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If we suddenly had to go into a 3 month lockdown again, how would you feel?

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LaurieFairyCake · 15/08/2024 22:52

I think people would definitely comply. If it was Mpox I would want a smallpox vaccine as it's somewhat effective.

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Caravaggiouch · 16/08/2024 18:45

I wouldn’t comply again. While others were having a jolly on furlough in the sun, that was categorically not my experience and it was an incredibly difficult time for me and my family.

Movingon2024 · 16/08/2024 18:47

Absolutely would not comply.

too much mental health and economic damage.

JenniferBooth · 16/08/2024 19:26

Differentstarts · 16/08/2024 10:38

This is absolutely true even essential workers wouldn't go to work as fear of bringing it home to their children. Although there seems to be a lot on here who would still plan on going everywhere so they perhaps would still go to work Although I think the reality of their children and grandchildren dying would change that. If it got that bad which let's be realistic it won't it would be the army dropping of food parcels and rationing.

I bet the child free would have to step up Cant see them doing so after the way they are treated though.

pambeesleyhalpert · 16/08/2024 19:37

I don't think people would now. I didn't have children before. I have 2 now and would loose my mind

Purplturpl · 16/08/2024 19:40

Apparently the r value of mpox is about two to three. Which is really quite high. For every one person infected , up to three more will catch it. That’s pretty high rate it will spread

JenniferBooth · 16/08/2024 19:44

WearyAuldWumman · 16/08/2024 12:42

I'm an arsehole then.

The police attended my husband's death because - according to them - it was an "unexpected death at home".

They couldn't speak to our GP straight away because it happened during the night.

I believe that when they interviewed my GP, she tore them a new arsehole. I had explained about his medical conditions and his hospital stay, but they wouldn't accept that he was "under the care of a doctor". (She told them he was.)

They didn't want me to kiss him goodbye.

Because I have no immediate family of my own, I was left sitting in the house on my own.

Someone else of my acquaintance had a similar experience though - thank God - she has children and grandchildren and was in a bubble with her son's household.

Her husband died at home of cancer. She phoned her son in hysterics.

Their GP had attended had issued the death certificate and her husband had been taken away by the local undertaker. The police then arrived and berated her for having phoned the undertaker. They used the "unexpected death" line on her.

It was as if they were trying to catch ordinary people out.

I complied with ever regulation last time. I'm not sure that I would again.

Im so so sorry for your loss and your friends loss I should think police community relations are in the toilet in some areas after experiences like these.

JenniferBooth · 16/08/2024 19:50

AngelusBell · 16/08/2024 13:14

I was really scared that day. I carried on until July and just kept it out of my mind but have WFH since. I feel for NHS and supermarket staff who couldn’t lock down, it must have had a lasting impact on them.

Supermarket staff were another group who were treated like shit on here if they couldnt wear masks. When people couldnt understand that pushing pallets around and stacking shelves is damn sweaty and uncomfortable wearing a mask And posters claiming to be NHS staff who came on here and berated them for not wearing them got the hump when it was pointed out that THEY had chosen a profession that included mask wear. Supermarket staff hadnt!!!

Bodeganights · 16/08/2024 19:54

XenoBitch · 15/08/2024 23:40

For the people that loved lockdowns, and would welcome another... why not just live life that way anyway, and let the people who did not share your lockdown experience go on and live theirs...

Well the furlough scheme that brought money in was needed.
Without that 70% pay I'm scuppered. If someone wants to pay me the same now, I'll happily take 3 months off. And I'm on a term time contract.

A PP mentioned benefits should have been enough, but that still comes out of the same purse, government taxes.

Bloody loved the first lockdown, had an absolute blast on my own.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 16/08/2024 20:18

Purplturpl · 16/08/2024 19:40

Apparently the r value of mpox is about two to three. Which is really quite high. For every one person infected , up to three more will catch it. That’s pretty high rate it will spread

That is lower than the R value for smallpox, outbreaks of which are easily contained in developed economies.

BurntBroccoli · 16/08/2024 20:43

pambeesleyhalpert · 16/08/2024 19:37

I don't think people would now. I didn't have children before. I have 2 now and would loose my mind

Imagine having to look after them AND work from home. One of my poor colleagues was so stressed when this happened. I could hear her kids crying in the background when she was on Skype calls and her having to leave the meeting several times.
Plus not being able to leave your house more than once a day. It was really cruel.

Chocolateorange22 · 16/08/2024 20:47

I don't see why we would need to lock down unless I'm completely missing the point? There is a vaccine so jab those most vulnerable first and gradually spread it out amongst everyone like we did we covid surely?

We had to lock down for about 18 months as DH is on immunosuppressants after a transplant. If he was vaccinated early on then I don't understand why myself and the kids would need to isolate.

The difference with covid over MPOX is that I e didn't know how to stop it and didn't have a vaccine to slow it down and protect the NHS/vulnerable people.

TheBossOfMe · 16/08/2024 20:50

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 16/08/2024 11:54

I loved lockdowns, and 2 of my 3 DCs did too. Only the oldest one complained and tried to break the rules whenever he had the chance. Weirdly he was the only one then keen to get the vaccine but I guess because that meant he could get back to normal.

