, the point people are making is that everyone knew who Diana was. That's how famous she was. They are saying tyey didn't know who Liam Payne was to highlight the fact that it is highly unlikely he will have a funeral.larger than Diana had purely because he was no where near as well known. A majority of people even in this country would.have struggled to place the name before he died.

rainbowunicorn · 20/10/2024 22:22

HalfWayDown · 20/10/2024 00:21

Not the point of the op but I find it hard to believe anyone in the Uk wouldn’t know who he is or who one direction are. I’m far from a fan but they were unavoidable for the last 15 years 😐

They haven't done anything as a band since 2015 so hardly unavoidable for the last 15 years.

rainbowunicorn · 20/10/2024 22:34

xxSideshowAuntSallyxx · 20/10/2024 09:27

I don't get all the people who say they've never heard of him, have they been living in a cave for the past 15 years! Do they not read a paper, watch the news? Talk to people?

Even my elderly parents have heard of him. They're almost 80 and definitely not boyband age. Even the Telegraph, the bastion of the upper middle classes report on One Direction occasionally.

Coming on a thread to pretend you don't just to provoke others is pathetic.

Edited

Nobody is trying to.provoke anyone. The fact is, as a band they have done nothing since 2016. People will know who 1D are but not necessarily the names of the individual members. In my office out of 11 people only 5 knew immediately when he was by name. Age range from.early 20s to late 60s

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 20/10/2024 22:41

FianoMis · 20/10/2024 10:13

The endless and very detailed media reporting on Liam Payne is sickening and needs to stop.

Having just been through an inquest regarding my son (and I accept this is a legal process) , even this felt like an intrusion into his life. Details shared (just six of us there) about him when he had no way to respond, it felt as if we were talking about someone behind their back. Necessary we know, handled very well by the coroner & pathologist but still feeling intrusive, taking away our son’s privacy and giving us information that we didn't know. He was a young adult, why would we know?

Sadly, I can imagine what Liam Payne’s family are going through, having a son with MH and addiction issues. Devastating, helpless, a sense always that this could happen. My DH has photos of our son’s flat, taken after an incident, taken to show him once he was in recovery, an attempt try to make him accountable. My DH hasn't ever shown those photos to me, nevermind wider. Keeping our son’s dignity as far as possible.

We have been able to carefully manage the information shared. One of our children is tormented that he didn't respond immediately the evening our son died. He chose not to attend the inquest, scared of finding out unknown information, we have talked in careful terms about it since.

We have carefully managed information about his death to his very young children, seeking professional advice.

We have managed information to our friends and colleagues who are supporting us. Professionally, my DH and I have jobs where, unfortunately, information about our son’s death, may not be conducive to the roles we have. Will we be judged as parents, how can we advise others?

For me, my DH and our other children, having every detail of our much loved son, his life, relationships, demons including his last hours, splashed world wide would crucify me and at the lowest point in our lives really would be the final straw.

My heart goes out to Liam Payne and the family he has left behind, please leave them in peace.

My heart goes out to you and your family Flowers

AlexaSetATimer · 20/10/2024 23:02

theDudesmummy · 19/10/2024 23:19

Don't be ridiculous. This was a very minor pop singer (I had never heard of him although I was vaguely aware of 1D). It's sad that a young man died. That's it.

Minor? Confused

You do realise he was part of the biggest selling band on the planet at one stage?

They were the first U.K. group to debut at number 1 with their debut album in the US, the biggest music market in the world - not even the Beatles managed that. They've sold over 70 million records. Highest following on Twitter ever for a band. Hardly minor.

Maddy70 · 20/10/2024 23:07

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 19/10/2024 22:52

Has anyone taken on board what Cheryl said about all this. He has a 7 year old little boy who really doesn’t need people discussing all this.

This. Please just stop

TalesOfTheGoldMonkey · 20/10/2024 23:23

@FianoMis I am sorry for your loss. And I admire your dignity.

Drinkdrinkduuurink · 20/10/2024 23:36

AlexaSetATimer · 20/10/2024 23:02

Minor? Confused

You do realise he was part of the biggest selling band on the planet at one stage?

They were the first U.K. group to debut at number 1 with their debut album in the US, the biggest music market in the world - not even the Beatles managed that. They've sold over 70 million records. Highest following on Twitter ever for a band. Hardly minor.

As the biggest boyband (and musical act, along with Bieber) of their era they obviously weren't minor, however that US chart record is skewed as it's much easier to chart at 1 now. Sell 120k there and you are number 1. The downloads (as opposed to physical purchases) have also cheapened the charts.

It was next to impossible to go straight in at 1 in the US in the 60s (the first to do it was Elton John in the mid 70s). Charts then (and right up to the early 90s) largely saw singles and albums climb up the charts. The watering down of the charts has seen the reverse happen, as your highest position is now usually what your song/album debuted at, and it then falls down the charts.

