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Bloody weather

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DappledThings · 31/07/2024 15:12

I'm an unapologetic heat hater. Up till last couple of weeks I was quite happy. I was told off on one thread for not being miserable and claiming it had been a "lovely summer so far". But it had to me, bit wet, a few dry days, some with sunny spell but regular cloud cover and nothing over about 21. Lovely.

Now we are on holiday in a beautiful part of the New Forest and it's roasting. 29 degrees, full sun and we can't even get out to the forest to walk after about 9.30 because it's dangerous for the dog. We went yesterday for about half an hour after 4.30 in full shade the whole time and that felt like too much for her. All the lovely walks we had planned have had to be cancelled. We're spending way more time hanging about the accommodation than we would if it was raining.

I know the forecast can't be trusted but the 10 day one as soon as it was available was saying consistently 22ish and lots of cloud cover which would have been great.

Meant to break and rain tomorrow. Fingers crossed it does and we get the last two days of our week back.

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Mondaysocial · 31/07/2024 15:52

RampantIvy · 31/07/2024 15:47

While I love the heat I totally get your concerns about the dog. At least you are a responsible dog owner.

Maybe consider the lake district or Scotland for next year?

Northumbria is lovely. It’s my favorite place in the world.

DappledThings · 31/07/2024 15:53

Fullyflavoured · 31/07/2024 15:47

It might get hot in the summer shocker.

The forecast for where we are next week is this. Which was just as likely for this week. Weather in the UK is always unpredictable and this 29 degree heatwave is no more likely than a nice 21 with showers.

Bloody weather
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DappledThings · 31/07/2024 15:57

Maybe posting on MN was the thing to do; since then it's started clouding over and the wind is picking up - hurrah!

But my phone just gave me a warning saying it needs to cool down so I'd better let it.

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RampantIvy · 31/07/2024 16:01

Mondaysocial · 31/07/2024 15:52

Northumbria is lovely. It’s my favorite place in the world.

Northumberland.

DH is from there and no self respecting Northumbrian ever calls it Northumbria 😁

yasminandtheredrose · 31/07/2024 16:08

I hate summer! I hate the heat! I hate places being so busy during summer and I hate not getting much sleep due to the heat. I've always been a winter cozy person even as a child. I don't care if I sound miserable to others! I like what I like and that's that

Flumpie59 · 31/07/2024 16:11

I'm with you on this! I absolutely hate summer/sun/heat, always have and always will. Can't deal with it at all.

I love winter!

SirChenjins · 31/07/2024 16:12

Be grateful for the warm weather - farmers in the UK have really struggled with months upon months of rain. Having to rely on food and feed imports is not good.

Irishdragon · 31/07/2024 16:15

The weather can’t win here, too hot , too cold , too wet 😂

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 31/07/2024 16:20

YabaJaba · 31/07/2024 15:23

Miserable lot. We get such few warm sunny days, enjoy it! ☀️

This! ^ Bloody mood hoovers. Hmm

Probably the same ones who were whining about it being sooooooooo COLD a few months back, having to turn their heating on, and wishing for some nice weather 'so the kids can go out and play' and so they can get out for walks and day trips. You just KNOW it's the same moany feckers who hated the cold, and whinged about all the RAIN. Ya know, the ones who can moan for England, and are never happy! Wink

IT'S JULY! It's SUMMER. ☀ NEWSFLASH!!! It's probably going to be hot! Get a grip FFS! Hmm Go for a walk, sunbathe, go for a swim, go to the beach, do ANYTHING - but stop bloody moaning.

Do you actually realise how utterly pathetic you sound complaining about 'heat' and 'the sun' in JULY?! Give your head a wobble!

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 31/07/2024 16:22

Irishdragon · 31/07/2024 16:15

The weather can’t win here, too hot , too cold , too wet 😂

I know right. Some people are pathetic aren't they? As I said, how ridiculous do people sound griping about HEAT, and 'the sun being out' in fecking JULY! Get a grip FFS! 😆

tillyandmilly · 31/07/2024 16:23

I was happy with 21 degrees - now being 29 I have been having constant heat migraines together with the fact I can’t sleep as too hot even with a fan - I am in a top floor flat - roll on cooler temperatures!

