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Looks likely a vote on assisted dying is imminent

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fragrantdog · 15/09/2024 23:11

‘A vote to introduce assisted dying across the UK could be imminent after Downing Street reiterated that it would not obstruct a private member’s bill on the issue and indicated it would support an MP in drafting it.’

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Portfun24 · 15/09/2024 23:58

I'm hoping it is passed. After watching my mum die 3.5 months after diagnosis last year who was lucky in some way it was fast compared to my inlaw who has been ill eleven years now and is declining in various different ways and been desperate to go the last two years. We wouldn't let an animal suffer every day in such pain.

pansyposey · 15/09/2024 23:59

I'm another who hopes it is successful.

Having known of too many people who have suffered in their final days/weeks/months. I think the worst was the ovarian cancer (I won't go into detail but it was quite upsetting), and also a friend dying of secondary bone cancer. Absolutely brutal.

AgileGreenSeal · 16/09/2024 00:01

BiscuitlyBoyle · 15/09/2024 23:55

To my mind this is like abortion. If you don’t agree with abortions then don’t have one. Same with assisted dying. If you don’t agree with it then don’t do it.

Abortion was “sold” to the public as being necessary for the really tough cases, catastrophic disability, rape. We were told it would be rare. Now it’s commonplace. Over 250,000 a year in England & Wales.
Euthanasia / assisted suicide will be no different. The concept of the sanctity of human life is largely gone from both the medical sphere and the public consciousness.

NewName24 · 16/09/2024 00:04

The concept of the sanctity of human life is largely gone from both the medical sphere and the public consciousness.

It's not that simple though, is it ?
As without medical treatments, many people would die sooner. You seem happy for people to choose to accept something that will keep them breathing but not 'living' but not something that will release people from pain and lack of any dignity when they are ready to go.

Drawahardline · 16/09/2024 00:05

NewName24 · 16/09/2024 00:04

The concept of the sanctity of human life is largely gone from both the medical sphere and the public consciousness.

It's not that simple though, is it ?
As without medical treatments, many people would die sooner. You seem happy for people to choose to accept something that will keep them breathing but not 'living' but not something that will release people from pain and lack of any dignity when they are ready to go.

Well said

AgileGreenSeal · 16/09/2024 00:08

NewName24 · 16/09/2024 00:04

The concept of the sanctity of human life is largely gone from both the medical sphere and the public consciousness.

It's not that simple though, is it ?
As without medical treatments, many people would die sooner. You seem happy for people to choose to accept something that will keep them breathing but not 'living' but not something that will release people from pain and lack of any dignity when they are ready to go.

I think people should absolutely be released from pain and afforded all the dignity to which they are entitled as human beings. I don’t agree that this is best achieved by killing them.

poppyzbrite4 · 16/09/2024 00:08

NewName24 · 16/09/2024 00:04

The concept of the sanctity of human life is largely gone from both the medical sphere and the public consciousness.

It's not that simple though, is it ?
As without medical treatments, many people would die sooner. You seem happy for people to choose to accept something that will keep them breathing but not 'living' but not something that will release people from pain and lack of any dignity when they are ready to go.

That's very naive. What about consent for example? Do you think we should euthanasise someone with dementia without the capacity to consent?

How about someone suicidal? Should we euthanasise those who wish to take their lives but are perfectly healthy? What about those who are elderly and feel like they are a burden?

What about those pressurised to be euthanised because their family want their property?

Just4thisthreadtoday · 16/09/2024 00:11

ohfourfoxache · 15/09/2024 23:29

Lost my mum at the end of August. Her funeral is next week

Mercifully it was “quick”, only 4 days of actively dying. But I know that if she could have chosen to end it earlier then she would have. In her words, she wanted it to be over

I was pro assisted dying previously, and my feelings have only strengthened

@ohfourfoxache

im sorry 💐🤗

I think there are so many complications. England is not filling me with confidence. I'm more now is the to be doing this.

AnywhereAnyoneAnyTime · 16/09/2024 00:19

In principle I agree but it’s like any law, once it’s been passed it’s a lot easier to tweak it. Just look at what’s happened in Canada. On here the other day when someone asked what people would change to save money someone suggested we need to legalise euthanasia as old people’s health was costing too much,and multiple posters agreed.

UnwantedOpinionBelow · 16/09/2024 00:24

My terminal dad's statements before death 'you wouldn't treat an animal like this', 'please just shoot me'.

