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Anyone awake? Our wonderful old dog has just died.

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YesIJudge · 13/10/2024 00:24

Beside me on the sofa, where he's been every night for the last 12 years. He just slept away an hour ago with his head on my lap. DH is working away and DD is away at uni. DS (20) is inconsolable. I kind of guessed this was coming as he's been a bit 'wandered' for a couple of weeks and very unsettled the last few days. I know some people will think this is pathetic but I took a days holiday yesterday because I was worried about him. I'm completely devastated and I don't know how to tell DD.

He's a chocolate lab and cost us a fortune over the years eating things he shouldn't and generally being a knobhead like most labs are but, my god, how we loved that boy. He is absolutely part of our family. I've wrapped him up and put him in his bed and DH is on his way home. I've had dogs all my life and my parents had dogs before they had us and I really didn't want another one for the very reason that I knew I would have my heart broken all over again.

I don't really expect a reply to this, I know not everyone likes dogs or understands how much they can mean to people. I just know that my children are going to feel the way that I did when we lost our first 'family' dog. The one that came on all the holidays and stole the birthday cakes and chewed the school shoes.

Our boy really was the goodest boy.

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JJJJuniper · 13/10/2024 00:27

I'm so sorryFlowers he sounds gorgeous.

NewName24 · 13/10/2024 00:27

I am sorry. It is so sad, but don't wish you didn't have him. Remember all the daft things he did and all the love he had for you all, and that all of you had for him.

Changingplace · 13/10/2024 00:28

I’m so sorry, sending all my love, sounds like you gave him the absolute best life xx

Marlena1 · 13/10/2024 00:28

I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. They become such a part of the family. He sounds adorable and you sound like a wonderful dog owner who gave him a great life ❤️ 💙

Ruthietuthie · 13/10/2024 00:28

@YesIJudge, I am here. What a beautiful testament to your beloved dog. You must be heart-broken. It is deeply moving that he slipped away while just snoozing on the sofa with his head on your lap, just as he had done for so many years - you gave him such a wonderful life and a peaceful passing. None of us can hope for more than that. You truly loved him. He sounds the most wonderful boy. Sending you much love.

Summerserenite · 13/10/2024 00:30

Awh I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful boy, what a loss to you all and in your home and family. It’s utterly heartbreaking, the loss is immeasurable. Grief is the price we pay for love is true. I’m so glad you took the day off to be with him yesterday and he died in his usual spot surrounded by love, you did right by him 💗

YesIJudge · 13/10/2024 00:31

Oh I'm so grateful we had him really. He brought us so much happiness, I'll never regret him. It's just shit when they leave us isn't it. I'm glad he wasn't alone though and was in his happy comfy place. I've never had a dog that's made me laugh as much as he has and seeing my dcs grow up with him has been an absolute joy.

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Moon30 · 13/10/2024 00:31

I'm so sorry, it's heartbreaking when we lose pets, they become part of the family ❤️❤️

serendippity · 13/10/2024 00:31

I'm so sorry for the loss of your lovely goodest boy. I have a dog I very nearly recently lost (she pulled through but I said goodbye twice) I can imagine the pain you are in. But how utterly lovely he passed away next to you on the sofa, the person he loved the most next to him xxx

ChannelLightVessel · 13/10/2024 00:31

I’m so sorry Flowers You obviously gave him a very happy life, and he loved and trusted you to the end.

Makelikeatreeandleaf · 13/10/2024 00:32

I am so sorry. I'm not a dog person, I'm a cat person. I've lost two and a bit of my heart will never recover. I totally get it. Flowers

Starsignleo · 13/10/2024 00:33

I’m so sorry for your loss, he sounds so loved and at the end he was where he felt safe, next to you, and just drifted off….it’s not pathetic that you took yesterday off, he’s a member of your family and you were in tune with him and how he was feeling….he went the way that all of us would like to go in the end….surrounded by love

AutumnLeaves24 · 13/10/2024 00:33

I'm so sorry ❤️‍🩹

I'm glad your DH is on his way home. Maybe you can both call DD together in the morning(well mid day!)

grief is the price we pay for love. It's a high cost, but worth it for the love of a chocolate lab.

what a beautiful, relaxed way for him to go. No pain & in his own time & no hard choice for you 'deciding when the time is right'

but so sad too. Biggest hugs for your hurting heart xx

Whoknowswhatanymore · 13/10/2024 00:33

So sorry for your loss. To lose a beloved pet is devastating but remember the good times and what a lovely life he had with you all xx

MotherJessAndKittens · 13/10/2024 00:34

So sorry. Very hard losing a precious family pet but you were with him and his last moments were with you and gentle. Take time to grieve and remember the happy times he had with the family 💞

honeyfox · 13/10/2024 00:34

A lovely death for a dog to be honest, safe at home with her loved ones. I'm so desperately sorry for you though. We have a lab cross and no kids, she's everything and we would be desolate without her. Hope your hubby gets home soon x

yamafi · 13/10/2024 00:35

I'm sorry for your loss, it's okay for your family to grieve, this is just a sad part of life. Encourage each other to tell their favourite mad stories about him and give yourselves permission to laugh and cry. It's sounds like he had a very loving home 💛

ToffeeSquirrels · 13/10/2024 00:37

So very sorry for the loss of your boy. But the perfect peaceful passing, cuddled with his Mum surrounded by love 💐

YesIJudge · 13/10/2024 00:38

Such a handsome old man. So gentle and didn't have a bad bone in his body.

Anyone awake? Our wonderful old dog has just died.
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amber763 · 13/10/2024 00:38

I'm so sorry for your loss 💔

Enko · 13/10/2024 00:39

He does sound like the best boy. And it's awful when they leave us. It is good your dh is on his way home. And your good boy was where he was loved to the end. We can't ask for much more than that when they walk over the rainbow bridge.

Enko · 13/10/2024 00:40

He is beautiful @YesIJudge

OhDearWhyAmIFatterly · 13/10/2024 00:40

It sounds like the Goodest boy was in his best place when he closed his eyes for the last time. What love he must have felt from your family in that moment and all his life. And the joy he gave you all in return will never be forgotten xxxx

YesIJudge · 13/10/2024 00:41

DH will be home soon. He's not an emotional man, I've never seen him cry in 24 years together, but he surprised me tonight by being so tearful on the phone. Animals are buggers for getting under your skin I guess.

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Beagleknievel · 13/10/2024 00:41

He looks like a delightful soul (although you can still see the mischief under those glorious white eyebrows). Sleep well pup. Console yourself with the memories and the joy that it is to have spent so many good years together x