Starlight1979 · 31/07/2024 16:24

@DappledThings I have had dogs all my life and currently have two, large working breeds. One is thick coated, one shaggy coated.

I promise they will not die if you take them out during the day! The warnings are more for people who walk their dogs on hot pavements or leave them in cars with the windows closed!

Just make sure you have plenty of water (take a pop up bowl out), access to shade (doesn't matter if it's hot - just as long as it's not direct sunlight) and rivers and streams if possible for them to paddle in.

One of my dogs is worked occasionally so will spend the whole day out on the moorland in these temperatures! Both of them have been up mountains in the middle of summer, been on holiday to France / Spain with us and not once have we ever had a problem.

We were in Greece this year and there were dogs out and about being walked by the locals in almost 40 degree heat!

RampantIvy · 31/07/2024 16:24

The Week ahead for us (edge of Pennines)

Bloody weather
Starlight1979 · 31/07/2024 16:27

Starlight1979 · 31/07/2024 16:24

@DappledThings I have had dogs all my life and currently have two, large working breeds. One is thick coated, one shaggy coated.

I promise they will not die if you take them out during the day! The warnings are more for people who walk their dogs on hot pavements or leave them in cars with the windows closed!

Just make sure you have plenty of water (take a pop up bowl out), access to shade (doesn't matter if it's hot - just as long as it's not direct sunlight) and rivers and streams if possible for them to paddle in.

One of my dogs is worked occasionally so will spend the whole day out on the moorland in these temperatures! Both of them have been up mountains in the middle of summer, been on holiday to France / Spain with us and not once have we ever had a problem.

We were in Greece this year and there were dogs out and about being walked by the locals in almost 40 degree heat!

Sorry should have said, unless you have a dog that struggles to breathe anyway (pug, French Bulldog) in which case yeah they can't handle it....

1984Winston · 31/07/2024 16:29

I hate the heat too, can't do anything! Also dogs can and do die in this heat, not just short nosed dogs, saw many die when it was cooler than this (ex vet nurse) it's not worth the risk

socks1107 · 31/07/2024 16:31

I don't look forward to the heat but it's July, we've had a miserable start to summer and live in the uk where it's changeable. The south is always warmer so I'm not sure what you expected booking in July /august

Oldfatandfrumpy · 31/07/2024 16:32

YabaJaba · 31/07/2024 15:23

Miserable lot. We get such few warm sunny days, enjoy it! ☀️

We seem to go from one extreme to the other though.

Oh to have a few sunny days of 24/25 rather than this disgusting muggy heat that just makes you feel sticky, tired and thoroughly fed up due to lack of sleep. It doesn't even get much cooler at night

BlibBlabBlob · 31/07/2024 16:37

Another heat-hater here. The issue with heat, as opposed to any other 'bad' weather, is that in the UK we are just not set up to cope with it.

If it rains, stay inside or wear a raincoat or use an umbrella or whatever.

If it's cold, stick on a big jumper and get under a blanket or thick duvet or (if going outside) put on a massive coat, scarf, gloves, hat etc. And/or turn on the heating: most of us are lucky enough to live in houses with at least vaguely functional heating systems.

What we DON'T have is the infrastructure to cope with heat. Our houses get hot, and there's no way to cool them down. Going outside doesn't help if the sun is blazing down. Many of us don't work in air-conditioned offices/shops etc, so going to work is no respite either. We lie in 30 degree bedrooms that won't cool down even overnight, sleeping naked under thin sheets, except we're not sleeping because IT'S TOO FUCKING HOT. And then we're exhausted, and the next day of oppressive heat is too much to bear.

Yes, some of us like the heat. Some of us don't easily overheat. But the rest of us - including the perimenopausal, the overweight, those on meds that make them heat sensitive... well it just becomes unbearable very easily.

