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Keir Starmer "not naming my children"

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Misthios · 08/09/2024 09:35

Respect his stance not to allow pictures of his kids, fair enough, that is the decision he and his wife have made.

But the whole "i'm not publicly naming them" - you'd think as a former lawyer he'd know birth records are public record and anyone can find out in 30 seconds? So not the big secret he thinks it is?

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Hallamlass · 08/09/2024 12:50

No, @MaryQueenofScots14 .
Your examples are quite different. Sunak's wealth? Johnson's behaviour? Fair enough. They were adults, elected to office.
That is not the same as teenage children of the PM.
Also, why repeat rumours about the children?. It's really not necessary.

MaryQueenofScots14 · 08/09/2024 12:50

I see I have been deleted, for the first time ever . . .

its very difficult to have a polite exchange of views these days!

AntarcticOcean · 08/09/2024 12:51

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MayaPinion · 08/09/2024 12:55

Why the fuck do you want to know what Starmer’s kids are called, you weirdo?

Apolloneuro · 08/09/2024 12:56

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What does it say about you that you’d abuse a child’s privacy to score a point? Look in the mirror and ask yourself.

What’s your name? What are your children’s names?

AntarcticOcean · 08/09/2024 12:57

@MayaPinion i didn’t until I saw this thread 🤣 how the fuck does it make me a weirdo, wind your neck in love! I’m not trying to look inside their house! Bit like knowing what the beckhams kids are called… curiosity. Although as I said before this thread I had 0 curiosity. 😂

myrtleWilson · 08/09/2024 12:58

slow hand clap for antarctic ocean, what boorish behaviour.

Notonthestairs · 08/09/2024 12:58

Can anyone name Truss's children? Why would you want to?

What else do you think its your right to know? Their eating habits (they might be obese, maybe that influences NHS policy), do they smoke or vape? Who do they follow on Insta? What A levels are they studying? (maybe more money will be put into Art or PE or whatever the Starmer children like.) The list could be endless.

AntarcticOcean · 08/09/2024 12:58

@Apolloneuro

What does it say about you that you’d abuse a child’s privacy to score a point? Look in the mirror and ask yourself.

🤣🤣🤣 fucking hell is everyone alright today?

AntarcticOcean · 08/09/2024 12:59

Jesus I’m out. You’ve all lost the plot x

Eastie77Returns · 08/09/2024 13:00

If he talked about his kids he’d be criticised “why is he pushing them into the public eye? Poor kids, wahhhh”

He refuses to name or his kids photographed “why is he being so secretive? He’s just making them a target for people who be determined to find out who they are. Poor kids wahhhh”

Apolloneuro · 08/09/2024 13:00

The irony of adults, posting ANONYMOUSLY, thinking they’ve got the right to know what a public figure’s children are called. Totally irrelevant to the man’s job.

Apolloneuro · 08/09/2024 13:02

AntarcticOcean · 08/09/2024 12:59

Jesus I’m out. You’ve all lost the plot x

But you haven’t told us what your children’s names are. I’m really curious now.

Westfacing · 08/09/2024 13:05

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I would never of cared...

You should spend your spare time improving your English

BeachParty · 08/09/2024 13:07

Apolloneuro · 08/09/2024 13:02

But you haven’t told us what your children’s names are. I’m really curious now.

This, "I wouldn't have cared before this thread" but I do now". I'm curious. Come on, @AntarcticOcean
(Funny how you can see behaviour that's losing the plot when it's others doing it to you, eh 🙄)
Would you be happy with someone finding out your family and posting on here?
They're just curious, after all 🙄

bridgetreilly · 08/09/2024 13:13

Misthios · 08/09/2024 09:59

As I have said before I had never heard that before, so no.

It was more the "we keep that private" which jarred with me, I was thinking well no, you choose not to disclose and that's not the same thing. Many people are shocked just how easy it is to find details of marriage/birth/death with full names, order up certificates should you wish to do so.

I don’t think you fully understand what ‘private’ means. People who choose to go searching can find out any number of private things. But if they do so, they have breached a person’s privacy (possibly, though not necessarily, illegally). So don’t do it!

Keeping things secret so that no one could find out if they tried is very different, and in this case, impossible.

TheBers2024 · 08/09/2024 13:16

Why are people asking for kids names on an anonymous site? Keir or his wife could be on here and wouldn't be expected to give their names or their kids. Completely different to being in the public eye.

I'm sure Keir wouldn't let them get away with joyriding or dealing drugs or whatever but he could in theory. It doesn't sit right that he can afford his children huge privilege but there's no responsibility that this isn't misused.

bridgetreilly · 08/09/2024 13:18

Also, things being in the public interest =/= things the public are interested in. There is no public benefit from us knowing these children’s names, whether you are interested or not.

Hallamlass · 08/09/2024 13:19

AntarcticOcean · 08/09/2024 12:59

Jesus I’m out. You’ve all lost the plot x

Sweet that you ended with a kiss, though.

Waffle78 · 08/09/2024 13:30

It's non of our business. A lot of people in the public eye don't want their DC named or pictures in the media. They have a right to privacy and not to be photographed for people to tear them to shreds whenever they are seen in public just living day to day life like the rest of us.

AlwaysSometimesRarelyNever · 08/09/2024 13:31

I respect KS for taking this stance, and I am not a fan of his.

All children deserve the space to grow and develop away from an extremely critical public eye.

Loub1987 · 08/09/2024 13:34

I respect this decision, the children didn’t choose to be politicians. While yes, anyone can find out if he doesn’t reveal their names then I imagine they will appear less in any media.

Cant see why anyone would to know about politicians children. It’s irrelevant. I’m not a particular fan of Keir Stammer, although, I have growing respect.

OrdsallChord · 08/09/2024 13:34

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Startingagainandagain · 08/09/2024 13:37

Why do you care about knowing what their names are?

He is perfectly right not to want to bring his kids in the spotlight and to want to keep everything about them private.

Miffylou · 08/09/2024 13:52

senua · 08/09/2024 10:50

"I'm not publicly naming them"
It's a weird thing to say. The logical thing is to say "I want to keep my children out of the spotlight and be obliged if you'd respect that".

He should have made a blanket statement, not only make a point about names. It speaks volumes.

"Speaks volumes"? It doesn’t speak anything to me except that he wants to avoid their names being bandied around by the press and the public. Good for him.