Another child urinated on DS

[Gasbard]

At pick up earlier on 7yo DS came out of school in a pair of shorts. The teacher said “his pants are in his bag, they have wee on them” I thought that’s strange for DS to have had an accident, but nope a boy in year 5 (DS is in year 3) had purposefully urinated all over his pants while DS was in the toilets. It took me a while to get it out of DS as he doesn’t like trouble but DS said the boy pointed his penis at him and then urinated on him. Apparently the boy then said “ooops sorry I can’t control where it goes” then started laughing.

Not only am I fuming that this has happened, but also that the teacher didn’t tell me what had happened. According to another parent this boy has form for bullying and name calling.

I need to go into school tomorrow don’t I?

I'd try taking that further with HT - put in it writing and ask for a meeting- as it really doesn't sound like an accident.

DS did accidentally get urinated on at school year 2 or 3 can't remember- I only knew because one of the parents came over very apologetic offering to buy new shoes/trousers and assuring me school and them were punishing the boy.

The boy had ADHD but no malice in him - and DS had no issue with him. Nether DS or teacher has said anything I had clocked him in PE stuff bottom half - but DS had struggled with accidents so was going to question at home.

I just thoroughly sprayed and washed and checked with DS - same story boys were dicking about having a literal pissing contest and DS had got splashed - when question DS was most indignant but only on questioning - as DH said can you blame him - but he seem to have forgotten about it till then.

Spoke to teacher next day - who wasn't keen to do so - but assured me it was being dealt - all the boys were under no illusions it wasn't acceptable behavior.

My grandson tells us that a certain boy in his class (school nursery) pees on other children (boys and girls) in the toilet area regularly. This boy apparently laughs and thinks it's funny.

He also regularly pulls his trousers down and pees in the outside play area.

At first we put this down to him not being used to the setting/rules. But it has continued all year. The nursery staff say that they are unaware of this behaviour, but my daughter says that it's the main complaint that all the mums have. The toilet area is unsupervised obviously.

My grandson won't go near the toilet area now. He holds it in all day and is in a great rush to get home so he can use the loo.

I don't know how you can accidentally pee on someone else when there are just two individual cubicles for the class, with a tiny nursery toilet in each. There should not be two children in one cubicle.

I don't know the answer - I know that toilet visits cannot be supervised.

Total bullshit.

I'd tell them to look me in the eye and repeat that lie.

Go in and get a clear answer on how they are safe guarding your child.
Now is the time to go nuclear to be honest

Please take this further OP. Your poor child and that is really disturbing behaviour from a year 5.
Do not let them brush this under the carpet. It should be screaming safeguarding at them.
Why are so many, too many schools unwilling to deal with such troubling behaviour?

OP You need to take this further. Book a meeting with the Headteacher and have this down as a safeguarding issue. The school have a duty to keep all pupils safe and the reported event is not an accident, it is an indecent act!
If the school continue to not take the issue seriously then you can report the incident to the safeguarding team at your local council. (This applies regardless as to whether the school is a community school or an academy).