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What has happened to Amanda Owen???

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GorgeousTulips · 05/09/2024 09:15

Trying to read an article behind a paywall . In the photo she looks absolutely gaunt. Can anyone tell me the gist of the article? It’s Clive and Amanda talking about how fame ruined their marriage.

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0BonneMaman0 · 06/09/2024 07:50

Prettyinorange · 05/09/2024 10:01

How do you select reader ?

Does this work on all sites?

SirChenjins · 06/09/2024 08:13

MouseofCommons · 05/09/2024 17:05

Charles was 33 I think and Diana was dreadfully young at 20. Lots of people thought the age gap was not OK. (I was 8 and remember my mum tutting about it).

I think it was 32 - but yes, I definitely remember there was a lot of less than positive talk about the age gap, and the fact they had really only met a handful of times before they got married. Add Camilla into the mix and it was never going to end well.

user47 · 06/09/2024 09:05

I know this family well and they need time to regroup and look after each other. Clive is not a grim man. Amanda is a very complex woman, and not what you see on the show. She has an unquenchable thirst for love and attention - and she cannot help herself some of the time. They all need to be left alone imo.

Disturbia81 · 06/09/2024 09:42

OrangeJeans · 06/09/2024 00:22

It appears she has been vilified in the press and that has caused weight loss. It literally days so in the article, so no idea why people are suggesting slimming drugs Hmm

She still looks stunning, and appears to have a good relationship with Clive now. I wish them the best - it would have been a hard transition from farming remotely, to all the attention and press.

To say she looks stunning is dangerous, she looks like a skeleton sat on that gate.

Disturbia81 · 06/09/2024 09:44

GorgeousTulips · 05/09/2024 16:34

Charles was late thirties when he married Diana. Would you say the same about that?

Yep, gross.

Disturbia81 · 06/09/2024 09:45

user47 · 06/09/2024 09:05

I know this family well and they need time to regroup and look after each other. Clive is not a grim man. Amanda is a very complex woman, and not what you see on the show. She has an unquenchable thirst for love and attention - and she cannot help herself some of the time. They all need to be left alone imo.

A 40 year old man who goes with a 21 yr old woman is the definition of grim. Thank god society is changing its views on age gaps.

merrymaryquitecontrary · 06/09/2024 10:04

user47 · 06/09/2024 09:05

I know this family well and they need time to regroup and look after each other. Clive is not a grim man. Amanda is a very complex woman, and not what you see on the show. She has an unquenchable thirst for love and attention - and she cannot help herself some of the time. They all need to be left alone imo.

I always got the impression that Amanda was very attention seeking. She never came across as maternal at all, and seemed to think Raven should look after them. I read an article once by Clive's daughter from his first marriage and she said that Amanda ruined the relationship between her and her dad. Amanda was in desperate need to constantly be the centre of attention, and Clive was completely besotted with her and did whatever she wanted. They live 20 minutes apart and Clive hasn't had a relationship with his dgc. There were a few scenes in the series where you could see the tension between Amanda and Raven even, Amanda wanted to be front and centre all the time.
What I'd really love to know is how the hell either of them have the time to date other people. A working farm and 9 kids surely would knacker anyone, and Clive is in his 70s!

They all need to be left alone imo

For the sake of their kids, at the very least, that would make sense. But here they are, on every tabloid advertising their new show. Clive can't have hated it that much if he's doing another one?

Citrusandginger · 06/09/2024 10:09

GorgeousTulips · 05/09/2024 16:34

Charles was late thirties when he married Diana. Would you say the same about that?

Yes. And I did at the time. As did many people.

Citrusandginger · 06/09/2024 10:16

Amanda is a very complex woman, and not what you see on the show. She has an unquenchable thirst for love and attention - and she cannot help herself some of the time.

A 21 year old woman at the time she got together with 40 year old Clive. Naughty Amanda.

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GorgeousTulips · 06/09/2024 11:09

merrymaryquitecontrary · 06/09/2024 10:04

I always got the impression that Amanda was very attention seeking. She never came across as maternal at all, and seemed to think Raven should look after them. I read an article once by Clive's daughter from his first marriage and she said that Amanda ruined the relationship between her and her dad. Amanda was in desperate need to constantly be the centre of attention, and Clive was completely besotted with her and did whatever she wanted. They live 20 minutes apart and Clive hasn't had a relationship with his dgc. There were a few scenes in the series where you could see the tension between Amanda and Raven even, Amanda wanted to be front and centre all the time.
What I'd really love to know is how the hell either of them have the time to date other people. A working farm and 9 kids surely would knacker anyone, and Clive is in his 70s!

They all need to be left alone imo

For the sake of their kids, at the very least, that would make sense. But here they are, on every tabloid advertising their new show. Clive can't have hated it that much if he's doing another one?

Edited

Yes I agree with that and wonder how they got time to date too! I felt sorry for Raven, she seemed a bit pushed aside and expected to look after the younger children. Reuben was expected to look after them too when she wasn’t around.

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Boowaoshah · 06/09/2024 12:31

This is sad, very sad for the older ones to see their mum unwell, I hope she recovers. It’s a difficult time without being in the public eye, divorce , menopause, toddlers , teens ,university, a farm… exhausting. Presumably she’s rich enough now to access some effective help, let’s hope she’s able to .

Dogondoolally · 05/10/2024 15:38

I know it’s an old post but hey ho they’re back on the telly again! Didn’t need that much of a break after all 😂

GorgeousTulips · 05/10/2024 20:43

They clearly haven’t learned their lesson. She looks like a completely different woman. Neither of them look happy at all. What a shame.

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Tomorrowisyesterday · 14/10/2024 22:12

Have read the whole thread and googled them before realising it isn't Clive Owen the hunky (to me) actor

Bixterret · 29/10/2024 20:09

Coming late to this thread I've just started watching their new programme. A is extremely thin, is she ill?

An older man marrying younger, reading earlier posts say it's grim? I disagree, and don't see anything wrong with two consenting adults as they both are.

ladygindiva · 29/10/2024 20:15

Tomorrowisyesterday · 14/10/2024 22:12

Have read the whole thread and googled them before realising it isn't Clive Owen the hunky (to me) actor

I wouldn't kick him out of bed either . The actor that is.

BirthdayRainbow · 29/10/2024 20:24

Thank you for this. I've read it and all I can say is I'll never assume anything I read is true anymore. They both sound like they are doing their best. Clive has taken responsibility for his actions. Both should have communicated better.

Drivingoverlemons · 29/10/2024 20:44

Poor Amanda!

Ref Clive, it’s a large age gap but let’s be fair to him, 21 is not a teenager.

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