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I think my friend has been arrested? So worried

112 replies

Horrified14 · 14/06/2024 15:07

Yesterday the police came to my door asking about the whereabouts of my male friend.I rang my friend and he said 2 youths had turned up at his door calling him a peado and trying to break in and threatening him with violence. He said he ran out the back door and ran away. He sounded terrified and told me he has no idea why they were there and he hasn't done anything. He spoke to the police and said he wanted to speak to them because he was so scared. They told him they would pick him up in police car.This was yesterday afternoon and I've not heard from him since.I've been to his house and there was a police notice half sticking out of his letterbox saying they have taken away all his phones and laptop etc and some cannabis (he smokes for himself, not a dealer). I just rang police because I'm so worried about him. He not in his house. Curtains are drawn which is v unusual.I was panicking he might be lying dead in the house or been attacked.Police have said 'he is safe and well and we know where he is' but can't tell me more. This sounds like he is in custody doesn't it? I'm now thinking he must have done something very serious? Or they have found something? It sounds like he may be in custody from yesterday, overnight and all today?? This sounds very serious doesn't it?I'm trying to think of reasons why they would keep him in custody if it was all a misunderstanding? I cant think of any.

OP posts:
blacksax · 15/06/2024 09:14

StMarieforme · 14/06/2024 22:11

My daughter has severe mental health problems, and currently no friends. Judgemental people like you have made her worse over the years.

I'm not judgemental. I have ASD and find it impossible to make friends myself. You have misconstrued my post.

ZadelRoad · 15/06/2024 12:21

aerkfjherf · 14/06/2024 15:19

also, he smokes cannabis, so you know just from that he's cool with a little bit of child trafficking and modern slavery, so what more do you need to know?

What in the actual.....???
I smoke it too and that's a fucking long bow to draw. Mine is supplied by a chemist on prescription.. But not all who grow and supply do any other dodgy things... What a defamation case waiting to happen. Watch who you accuse of that in real life or I'm sure you'll say it to the wrong person one day.

aerkfjherf · 15/06/2024 13:02

ZadelRoad · 15/06/2024 12:21

What in the actual.....???
I smoke it too and that's a fucking long bow to draw. Mine is supplied by a chemist on prescription.. But not all who grow and supply do any other dodgy things... What a defamation case waiting to happen. Watch who you accuse of that in real life or I'm sure you'll say it to the wrong person one day.

Edited

I dont care who I say it to in real life- the cannabis industry is a highly organised criminal industry, built on the back of forced child labour

this is a fact- sorry if you find it an uncomfortable fact but it is true

There are thousands of children trafficked into the Uk and worked as slaves, without proper nutrition, without education and without medical care

I'll sing it from the rooftops regularly until it stops.

Anyone who tries to stop me is clearly showing themselves to be in favour of child trafficking and modern slavery, cos why would they have a problem with it being called out if they weren't?

Frasers · 15/06/2024 13:24

aerkfjherf · 15/06/2024 13:02

I dont care who I say it to in real life- the cannabis industry is a highly organised criminal industry, built on the back of forced child labour

this is a fact- sorry if you find it an uncomfortable fact but it is true

There are thousands of children trafficked into the Uk and worked as slaves, without proper nutrition, without education and without medical care

I'll sing it from the rooftops regularly until it stops.

Anyone who tries to stop me is clearly showing themselves to be in favour of child trafficking and modern slavery, cos why would they have a problem with it being called out if they weren't?

Omg are you still havering on.😂

ZadelRoad · 15/06/2024 13:34

aerkfjherf · 15/06/2024 13:02

I dont care who I say it to in real life- the cannabis industry is a highly organised criminal industry, built on the back of forced child labour

this is a fact- sorry if you find it an uncomfortable fact but it is true

There are thousands of children trafficked into the Uk and worked as slaves, without proper nutrition, without education and without medical care

I'll sing it from the rooftops regularly until it stops.

Anyone who tries to stop me is clearly showing themselves to be in favour of child trafficking and modern slavery, cos why would they have a problem with it being called out if they weren't?

Oh I don't find anything uncomfortable at all.
But I find you a bit OTT but keep sprouting.. Saying someone is in direct support of trafficking in this manner could be defamatory. But you do you. Nothing you have said has changed my mind about using my prescription as needed but it sure is entertaining reading your posts... Completely mental.

ZadelRoad · 15/06/2024 13:38

Frasers · 15/06/2024 13:24

Omg are you still havering on.😂

😂
Oh let her "sing from the rooftops", it's entertaining if nothing else .. 🤷‍♀️
It's always funny when people protest about stuff and spend time saying how much they will fight for a cause while doing absolutely nothing in real life apart from carrying on invisibly on a forum full of random strangers and think they're doing their part...

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/06/2024 13:40

blacksax · 14/06/2024 16:52

'I am his only friend'

Really? That in itself tells a story.

I'm an introvert and don't have a lot of friends (my choice). I wasn't aware that makes me a suspect for CA crimes.

Pasithean · 15/06/2024 13:46

aerkfjherf · 14/06/2024 15:19

also, he smokes cannabis, so you know just from that he's cool with a little bit of child trafficking and modern slavery, so what more do you need to know?

What ?????????????