Drinkdrinkduuurink · 21/10/2024 00:04

unmemorableusername · 20/10/2024 14:39

What's different now and for the near future is that even 'yesterdays' celebs like Liam were very much still in their fans lives through social media.

His management posted on Snapchat less than an hour before his death!

He had 30m followers on x even though he didn't really use it.

I don't know how many he had on instagram/ Snapchat/ TikTok but it was surely millions.

Also 1D were a global band that the uk hasn't seen since the Beatles. I didn't realise quite how globally successful they were.

They were also expected to reunite some day and do stadium tours again so he wasn't just a star of the past, his fans expected to see him play again.

There are vigils to him across Asia, America, South & Central America & Europe.

What other UK 31 year old would have that?

"Global band the UK hasn't seen since The Beatles"? Behave.

Led Zeppelin, the biggest band of the 70s, multiple diamond selling albums with over 200 million records sold. They also broke The Beatles outdoor attendance record, and broke the Guinness book of Records ticket demand for their one off reunion performance at the 02 in 2009.

Queen, over 300 million records sold, the band with more global songs (4) than any other act (Bohemian Rhapsody, We Will Rock You, We Are the Champions, and Another One Bites the Dust), the first act to play outdoor stadiums in South America, the act who stole the show infront of a global audience (the first concert screened globally) at Live Aid.

The Rolling Stones, seven decades at the top, over 200 million records sold, highest grossing concert tour three times. The only band on the planet that eclipses their status and impact is The Beatles.

Pink Floyd, over 250 million records sold, an album (Dark Side of the Moon) that has spent more weeks on the US album chart than any other (almost 1000 weeks). A reunion (won't happen) would also smash ticket demand records.

I could name at least 20 UK bands who dwarf One Direction in size. And One Direction are not a band, they are a boyband (a vocal group). An act they are to be compared to is the Spice Girls (and with respect to 1D they were not on the scale of the Spice Girls and the girl power phenomenon...only Princess Diana challenged the Spice Girls over who featured on front page newspaper covers).

Yes 1D were a global act, but the UK has had many many global bands (and bands in the truest sense of the word), who were much bigger, than 1D.

Apolloneuro · 21/10/2024 09:34

Does it matter how famous Liam Payne was? He’s dead. It’s not always necessary to prove yourself right.

theDudesmummy · 21/10/2024 10:22

It does matter as that was the actual point of the thread, to say that he was so famous that his funeral would rival Diana's. People are just pointing out why that is completely ridiculous. If it had been a thread saying how sad it is that the guy had died then yes, of course it would be inappropriate and irrelevant to debate how famous or otherwise he was.

MermaidEyes · 21/10/2024 10:34

Will William and Harry be walking along behind?

Apolloneuro · 21/10/2024 11:04

theDudesmummy · 21/10/2024 10:22

It does matter as that was the actual point of the thread, to say that he was so famous that his funeral would rival Diana's. People are just pointing out why that is completely ridiculous. If it had been a thread saying how sad it is that the guy had died then yes, of course it would be inappropriate and irrelevant to debate how famous or otherwise he was.

Yes I see that (and agree it’s a preposterous suggestion) but it’s just a bit unseemly and unnecessary to go to great length to prove that he wasn’t THAT famous.

‘OP, that’s daft’, is enough to say, in my opinion. Otherwise it feels a bit like slagging off a bloke who’s barely cold.

unmemorableusername · 21/10/2024 14:09

@Drinkdrinkduuurink none of them achieved that by the age of 25.

It's like judging take that in 2005 instead of now.

theDudesmummy · 21/10/2024 15:30

It's not "judging", this thread is not about a contest between artists and how well they have done or might have done. It's not about whether Liam Payne would have gone on to become very famous, at the level of Pink Floyd etc, maybe he would, who knows, all kinds of things happen. People are just saying that he wasn't that level of famous when he sadly died. Saying that he wasn't (yet, at any rate) as famous as The Rolling Stones or Pink Floyd isn't a slight on his worth or talent, it's just a fact.

RitaConnors · 21/10/2024 15:34

Apolloneuro · 21/10/2024 09:34

Does it matter how famous Liam Payne was? He’s dead. It’s not always necessary to prove yourself right.

The thread is literally about how famous he was.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 21/10/2024 15:38

You know what I just discovered? He wrote most of 1D’s songs. Along with others but still I thought all of the songs were written for them. Why don’t people concentrate on good stuff he did do?

theDudesmummy · 21/10/2024 19:32

Because the thread isn't about good stuff he did or didn't do. It's about whether he was famous enough to have a funeral rivalling Diana. Which he and pretty much everyone on the planet, incluing people who have done staggering amounts of good stuff, weren't and aren't.

speyside · 02/11/2024 16:58

actually hundreds of thousands fans loved liam so to say they are ghouls is unfair and judgemental they are mourning his death too. Condolences to his family and close friends at such a terrible time.

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