If all of our houses and workplaces had basic air conditioning systems, in the same way that all of our houses have at least basic heating systems, summer would be much less difficult and far more enjoyable!

Oh, and somewhere to exercise dogs without them overheating would be great... indoor air-conditioned dog parks, maybe? Because when you're already massively struggling to cope and already getting bugger all decent sleep, having to take an energetic young dog out at 06:00 and 23:00 is an absolute killer. You can do a gentle doggy walk at 08:00 and 20:00, but if your dog needs to RUN then you have to basically do it at night. 🤣 Not that there's much night, because it's still light outside at bedtime and gets light long before you want to be awake!

Roll on autumn, and winter... I honestly prefer cold, rain, wind and darkness over the current weather. I think I need to move to the northernmost part of Scotland (although then the short nights and never-ending daylight would be even worse... sigh.)

ClassicBBQ · 31/07/2024 16:41

I live near the coast and don't like this weather either because the dog can't go out and I feel bad leaving him alone at home all day. It's hot, but if the English weather is anything to go by it shouldn't last too long. My friend, along with her 2 DCs aged 1 and 3, is jetting off to Dubai next week with temps of around 43c! Madness!

DappledThings · 31/07/2024 16:42

Probably the same ones who were whining about it being sooooooooo COLD a few months back, having to turn their heating on, and wishing for some nice weather 'so the kids can go out and play' and so they can get out for walks and day trips. You just KNOW it's the same moany feckers who hated the cold, and whinged about all the RAIN. Ya know, the ones who can moan for England, and are never happy!
Nope! That was never me!

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Ilovemyshed · 31/07/2024 16:44

Its awful. If we go away this time of year we go north north north.

YabaJaba · 31/07/2024 16:57

Irishdragon · 31/07/2024 16:15

The weather can’t win here, too hot , too cold , too wet 😂

You forgot the wrong kind of snow!

SirChenjins · 31/07/2024 17:09

Oldfatandfrumpy · 31/07/2024 16:32

We seem to go from one extreme to the other though.

Oh to have a few sunny days of 24/25 rather than this disgusting muggy heat that just makes you feel sticky, tired and thoroughly fed up due to lack of sleep. It doesn't even get much cooler at night

We have that up here. You all need to stop moaning and move up to Scotland 😊 (although after months of really shit weather and v limited daylight in autumn and winter you might change your mind)

AsanteSana · 31/07/2024 17:27

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 31/07/2024 16:20

This! ^ Bloody mood hoovers. Hmm

Probably the same ones who were whining about it being sooooooooo COLD a few months back, having to turn their heating on, and wishing for some nice weather 'so the kids can go out and play' and so they can get out for walks and day trips. You just KNOW it's the same moany feckers who hated the cold, and whinged about all the RAIN. Ya know, the ones who can moan for England, and are never happy! Wink

IT'S JULY! It's SUMMER. ☀ NEWSFLASH!!! It's probably going to be hot! Get a grip FFS! Hmm Go for a walk, sunbathe, go for a swim, go to the beach, do ANYTHING - but stop bloody moaning.

Do you actually realise how utterly pathetic you sound complaining about 'heat' and 'the sun' in JULY?! Give your head a wobble!

Nasty post - those of us who don't like, or struggle with, the heat are unlikely to want to go for a walk in it, sunbathe or go to a beach and roast and cook themselves, because that is exactly what you would be doing! 20 degrees is plenty warm enough for anyone surely? Bring back the overcast skies and precious, life giving rain of earlier this month, rather than blazing sun, elevated temperatures and stifling airlessness we are currently enduring. And, for those of us who have to work outside, alll day, with no shade, in manual, physical occupations, it is hell on earth - plus the land is in need of a good soaking with the accompanying sweet smell of petrichor

RicherThanYews · 31/07/2024 17:36

Wish I'd thought to go to the beach for a swim, what a great idea! Ahh shit, my wheelchair can't access local beaches. Fuck this sun. Bring on the rain.

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