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/06/2024 14:10

Pasithean · 15/06/2024 13:46

What ?????????????

https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/cannabis-farms-are-a-modern-slavery-blind-spot-for-uk-police-study-suggests

Info here. A lot of Vietnamese, for some reason

CaptainMyCaptain · 15/06/2024 14:17

TheTartfulLodger · 14/06/2024 21:23

Unless you know for a fact that OPs friend only ever buys his cannabis specifically from organised cannabis factories linked directly to child trafficking and slavery, then you absolutely are derailing the thread.

It's happening on a wide scale. Not just children trafficked in from abroad but 'nice' kids from ordinary families who think they've got a job - until it gets nasty. It's starts with selling dodgy vapes.

CaptainMyCaptain · 15/06/2024 14:19

ZadelRoad · 15/06/2024 13:34

Oh I don't find anything uncomfortable at all.
But I find you a bit OTT but keep sprouting.. Saying someone is in direct support of trafficking in this manner could be defamatory. But you do you. Nothing you have said has changed my mind about using my prescription as needed but it sure is entertaining reading your posts... Completely mental.

What have prescription medicines got to do with it?

MissMoneyFairy · 15/06/2024 15:38

Any news op, if he is innocent I hope he's OK and safe. I don't know why the police would seize property without good cause though. Can you go to his local police station and see if he is there.

KomodoOhno · 15/06/2024 18:04

ZadelRoad · 15/06/2024 12:21

What in the actual.....???
I smoke it too and that's a fucking long bow to draw. Mine is supplied by a chemist on prescription.. But not all who grow and supply do any other dodgy things... What a defamation case waiting to happen. Watch who you accuse of that in real life or I'm sure you'll say it to the wrong person one day.

Edited

It's perfectly legal where I live. We have special pharmacies that sell it. We gave to my father on doctors orders when he was dying.

coolkatt · 15/06/2024 18:05

He will
Be in court tomorrow prob

ConsideringNC · 15/06/2024 18:08

aerkfjherf · 14/06/2024 15:19

also, he smokes cannabis, so you know just from that he's cool with a little bit of child trafficking and modern slavery, so what more do you need to know?

Huh. Maybe he grows his own? Plenty do.

ZadelRoad · 16/06/2024 04:36

CaptainMyCaptain · 15/06/2024 14:19

What have prescription medicines got to do with it?

Had you read it, my cannabis is on prescription. I get the stuff from a chemist with a prescription and smoke that... Not all cannabis users buy from dodgy dealers so saying someone supports child trafficking just because they smoke pot is a long bow to draw... (Even then not all weed comes from dealers who get it from child traffickers either.. It's a MASSIVE assumption.)

CalicoPusscat · 16/06/2024 04:57

@aerkfjherf can you start your own thread? It's a bit tiresome to read on a thread about something else. A few posters have said smoking weed could be homegrown or sourced through medical channels which go against your blanket statement. And no I don't smoke weed but it's just not what the thread is about.

@Horrified14 I would have thought that an accusation by a minor was enough to trigger an investigation; try not to worry at this point, either there won't be any evidence or there are things about him that you were unaware of.

CaptainMyCaptain · 16/06/2024 08:24

ZadelRoad · 16/06/2024 04:36

Had you read it, my cannabis is on prescription. I get the stuff from a chemist with a prescription and smoke that... Not all cannabis users buy from dodgy dealers so saying someone supports child trafficking just because they smoke pot is a long bow to draw... (Even then not all weed comes from dealers who get it from child traffickers either.. It's a MASSIVE assumption.)

This is completely irrelevant to the OP's friend unless he also gets it on prescription which I think she would have mentioned.

ZadelRoad · 16/06/2024 12:12

CaptainMyCaptain · 16/06/2024 08:24

This is completely irrelevant to the OP's friend unless he also gets it on prescription which I think she would have mentioned.

She might not know. We don't all have to inform our friends or acquaintances of our medical history so another assumption by someone with their own generalising agender.. Either way the point was not all people who smoke pot contribute to child trafficking. But keep going with your conspiracies. It's entertaining if nothing else. Though I do worry about a couple of you and your mental state getting so worked up about things you read on the internet so making sweeping generalisations bout...good for you I'd love to be that bored with that much time on my hands...keep fighting your fight.

CaptainMyCaptain · 16/06/2024 13:19

I'm giving up as this is a waste of time and of no help to the OP but my information is not off the Internet but from someone actually working with the exploited children.

Tulipvase · 16/06/2024 13:32

Why did random children know his address and that’s he’s a (suspected) paedo? Also as asked before, why did the police have your details? Sorry if I’ve missed that info.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 16/06/2024 14:12

@Horrified14

It's almost 48 hours now, do you know where your friend is ?

AmelieTaylor · 16/06/2024 14:20

Horrified14 · 14/06/2024 16:40

I dont have any kids. I am his only friend. He was frantic last time I spoke to him. The police came to my house. I thought he might be dead inside his house.
I think it was fine to read the note

@Horrified14

you know your relationship with your friend, other posters do not, my friends could read the note if it was me & id read it if it was them. MNers often have a loose relationship with the term friend.

I hope you hear from him soon and it turns out to be someone trying to cause mother/mistaken address or whatever.

Marrta · 16/06/2024 14:36

I don't think your friend would have told you if he was not innocent

Hotttchoc · 16/06/2024 14:38

I think it was a bit out of order for you to read his post but hopefully you find out what happened soon.

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