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Insane sexual chemistry with colleague

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Lillywho · 26/06/2024 04:50

Away for a work trip and we work with external companies who also fly out to help on events.

The first day I locked eyes with one of the Managers and the chemistry was just insane. It was like a gravitational pull. I couldn't stop leaning in, laughing and smiling. After two days the nervousness was out of this world and I couldn't think of anything else but him. He's 12 years older than me too, 27 and 39. We are both in happy relationships but I know he felt it too as he was nervous, couldn't stop staring at me and the eye contact was awfully deep.
We've obviously kept it professional and it wouldn't ever go further as we discussed both our family's etc.

Has anyone ever experienced this? I never have until today. I'm now on my flight home and I'm just completely overwhelmed by it all and so disheartened I probably won't see him again as he lives 4 hours away and like I said, both in LTR's.

OP posts:
SadSandwich · 03/11/2024 12:51

FatmanandKnobbin · 26/06/2024 07:36

I had that sort of chemistry with someone once. The second we met we were totally drawn to each other and couldn't stay away.

It was very odd and I've never experienced it before or since.

We were both single so did end up shagging, he lasted about 20 seconds and then cried.

Wish I had kept it as a fantasy.

Love this thanku for sharing - please expand. Why did he cry at what point in the engagement did this happen and what did you do

SadSandwich · 03/11/2024 12:53

AlliumLake · 26/06/2024 10:01

I’m imagining the OP literally learning in, as though she’s been forcibly bent over by magic and is stuck, while laughing, smiling and making Intense Eye Contact with a slightly alarmed man, who is thinking about whether to have a ham or a cheese sandwich for his lunch.

And this is why I love mumsnet 🤣

UmbrellaEllaEllaElla · 03/11/2024 13:13

It is natural and normal. Humans feel attraction and our bodies want to act on it.

But I would reflect on:

  • Are you happy in your relationship?
  • Would you be able to leave your job if you did pursue this (if both single, not in relationships) and it didn't work out well?
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