About time we gave people the right to decide, seeing someone have to suffer so much really made my mind up on assisted dying and I am all for it.

No33 · 16/09/2024 00:24

I'm am likely to be diagnosed with a life limiting illness.

I hope this is passed to support my family in doing the right thing, when I feel it's my time.

SleepGoalsJumped · 16/09/2024 00:30

BigWiggg · 15/09/2024 23:45

No idea what’s going on in Canada. Regardless, there should be an option in certain situations here.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/25/canada-assisted-dying-laws-in-spotlight-as-expansion-paused-again

The Canadian setup is such that there is some evidence of people being inappropriately signposted towards euthanasia if the aren't getting the support they need to manage non-fatal chronic conditions/disabilities etc or if they have been made to feel that their continued life is a burden.

I hope we can agree that euthanasia should never be actively chosen as the easy or cheap option if staying alive could be bearable or even enjoyable with appropriate treatment and support. It should only be available when being alive is unbearable.

ilovesooty · 16/09/2024 00:50

Good. Bring it on.

Nat6999 · 16/09/2024 01:03

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distractmeagain · 16/09/2024 01:05

Good... its about time! After having to watch my husband slowly die in front of me and the children for 16 weeks was the most horrific thing a person can be expected to do, and i know in those last few weeks, he wished it over!

they put animals out of their misery without a second glance.. so why not humans!

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 16/09/2024 01:48

Thank goodness. I have maybe a year left as cancer treatment hasn't worked. That 12 months won't go in quickly enough given the pain I'm currently in.

Sparklfairy · 16/09/2024 02:05

The Canadian setup is such that there is some evidence of people being inappropriately signposted towards euthanasia if the aren't getting the support they need to manage non-fatal chronic conditions/disabilities etc or if they have been made to feel that their continued life is a burden.

Call me a cynic, but my first thought when I saw labour pushing this was it would 1) save money for the NHS, and 2) save money on state pensions.

I don't want to see anyone suffer when animals are treated with more care and dignity. My grandmother had MS for over 30 years and had no life at all. My other grandmother had dementia. I don't disagree with assisted dying but I question the true political motives.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/09/2024 03:44

poppyzbrite4 · 15/09/2024 23:37

This could go on all day. I'll move things along.

Do you agree with what's happened in Canada since they introduced assisted dying? (Which was completely foreseeable)

Canada have made a mess of introducing Assisted Dying, but this is a problem the making of which rests with Canadian legislators.

Assisted Dying is also in practice in Oregon, Washington, California, Netherlands, Luxembourg, Belgium, Switzerland, New Zealand, Australia, and Colombia

Just because one country has made a mess of things doesn't mean the idea itself is inherently flawed.

I remain 100% in favour of the introduction of AD in the UK.

cuckooooooo · 16/09/2024 03:55

Labour have been desperate to kill off the elderly. The heating allowance being stopped isn't quick enough so assisted dying should do it.

cuckooooooo · 16/09/2024 03:57

You can guarantee the uk will make a pigs ear out of it too

Inspireme2 · 16/09/2024 03:59

We have it in Nz
Who the has a right to tell anyone they can not stop living with any terminal illness and carry on.
It's hardly a choice is it to want to live when your better off not being alive.
Why are poms so small minded about so much?!

cuckooooooo · 16/09/2024 04:36

Inspireme2 · 16/09/2024 03:59

We have it in Nz
Who the has a right to tell anyone they can not stop living with any terminal illness and carry on.
It's hardly a choice is it to want to live when your better off not being alive.
Why are poms so small minded about so much?!

Why are you so xenophobic?

Stirmish · 16/09/2024 05:19

About bloody time

rwalker · 16/09/2024 05:28

poppyzbrite4 · 15/09/2024 23:23

Let's hope common sense prevails and it doesn't get passed.

I can only presume you haven’t had to watch a loved one suffer a long lingering painful death with no quality of life and dignity

YellowComb · 16/09/2024 05:32

I have supported, ethically, this for many many years however I have now changed my mind.

I don't trust the Government any more. I don't trust the NHS any more. There are far too many people with other agendas now (look at the trans cult for example). Look at what's happening in Canada. Homeless people being encouraged to take this option. Disabled people being encouraged.

Look how caring the Government is with pensioners just now. Their policies are going to kill the poor, elderly.

It's being "rushed through" for a reason.

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