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Is this inappropriate to wear in an office?

148 replies

SugarWatermelonHigh · 14/06/2024 17:08

I bought this top and I love it. I’m going to wear it in with a blazer anyway. But I’m assuming if it gets too hot is it inappropriate?

Is this inappropriate to wear in an office?
OP posts:
Idontjetwashthefucker · 14/06/2024 17:55

Wouldn't be in our office, can wear sleeveless but not strappy

Bluevelvetsofa · 14/06/2024 17:56

What’s the fabric. It looks as though it’s quite heavy fabric, which is at odds with the style.

Im afraid it reminds me of an apron.

FKAT · 14/06/2024 17:58

I don't like it but it's in line with normal summer workwear in any office I've worked in - sleeveless but not too booby. I'm not sure what the issue is with shoulders being on display unless you work in a church in rural Italy.

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 17:59

I think it looks ok. It's not revealing which could cause embarrassment to other colleagues and it looks smart.

buffyslayer · 14/06/2024 17:59

We can't have shoulders out so it depends on your dress code (I do get annoyed in summer when it's hot and I can't wear sandals as no toes allowed out either!)

BobbyBiscuits · 14/06/2024 17:59

It looks totally fine from the front, and I can't see why anyone would be focussing on your back.
In summer this would be fine in most offices I'd imagine. I've never worked anywhere with a dress code other than if we meet clients (very rarely) we wear a jacket/shirt/nice dress and the men wear a suit. As long as it wasn't worn with a really skimpy short skirt, I think it looks professional.

NeatCompactSleeper · 14/06/2024 18:03

Do you have tattoos on your back OP?

That might turn it into a no in some work places.

Sunshineclouds11 · 14/06/2024 18:04

Wouldn't be allowed in my office

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:05

NeatCompactSleeper · 14/06/2024 18:03

Do you have tattoos on your back OP?

That might turn it into a no in some work places.

Tattoos? Why though? These are very common now and accepted.

NeatCompactSleeper · 14/06/2024 18:06

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:05

Tattoos? Why though? These are very common now and accepted.

No point in asking me, I don't make the rules 🤷‍♂️

Treestumpp · 14/06/2024 18:06

They are indeed very common.

KateDelRick · 14/06/2024 18:07

It looks like the top half of a butcher's apron.
I can't think where you'd wear it.

EternalSunshine19 · 14/06/2024 18:08

GuinnessBird · 14/06/2024 17:14

What does it look like from the front?

This is what i was going to say. The back is no different to a racer vest. What is the front like?

Echobelly · 14/06/2024 18:08

I'm not seeing any problem with it. I worked in a quite smart big commercial real estate office and no one would have looked askance at something like that there.

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:08

NeatCompactSleeper · 14/06/2024 18:06

No point in asking me, I don't make the rules 🤷‍♂️

Of course. What i mean is tattoos are commonly accepted everywhere. It would be abnormal nowadays to not accept tattoos.

idril · 14/06/2024 18:10

Depends on your work but that would be fine on a hot day in my office.

Newnamedillydally · 14/06/2024 18:15

Would be absolutely fine at my office. Majority of us not customer facing so pretty much anything goes.

SugarWatermelonHigh · 14/06/2024 18:15

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:05

Tattoos? Why though? These are very common now and accepted.

Yeah but they aren’t though. I don’t mind them at all but it’s naive to think you won’t get discriminated by some people for them.

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Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:18

SugarWatermelonHigh · 14/06/2024 18:15

Yeah but they aren’t though. I don’t mind them at all but it’s naive to think you won’t get discriminated by some people for them.

Really discriminated? Tattoos have been around for years. Where are you th a t you would be discriminated? This sounds incredible and awful.

Aallvtirin · 14/06/2024 18:19

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:08

Of course. What i mean is tattoos are commonly accepted everywhere. It would be abnormal nowadays to not accept tattoos.

They are accepted more widely these days but by no means are 'commonly accepted everywhere'

Noseyoldcow · 14/06/2024 18:20

If you're not exposing your back by wearing a jacket over it or wearing something underneath then yes in the office. Otherwise no. But bare backs are fine out of the office and in the right situation. Are you Meghan Markle?

Aallvtirin · 14/06/2024 18:23

Noseyoldcow · 14/06/2024 18:20

If you're not exposing your back by wearing a jacket over it or wearing something underneath then yes in the office. Otherwise no. But bare backs are fine out of the office and in the right situation. Are you Meghan Markle?

What does Meghan Markle have to do with this 🤣🤣😆😆

whatsitcalledwhen · 14/06/2024 18:23

@Treestumpp

But she does give a shiny shite and that's why shes asking. If not men, then it'll be bitchy women saying OMG have you seen her top.

Where on earth do you work that anyone would act as if they need to alert the church elders about a bit of shoulder on show? Would it really be 'OMG' / bitching inducing? Seems a bit dramatic tbh.

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 18:24

Aallvtirin · 14/06/2024 18:19

They are accepted more widely these days but by no means are 'commonly accepted everywhere'

No, they are commonly accepted everywhere and have been for some time.

Where on earth are you?

Treestumpp · 14/06/2024 18:25

whatsitcalledwhen · 14/06/2024 18:23

@Treestumpp

But she does give a shiny shite and that's why shes asking. If not men, then it'll be bitchy women saying OMG have you seen her top.

Where on earth do you work that anyone would act as if they need to alert the church elders about a bit of shoulder on show? Would it really be 'OMG' / bitching inducing? Seems a bit dramatic tbh.

So why is she asking then?! If it's not to men or to women then to whom may it be inappropriate? The photocopier?!

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