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Most women don’t like seeing naked men?

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Georgethecat1 · 23/06/2024 21:07

If said woman is interested in men I should add!

Talking about strippers and how a lot of men seem to like the female body / stare at women. Talking in our group of friends and I don’t think women are the same and seeing a man topless does nothing for me. I’m talking super buff and has a good body too, I’m much more attracted based on personality and find the cockiness of thinking they are gods gift to women a turn off.

Only one friend said they love seeing naked / topless men and finds it sexual.

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Savemysweets · 25/06/2024 08:58

I definitely think women do respond to hot men though. When I was younger I was sitting on the tube, minding my own business as you do when I noticed a shift in people’s body language around me. The women started sitting up, flicking hair, pulling the newspaper away from their face etc. The only way to describe it was preening. I was a little confused & I looked up and in the middle of the carriage was a 90s Armani male model type (this was the 90s), he was gorgeous. As I said there just aren’t enough of those types to drool over in the real world.

BigPussyEnergy · 25/06/2024 09:35

Random stripper man, no. I don’t find that over muscled gym bod type attractive at all, I prefer a hairy chested 70s dad type.

However if it was my favourite singer (slightly androgynous) taking his top off on stage I’d find it very sexy, or eg Wolverine. It’s more about the character of the man who’s showing his naked body than the body itself. My last 2 boyfriends have been polar opposites looks wise and I enjoyed looking at both of their naked bodies, the short 17 stone guy and the tall 11 stone one!

BigPussyEnergy · 25/06/2024 09:40

And yeah I do love to look at a penis but probably wouldn’t like a photo of one, even my DP’s. Possibly a video if it’s someone I already have an existing relationship with. Definitely prefer to look at a penis than a vulva. Can’t see why he likes that so much!

PurpleWhiteGreen123 · 25/06/2024 09:41

My mum got Netflix recently and is hooked on Bridgerton. She msgs me rating the male actors' bottoms! She's in her 70s and tbh I'd rather not know. I have to ask her to not objectifying their bums!

I like a toned but not muscly body. I am also in the well-cut-shirt-and-strong-forearm camp. A bit lusty for an open-neck top. But more than that I like men who are kind and make me laugh .

Georgethecat1 · 25/06/2024 12:52

PurpleWhiteGreen123 · 25/06/2024 09:41

My mum got Netflix recently and is hooked on Bridgerton. She msgs me rating the male actors' bottoms! She's in her 70s and tbh I'd rather not know. I have to ask her to not objectifying their bums!

I like a toned but not muscly body. I am also in the well-cut-shirt-and-strong-forearm camp. A bit lusty for an open-neck top. But more than that I like men who are kind and make me laugh .

I hope this is me in my 70s, your mum sounds amazing!

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SammyScrounge · 25/06/2024 14:18

Februaryfeels · 23/06/2024 21:15

I'd rather see a man in a well cut suit or with shirt with sleeves rolled up

I love that too

Scorchio84 · 25/06/2024 14:29

Oh definitely @Februaryfeels 😍

Madrigal12 · 11/10/2024 13:28

Naked, no - in active sportswear, yes - with tiny hints of what might be underneath ?

Mischance · 11/10/2024 15:05

Male genitalia are beyond comic - I am so glad I am not a man.

Scorchio84 · 12/10/2024 02:14

My OH is in various states of undress here, obviously not when my son is... but he's like so relaxed just sitting here in his nip... I could never be like that!

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