If we locked down again, I’d love it, I have some health issues and while I wasn’t scared for my health I did fully appreciate being able to take it easy for several months and get paid for it! Bring it on as far as I’m concerned. And yes I was ‘lucky’ not to know anyone severely affected by Covid or to be isolated etc as all my family are already dead. I would however invite my BF to come and live with me as he would struggle on his own.

The irony of saying you’d welcome it but also yay that your boyfriend has you to invite him to live with you and fuck all the people who are on their own who don’t have someone to do that. I don’t often eye roll but, really? What an absolute case of “I’m all right, Jack”.

Mickey79 · 16/08/2024 20:52

I wouldn’t do it.

OpalBird · 16/08/2024 21:38

AngelusBell · 16/08/2024 16:16

You said you didn’t have any contact with children but now you do 🤷‍♀️

Are your children going to be forever under 18 are they?

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 21:42

@XenoBitch I do live like that anyway. That's why the lockdown didn't really change my life in any way. I probably leave the house once a month if that. I'm a proper home bird.

WearyAuldWumman · 16/08/2024 21:50

JenniferBooth · 16/08/2024 19:44

Im so so sorry for your loss and your friends loss I should think police community relations are in the toilet in some areas after experiences like these.

They definitely are. I recently started to attend a Bereavement Café and told the organiser about what had happened. She told me that attempts are being made to organise bereavement training for the local police.

namechangeforthisi · 16/08/2024 21:51

I would want my son out of school if it happened again

AngelusBell · 16/08/2024 22:05

OpalBird · 16/08/2024 21:38

Are your children going to be forever under 18 are they?

No, but I think about other people with young children. It’s a different situation here than in countries like DRC - most young children have had all their vaccines so their immunity is strong to start with, especially if they’re adequately nourished.

Abracadabra12345 · 16/08/2024 22:05

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 15/08/2024 23:50

I'd be devastated if we had to lock down again. But i would comply. We only have one experience of the covid pandemic, we know the vast negative consequences of a lock down. We don't know the negative consequence of a failure to lock down. Who knows how many more of us would be dead or seriously ill if we had just carried on. I think some people still don't get how serious the threat was. There was a reason every leader in the world agreed to lockdown, I don't think there has ever been such unity on any issue in the past.

We do know the results of failure to lock down - Sweden:

g. However, the available data on excess all-cause mortality rates indicate that Sweden experienced fewer deaths per population unit during the pandemic (2020–2022) than most high-income countries and was comparable to neighboring Nordic countries through the pandemic. An open, objective scientific dialogue is essential for learning and preparing for future outbreaks.

XenoBitch · 16/08/2024 22:11

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 21:42

@XenoBitch I do live like that anyway. That's why the lockdown didn't really change my life in any way. I probably leave the house once a month if that. I'm a proper home bird.

OK to stay at home, but still expect delivery drivers etc to come to you.

WhiteButtonMoon · 16/08/2024 22:13

colourfulchinadolls · 16/08/2024 06:04

So you think millions of people whose jobs can't be done from home should have just had no income for months?

It's not their fault they couldn't work!

What a stupid comment.

37 people have agreed with me.

OpalBird · 16/08/2024 22:14

AngelusBell · 16/08/2024 22:05

No, but I think about other people with young children. It’s a different situation here than in countries like DRC - most young children have had all their vaccines so their immunity is strong to start with, especially if they’re adequately nourished.

I have found that people don't care about the needs of my immune suppressed family when it comes to being considerate about sicknesses. Their little darlings coughing all over the place in public places, not caring who they put in hospital or incapacitate for weeks. I won't deliberate go near children but I will likewise do what is best for me and mine, like everyone else does. My son will not handle another lock down and those are the health needs I'll be acting on. Other people can deal with keeping their own kids safe, like I have to as well.

Abracadabra12345 · 16/08/2024 22:21

BeethovenNinth · 16/08/2024 07:12

Lockdown has ruined my eldest child’s life. She is now 14. I remain incredibly angry and sad.

I'm so sorry to hear this and thank you for putting across a different view. All those who loved furlough and loved lockdown in their nice big gardens and lots of nice walks nearby, while they lounged in the unseasonably hot spring....While others had to slave away in key worker jobs, including packing groceries for those lounging at home.

The Council afterwards reported their surprise at the sharp rise in noise complaints during lockdown because that was the other reality. Forced to live at close quarters with no escape from noisy neighbours in their little gardens and selfish behaviour, kids not being educated and bored, parents struggling to work while looking after their children, babies and toddlers missing developmental milestones, elderly people trapped and people dying in hospital alone and frightened..The list goes on.

Still, as long as your own lockdown was nice

Abracadabra12345 · 16/08/2024 22:24

@AreYouVeryAnti Thank you, I agree with all you've said here

Abracadabra12345 · 16/08/2024 22:28

Iheartmysmart · 16/08/2024 08:21

Personally I wouldn’t comply. Lockdown nearly broke me last time.

Wonder if opinions would differ if all the NMW wage people who kept the country going last time got to stay home and all those who had a wonderful time baking banana bread and sitting in the garden had to cover their jobs.

Yes!!!!!👏

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