Most women don’t like seeing naked men?

[Georgethecat1]

If said woman is interested in men I should add!

Talking about strippers and how a lot of men seem to like the female body / stare at women. Talking in our group of friends and I don’t think women are the same and seeing a man topless does nothing for me. I’m talking super buff and has a good body too, I’m much more attracted based on personality and find the cockiness of thinking they are gods gift to women a turn off.

Only one friend said they love seeing naked / topless men and finds it sexual.

YANBU, ‘buff’ topless men do nothing for me

All of my fantasies have been about men I know, not always good looking but who I had some kind of spark with at the time or piqued my interest in some way.

If they are my dp, yes I do. Random men, no

My husband topless is a turn on. Random men is not.

I’ve never been turned on by a topless or naked man. Like you Op I’m more into personality.

Yeah, I'm not interested in seeing random men without clothes. Need to know if you're nice, funny, interesting and have stuff in common first, otherwise I don't care

Same as you that it would do absolutely nothing for me unless it was David Tenant then it would...

Or my husband I should add 🤣🤣

I'd rather see a man in a well cut suit or with shirt with sleeves rolled up

Well, the attitude of the women I have seen when a male stripper is swinging his willy around seems to show some like it 🤣

YANBU op. Male strippers do nothing for me - my husband does!

I think a buff attractive man is hot. But generally as soon as they start talking it’s a disappointment. Where as a man with a good personality, funny, clever etc will be attractive regardless of how buff they are.

I don’t know, a random nud can be a pleasant surprise

Nakedness, men and women I find a bit cringey. I mean pubic areas, women, and men's willys are actually kind of ugly really. Off looking, both of them.

What I mean by that is that the penis isn't the most beautiful of things is it?

Yes! I have been to a show once that had a stripper for someone’s hen do and loads of women seemed to love it, some got up on stage too!

Oh yeah those dick pics are always a right turn on 😂🤣

I absolutely like looking at hot shirtless men. That doesn't mean I want to date them or marry them. Just look.

Limp dicks aren't all that interesting but hard ones attached to a hot guy are also nice to look at.

Preening and prancing on a stage... no.... happen to catch a glimpse of a hot surfer/ climber/ gardener.... hell yeah!

Oh yes the sleeves rolled up- why is that so sexy?

Does nothing for me. Forget taking your kit off, put extra clothes on please 😁

Agree. Some buff bloke wandering up and down the beach obviously loving himself and looking for attention, I find unattractive. And I couldn’t even begin to find a male strip show a turn on.
Entirely different for men. Put an attractive girl in a bikini and most men in the vicinity will gawp. And a lot of men like strip clubs too and private dances and paid sex. And before all the pearl clutchers say “not my Brian” the sex industry is a multi billion pound global industry. And it’s not women paying for it, it’s men. Not just a few and not just the same ones. It’s far more widespread than many women like to believe.
Men and women are fundamentally different when it comes to sex. If we weren’t, there would be just as many male lap dancing clubs and male brothels. There aren’t because women just wouldn’t find that a turn on. I’ve yet to meet a woman who would enjoy going to a place when she could pick a man and pay £50 for him to shag her. If the demand was there, those places would exist. They don’t.

But is it really though? Once you are married and see someone with their shirt/top off every single morning and night, it really isn’t. For me anyway! Maybe I am the weirdo.

Yeah if I’m ovulating I might give my DH the side eye but the rest of the month I am not bothered 😂

Interestingly my DH said he never gets bored of seeing boobs. Even 15 years later he still loves boobs.

Agree completely, let’s not pretend men and women aren’t different in some ways (generally speaking)

And top button opened so I can see the collar bones (but not half his chest).

For me, seeing a randomer semi/fully naked isn't at all a turn on, because my first instinctive response would be fear. I can't even begin to contemplate whether I might want to have sex with someone until I know them well enough to know i can trust them.

A semi naked, attractive man on a screen (no physical threat) in a romantic sex scene, however? Totally different thing!!

Ps I've been to one hen-do magic Mike style strip show, and most of the women there seemed to be having a good night out with their mates, but they did spend most of the time laughing.